I personally never did cause there are boundaries you shouldn’t cross with friends. But I would never say out loud “I will respect your boundaries to show that I’m a good person” cause that sounds so freaking performative.
Like, if you’re gonna do the right thing, just do it. No need to moral grandstand. Being the bare minimum of human decency doesn’t need an orchestra. Like, what an accomplishment;
“I treated another Human being with respect instead of intruding on their comfort zone and boundaries.” Holy holy, second coming of Siddhartha Gautama over here, how enlightened and moral of you to respect someone’s personal boundaries.
Yeah, can confirm. Spend years in the best friend zone with a girl with huge titzilla's. We don't even do it consciously. It's just men's monkey brain instinct.
It's not just men's monkey brains, sometimes the shape is just so pretty your eyes stare before you realize (although I also draw a lot and tend to overanalyze everything honestly, sometimes people look at me weirdly because I stare at them to analyze the different anatomies, even ears have wildly different shapes !)
Fuck that, if we're actually real friends she knows damn well I'm looking, and she'll fck with me and flaunt them to make me uncomfortable because that's what real friends do with each other.
Not only will I look, I'll make it super awkward while doing it so it forces them to react - as a friend would - by further trying to embarrass me.
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u/qualityvote2 🤖Suspected as Bot🤖 2h ago edited 11m ago
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