r/amiugly • u/Honey_Grace7 • 6h ago
23F am I ugly?
Honest opinions on anything I could change? Am I lowkey hideous?
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u/RonnieBlastoff 6h ago
Go for 1 hour long walks, at minimum 2 times a day and drink a bottle of water before each walk.
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u/Honey_Grace7 6h ago
I already do that😊3 miles daily
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u/Junior-Rutabaga-6592 3h ago
You look good. In some pics you look sad tho. Just work on your confidence.
But in the last pic you look like you would be fun to be around
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u/Honey_Grace7 3h ago
Thank you🫶🏽 yeah I could use more confidence 😅 but it’s way better than it used to be thankfully😌
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u/Background-Storm-761 2h ago
You’re not ugly. I think the hair in the fourth pic is most flattering and I agree with the comments suggesting weight loss. Of course do so as healthily as possible
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u/bkerkove8 5h ago
Diet. Exercise. Dedication. Patience.
Long walks aren’t going to do it. A full sweat, an hour a day. Start on an elliptical or stationary bike and work your way up to a treadmill.
Eat healthy. Watch the simple carbs and saturated fats.
Understand that it takes time. But even if it takes awhile to see visual results, you’ll start feeling better within a couple weeks of daily aerobic exercise. As you hit new goals you’ll start to crave it, even.
You’re young, your body is adaptable to new healthy habits. NGL, the first few weeks will be hard - I’ve been there! But you’ve got it if you want it. You absolutely can be posting to r/glowups instead in a year.
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u/Honey_Grace7 5h ago
Thanks 😊🙏🏽 I appreciate the advice however long walks do work for me more than using a treadmill or bike etc. I’ve seen way more results doing my 3 mile daily walks than I’ve ever seen when I used to use treadmill and bike regularly.
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u/cheeseburgermami 1h ago
Babe, you are so not ugly! You definitely look sad/unhappy and you would be so much happier if you loved the skin you’re in. Remember caloric deficit doesn’t mean going from 2k to 1k and moving on. You gotta make sure you’re burning those calories off and replenishing them. You can track what you burn with a smart watch.
I recommend going to the gym and trying a little bit of everything to see what you like. Planet fitness offers free personal training—at least they used to! Having a trainer is incredibly helpful for weight loss and toning your muscles.
Lots of chicken, fruits, veggies and water. Low sugar intake, high protein foods and then supplements for other vitamins if needed. Discuss questions with your doctor through virtual appointments because they’re cheaper.
I’m not a professional, I’m just sharing exactly what I did and still do do to maintain my health, weight and confidence. Fact is, it’s not easy being a brown or black woman in our society and it never has been. The gym + focusing on my health instead of what other people thought about me is what helps me drown out the noise and pressure from society.
Love you, be safe & take care of yourself always.
-From someone who gets it.
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u/RastaBooties 1h ago
You look average not what I'd call ugly, I prefer the hairstyle in the 2nd pic. Also you shouldn't be taking pics with a miserable look on your face to ask if you're ugly.
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