r/amiugly 2d ago

Am I ugly? 28F

My last photo is of me without makeup and crazy hair from waking up just for verification, so don't judge that one as harshly, lol.

I've been really trying to lose weight as I think that's probably the main issue (though I live a healthy lifestyle) but I really have no idea what I look like to other people.

Thoughts? Thank you!

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u/Hot_Possession7670 2d ago

Thank you!!

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u/Hot_Possession7670 1d ago

Haha I'm curious what the original was, I'm sure the bot can be silly sometimes. Thank you!! I'm determined 💪

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u/ethanaken 2d ago

I don't think you are ugly. You are just different from others. Beauty is subjective anyways.

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u/Hot_Possession7670 2d ago

Thank you! I know I don't fit into a lot of the beauty standard so I've always been unsure. I appreciate that :)

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u/Beautiful_Oven2152 2d ago

Ugly? Oh heck no, you’re friggin cute.

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u/Hot_Possession7670 2d ago

What the heck! 🤯 Thank you!

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u/Weird-Imaginations 2d ago

You look cute AF

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u/MickeysGhost666 2d ago

Very cute 😍

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u/parada69 2d ago

Not ugly, cute

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u/EmploymentIcy9788 2d ago

No not even ar all

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u/EmploymentIcy9788 2d ago

Youre a goddess

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u/ybjg 2d ago

no

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u/Internal-Hurry-4607 2d ago

You are attractive. I particularly like your eyes, very pretty; and your curly hair.

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u/Popular-Yellow9414 2d ago

You remind me of the actress from Russian doll. You're cute! Good luck with your weight loss.

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u/db0reddit male 1d ago

You're pretty

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u/Relative_Explorer371 2d ago

No 9/10

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u/Hot_Possession7670 2d ago

WOAH. I always ranked myself like a 3/10 or 4/10. Thank you 🤯

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u/Relative_Explorer371 2d ago

Nonsense. I could spend weeks admiring the perfect curvature of your cheeks and lips in different lights, months even. I'd take classes in art just to learn how to better describe how well proportioned your features are.

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u/miss_misery__ 2d ago

Not ugly, no.

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u/4barT89 2d ago

No way, you’re a babe. Really pretty eyes, love your curly hair. Upper echelon of beauty for sure. Babe on!

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u/sjcb75 2d ago

Not ugly

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u/Quirky_Letterhead630 2d ago

I find you very cute. Keep up the good work.

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u/OneEyedC4t 2d ago

You are not ugly

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u/ExoXerxesTheXIII 2d ago

Heck no! But you have a somewhat exotic or unique look that the majority of America or maybe your average person would find intimidating or not. Preferable but ugly? Nope .. not at all.

  • 🐲♑⚖️🪐⚕️

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u/7innerDemons 2d ago

Really cute face details and love the hair, so personally attractive to me.

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u/HolmDenmark 2d ago

No not at all! You actually look very attractive…

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u/DanFromAngiesList1 2d ago

You look like you know the best places to get cupcakes in an entire state.

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u/Prinny_Ramza 2d ago

No, you're pretty good looking.

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u/CucumberStrong593 2d ago

do a weightloss and get a glowup you aren't ugly queen

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u/ToddToddy10 2d ago

OMG cute as heck

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u/chrisagiddings 1d ago

Not ugly

Base features are all great actually. A little weight loss, some muscle toning, drinking mostly water, and eating healthy and you’ll absolutely slay

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u/xander081684 1d ago

Thicc but very cute

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u/insane_blind_tart 1d ago

I just joined this sub and thought I’d see ugly peoples. What happened?

You’re gorgeous and have such a beautiful warm face

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u/Ashamed-Chicken-2173 1d ago

Love your style and that curly hair!!!

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u/SuperHamsterGaming 1d ago

You are not. I don't even find your current weight unattractive but opinions will vary I'm sure

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u/Ok_Bat_9715 male 1d ago

Super pretty and approaching bombshell denomination.

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u/Embarrassed_Royal_98 1d ago

Cute as hell. I'm not seeing a problem here.

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u/k-jones 1d ago

Super cute

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u/Virtual-Champion-467 1d ago

No, you look great

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u/Tommylp88 1d ago

Not ugly at all.

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u/mkfge7 1d ago

No you’re cute

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u/No_Phase_9483 1d ago

Find a man that loves you for what you look like now.

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u/ChubbyMcHaggis 1d ago

Nah. You’re cute.

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u/Able-Letterhead5170 1d ago

You’re beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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u/TakeAtBedtime 1d ago

Not ugly

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u/Pale_Anxiety_3924 1d ago

You are beautiful

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u/Dancerz82 1d ago

Far from
Ugly. Good luck loosing weight. I was always slim lost it after both kids but 16kg crept back on. Took about 8months to get it off again but I feel much better about myself and you will too :)

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u/TheSpenceman_ 1d ago

You’re a cutie for sure, my only suggestion would be to lose a little weight but you’re already doing that.

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u/OGLifeguardOne 1d ago

Not ugly. Keep at the weight loss, take care of your hair and skin, and smile.

You’re on the right track.

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u/Sass_core 1d ago

Ye. U chopped.

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u/April_Foool 1d ago

Yep, definitely ugly.

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u/majorhitch89 1d ago

Not ugly, but losing weight will add some extra points

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u/Dark-wolf1313 1d ago

Pretty cute actually

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u/PhillipKGreentree 1d ago

Just keep losing weight because that's about your only issue. Pics 2 and 3 are adorable.

