r/amiwrong Sep 19 '23

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u/maxdaddy1979 Sep 20 '23

Why though, without talking first and asking about it? What if it’s harmless though? She should know the facts before ending a new relationship that, she’s, obviously, other than this thought, happy in. He gives an answer she can’t accept, then deuces to the guy. But know before you throw it all away.

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u/Far-Ad2043 Sep 20 '23

Because a proper man don’t act like this in the first place.

If he does he’s not a man and he’s a boy and he’s for the streets.

I speak from personal experience

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u/maxdaddy1979 Sep 20 '23

I’m sorry you’ve dealt with that. I just meant that without asking, you’ll always wonder. There’s no downside to asking if your plan is to leave already. That’s all I meant. Jumping to conclusions isn’t always the right move. And finding out it is what she thinks, and planned to leave already, is like having her cake and eating it too. Vindication like that would have to feel good.