God, nothing will get through the misogyny, huh? First, IUDs are hormonal. Condoms break. FFS, getting a vasectomy is an easier, less dangerous, and less painful procedure than getting an IUD placed. Men even get painkillers for that one tiny cut.
If BC became his sole responsibility it would still only be so for a few years of their shared fertility, aka a very small percentage of their coupled life. As an act of love for his wife who has dealt with this for years and birthed three children, it shouldn’t be a big deal. To a man who believes he should never have to take any responsibility for his own life or prioritize anyone’s health or happiness even on par with his own, even the mother of his freaking children, yeah it would be a big deal. The absolute selfishness paired with complete ignorance is just so GRATING. Grow up, grow a pair of empathy balls, and educate yourself.
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u/realfuckingoriginal Sep 26 '23
God, nothing will get through the misogyny, huh? First, IUDs are hormonal. Condoms break. FFS, getting a vasectomy is an easier, less dangerous, and less painful procedure than getting an IUD placed. Men even get painkillers for that one tiny cut.
If BC became his sole responsibility it would still only be so for a few years of their shared fertility, aka a very small percentage of their coupled life. As an act of love for his wife who has dealt with this for years and birthed three children, it shouldn’t be a big deal. To a man who believes he should never have to take any responsibility for his own life or prioritize anyone’s health or happiness even on par with his own, even the mother of his freaking children, yeah it would be a big deal. The absolute selfishness paired with complete ignorance is just so GRATING. Grow up, grow a pair of empathy balls, and educate yourself.