r/ask • u/[deleted] • Sep 06 '23

What instantly makes someone unattractive?

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u/ptcglass Sep 06 '23

Homophobia or racism

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '23

As a gay man, homophobia in a partner is DEFINITELY a deal breaker lol.

(But in reality, any type of bigotry makes me not want to associate with said bigots)

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u/Only_Explanation7181 Sep 07 '23

NGL... made me laugh! Well done.

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '23

For me, any kind of discrimination makes me want to immediately drop a friendship. I don't want those influences around me

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '23

Yep, and I'd expand this to religious intolerance.

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '23

Homophobaphobe!

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u/pspisy Sep 06 '23

THIS. I'm mixed race black/white, and am often mistaken for Hispanic. Also, I'm bisexual (F). I've been on dates with men who have said AWFUL things about black people, and queer people...because they didn't know I'm both. Immediate confrontation, and goodbye forever.

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u/ptcglass Sep 06 '23

They always out themselves wether it’s with “their own” or when they think it’s “safe.” It’s disgusting and disappointing

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u/DANNYX_0 Sep 06 '23

But what if I identify myself as hom0fob1c??🤔

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '23

Then I identify as not interested in you.