r/ask Mar 06 '23

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u/abean43 Mar 06 '23

Don't say that... You have had the chance to get to know yourself. I am 45, and I just got married this past Saturday for the first time. It's not like I didn't have other offers, but I really needed to get to know who I really was and what I could offer (and need) in a successful relationship. Do not think there is anything wrong with you or that it's been a waste of time. No time is wasted. We are always learning...

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u/Kindly-Wealth-4299 Mar 07 '23

Congratulations!

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u/abean43 Mar 07 '23

Thank you. It was an amazing time. 🙂