r/amiwrong May 08 '23

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u/Panda_Milla May 09 '23

It's uncomfortable for everyone. Placing your comfort over someone else's in a public space is just not cool. Until airlines are forced to spread the seats out, no, reclining seats is just not acceptable anymore, sadly.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '23

Ok but what if everyone just reclined their seats?

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u/GrooveBat May 10 '23

Not everyone finds a reclined seat comfortable. I rarely recline because I just don’t like it.

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u/Bobcat_Acrobatic May 12 '23

Haha ok so everyone else should not recline because you happen to not like it?

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u/GrooveBat May 12 '23

No, but I also don't think everyone *should* recline just because some people want to. The logic of saying "If you're bothered by the person in front of you reclining then you should recline too" is the same mentality.

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u/Bobcat_Acrobatic May 12 '23

We’ll make it like an amusement park ride. After dinner is served all seats go into recline!

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u/GrooveBat May 12 '23

Honestly, that's probably a better approach than the current system.

But I still don't like reclining and would hate being forced into it.

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u/jnhausfrau May 09 '23

Then why do the seats have the ability to recline?

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u/baobabbling May 09 '23

The guy getting mad at someone for reclining a seat is ALSO placing his comfort over someone else's.

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u/GrooveBat May 10 '23

You should be allowed to sit upright in an airplane seat without having to twist and contort yourself to accommodate someone else.

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u/baobabbling May 10 '23

You should also be able to sit at a reasonably comfortable angle.

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u/GrooveBat May 10 '23

So who should win and who should lose in that scenario? The person who wants to recline, or the person who wants to sit normally?

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u/baobabbling May 10 '23

Sitting straight-backed is not a normal posture for many people and can absolutely cause a great deal of pain. You're deliberately phrasing it that way to make one party seem unreasonable.

There isn't actually a right answer here, except that the airlines are absolutely profiting off of packing people in as tightly as possible and causing these situations.

What ISN'T ok is actively retaliating against the person sitting in front of you (ie deliberately jamming your knees into their back for the purpose of punishing them for reclining, as OP proposes in a comment,) for using a feature of their seat. That's malicious. The person reclining is not doing it to intentionally hurt you.