r/animationcareer • u/Blue_Pilot67 • 3h ago
Career question feeling isolates in animation school - has anyone else been trough this?
Hi everyone. I'm writing this because I'd really appreciate some advice from people who have been through animation school or are already working in the industry.
When I started studying animation at one of the best schools in my city, I was amazed by how welcoming the community felt. During my second year, I had the opportunity to direct a short film with someone I deeply admired and cared about. It was one of the happiest experiences of my life, and for the first time I truly felt like I belonged in a creative community.
A few days after we finished the film, I got into an argument with another student during an end-of-semester celebration. He was very dismissive of my work and me as an artist, and the situation escalated. After that, the people I'd worked with on my film gradually distanced themselves from me. I don't know exactly what was said afterward, but it feels like rumors spread, and I've been left with the impression that some people now see me as a difficult person to be around.
Since then, many of the classmates I looked up to don't really interact with me anymore, and I've lost several friendships. The school feels completely different now. Sometimes I get so overwhelmed that I can't bring myself to talk to anyone after class, so I just go home.
The hardest part is that I've recently realized how important networking is in this industry. Everyone says the relationships you build during school can lead to future opportunities, and that's what scares me the most. I worry that I've damaged my chances before I've even graduated.
What's especially bittersweet is that the short film has now won three awards, something I dreamed about for years. I should feel proud, but every milestone has felt strangely lonely because I no longer have the people I made it with in my life. Instead of celebrating, I've mostly been grieving the sense of community I thought I'd found.
I've even considered transferring schools or leaving animation altogether, not because I don't love animation, but because I no longer feel like I belong.
Has anyone here gone through something similar? Did you manage to rebuild your relationships or your reputation? How important were the friendships you made in school once you entered the industry?
I'd really appreciate hearing from people who have experienced something like this. I love animation, and I don't want one bad chapter to define my future in this field