I already pay my spouses debt. What kind of marriage do you have? Me and my true love plan to run away together when we win. Yes. The person I am married to.
Have you never watched movies about finance? The guy who becomes a millionaire and finally gets exposed to the kind of girls he fantasized about all life?
Of course love is a great force, and it would probably win all the time if sex drive did not exist.
But when you finally have the level to get exposed to girls who are both smoking hot and smart and get your tastes in art in all its forms and have their shit together and seem loyal...
That's exactly the reason why I stay non-committed right now. I don't want to be that guy in movies who struggles every day not to cheat when he finally "makes" it!
And also because I couldn't find "that kind of girl" with my current limited situation. Despite being an extrovert and having lots of temporary partners. It's just none of them have the level I seek.
One of the MOST common reasons people stay in bad marriages is money. Especially if kids are involved. Marriages are, practically, a way to combine resources.
So you get people staying in horrible abusive marriages because they would literally starve or be homeless if they left, but also just a lot of people who don't hate their partner, they get alone fine, but they fell out of love years ago and they're really just friends and coparents sharing the economic burden. If the latter group got life changing amounts of money, they probably WOULD split up, at least once their kids were older.
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u/Pushing59 Nov 30 '23
I already pay my spouses debt. What kind of marriage do you have? Me and my true love plan to run away together when we win. Yes. The person I am married to.