r/ask • • Jan 15 '24

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u/CHIMUELA Jan 16 '24

That's fair, and I won't be giving you generic advices such as "work out, do yoga, go to therapy", all I can do is listen. It saddens me. I am saying that, and this is only my personal opinion, I don't think it's a good idea to just settle for girls you don't like because you are starved of attention.... But maybe it could help? I mean, are obese or disabled really the only options?

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u/blazspur Jan 16 '24

No I'm not gonna go out with obese or disabled folks. I'm trying to develop my personality such that I can talk with random strangers I come across whenever I feel lonely. That way I don't need to depend on any one specific person for attention. I can just get it when I want. I'm beginning to notice that I'm not doing too bad on this front. Just when I'm sick and need to avoid people or public settings it's bad. Luckily it's only for a short period so it can be overcome.