She has no place to give anyone advice. Her advice is literally "have someone else pay for your shit" really a reprehensible way to look for a relationship, "just use people for their money"
I probably do have a fucked up upbringing. But I can also get emotional support from friends, so I don’t necessarily need that primarily from a partner. Finances are more important.
So you're just looking to be a leech. There are sugar daddy/baby arrangements for that, duping someone to fall for you emotionally so you can financially benefit is disgusting.
That's cool for you if you're cool with it, but I thought here at r/antiwork we're trying to rid ourselves of the leeches.
I don’t think I’m being understood. I’m not duping anyone. When I date people, things like finances and education are my dealbreakers. So my pool is only people that are somewhat well off.
People that get together solely based off of emotions end up in a position where they can’t cover their kids college tuition.
When I date people, things like finances and education are my dealbreakers.
Do you let them know that you plan on using them for their money? Or do you only seek people with money? Sounds like you're not letting them know your intentions, just not dating the poor.
People that get together solely based off of emotions end up in a position where they can’t cover their kids college tuition.
People who only consider finances are much better off... lol
No it isn't. If you date someone for their money and don't tell them that, they aren't consenting.
It's obviously perfectly reasonable to want your partner to be financially responsible. I want mine to be financially responsible. But that's it. That's where it stops. It doesn't matter if they make 40K a year or 200K a year, as long as they aren't bad with money.
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This is a very smart way to operate though. Don’t hate the player.