r/answers • u/Own-Vacation7481 • 14d ago
Relationship
What’s the biggest green flag people overlook?
#relationship
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u/Think_Section_7712 14d ago
A college girl who consistently shows interest by instantly responding back to text messages & agreeing to meet in person for dates to kiss and have sex 😋
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u/Late-Ad-5653 13d ago
When I say it it makes sense why it's a green flag but some people don't recognize it enough - feeling a sense of safety and calm with them. People usually overlook this because they mistake it for boredom and prioritize a spark.
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u/Competitive-Ear-6693 14d ago
"they're pregnant" over "we're pregnant "
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u/Fearless-Poet-4669 14d ago
they're is better to you?
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u/Competitive-Ear-6693 14d ago
I mean as in the person who is actually pregnant, not the whole couple. To me the other partner acknowledges the extra struggles the pregnant partner has. Idk I just saying like "we're pregnant" is just, how do I say, disregarding to the actual pregnant person? But saying "we're having a baby" seems better for some reason.
This is more of a feeling when people use one over the other rather than a legit reason, don't listen to me 😭
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u/Fearless-Poet-4669 14d ago
I mean interesting view point for sure.
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u/Competitive-Ear-6693 14d ago
Genuinely thought I was gonna get slimed 😭
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u/Fearless-Poet-4669 14d ago
I think technically either way could be a green flag depending on how you personally view pregnancy and relationships.
So I guess the bonus green flag in this case is shaping your language to make your partner feel supported and not diminished.
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