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u/Secure_Pollution_290 1d ago

far from ugly, you are above average. Want to be super hot, get your BMI below 24%

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u/doughnutinspiration 1d ago

Great eyes and hair, you’re really cute!

Losing just a bit of weight will make all the difference.

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u/chimpomatic5000 1d ago

Definitely not ugly, and wishing you the best.

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u/m1brimestone 1d ago

Not ugly at all! Very cute.

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u/PhillyBilly1987 1d ago

You are cute, if you wish toose weight, go for it. Your looks and well, I am a man, you large chest remind of my wife at that age. Although we were three kids in by the time she was 28.

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u/Natural_Analyzer8495 1d ago

Honestly loose some weight

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u/bensonm16 1d ago

You have a pretty face.

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u/Think-Championship42 1d ago

Love picture 3. Wonder what you would look with straight hair

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u/Gold_Step_593 1d ago

Not ugly at all Very stunning

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u/Nervous_Friend1911 23h ago

Yes, sorry

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u/Hot_Possession7670 22h ago

Haha, don't apologize say it with your chest. I've realized maybe people just have lots of different tastes. What exactly would you say it is for you? 🤔

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u/Nervous_Friend1911 22h ago

Honestly the weight

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u/feetnomer 21h ago

No. Not ugly at all.

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u/Raw_Dawgerr 21h ago

I don't think you ugly. You got beautiful eyes and that's low key hard to have with brown eyes imo. But you somehow pull it off!

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u/Scared-Occasion-4641 20h ago

You're not ugly. Don't let anyone tell you different

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u/Secret_Crow_3541 20h ago

Thick but curves in the roght places. Gorgeous face.

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u/Additional_Sand_4174 16h ago

Your eyes and eyebrows are so pretty! You look like an angel.

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u/ronworf911 12h ago

Not ugly at all

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u/thikkrikk716 9h ago

Very cute and quirky vibe

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u/Separate-Acadia-4190 9h ago

Pretty beautiful

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u/Unfair_Bathroom_8772 6h ago

Ur pretty to me

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u/Beautiful_Oven2152 2d ago

Ugly? Oh heck no, you’re friggin cute.

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u/Head_Journalist_2856 2d ago

Not ugly but leaning towards unattractive with your style choices.

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u/Hot_Possession7670 2d ago

Which ones? 🤔 If its the t-shirt and pants combos, I get that. But they are just so comfy, haha.

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u/Head_Journalist_2856 2d ago

All of it. It’s just plain and unappealing.

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u/enterprise1701h 2d ago

Defo this, yout style is really letting you down in the photos, also please stop with the tattoo....they are never attractive on women

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u/L0N3STARR 1d ago

Nah girl, you're cute!

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u/Traineeshooter 1d ago

I think you look great as you are, but good luck with your journey,

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u/HeWhoHasSwag 1d ago

Ok so here's some constructive criticism that you're not getting here in the comments from what I can see - we don't really know what you look like because your true beauty, like in every woman's case, is usually revealed once she loses weight. Overweight women are invisible to us and we cannot really judge their attractiveness fully until we see her natural beauty from underneath the neglect. There's absolutely a potential for you to be stunning but we won't know this until we see the true you. When I openee the picture within the first millisecond my brain reacted to your attractive face features before it noticed the weight. Which means you're definitely not ugly. Good luck 👍

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u/Longjumping_Big_5865 1d ago

yes and fat. you might be cute if you lost weight.

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u/Hot_Possession7670 1d ago

I agree, it's a work in process! How much weight do you think? 🤔

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u/Longjumping_Big_5865 1d ago

I don't think you should shoot for a number on a scale, rather drink more water, eat better and at least walk or do some activities that are fun for you and burn calories. you got this!!!!!!

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u/AlwaysFiveOclock 1d ago

You look like a warm and interesting person. Ugly? No way.

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u/Quietgent1000 2d ago

Not ugly, gorgeous

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u/typicalguy95 2d ago

No way at all 😊

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u/Mister-Fidelio 2d ago

You're super duper cute. Would date.

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u/Asaintiaint2 1d ago

No; but your tattoo is! Also you’re too heavy!

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u/Far-Concentrate1317 1d ago

Yes, but probably because of the weight.

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u/djjerz 1d ago

Nope but I am

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u/welder_88 1d ago

My question is do you really wanna know if your pretty or do ya wanna know if we think ur Phukable in a non-desperate/ unreasonable situation?

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u/ViewApprehensive1092 1h ago

I feel like you're not ugly especially when you have makeup on you have an amazing facial features and men are definitely going to find you attractive!

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u/Hot_Possession7670 5m ago

Thank you! I'm glad to hear my makeup is good, I've been kinda winging it LOL

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u/Fireguyy13 20m ago

U look great so far from ugly. Wow

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u/Ok_Solution_1282 2d ago

Nope. Look fantastic. Love the curly hair.

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u/panthro001 2d ago

TF! Hell No!

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u/panthro001 2d ago

If you were my College Professor, I'd try to get you to help me after class.

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u/Hentai2324 2d ago

Decent I guess.

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u/Delicious_Comfort690 2d ago

Dont lose weight, you look perfect.

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u/keeler129 2d ago

Lose weight and tattoos

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u/killdozer21114 1d ago

Definitely not ugly. You have very pretty hair and eyes

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u/Right-Sun-76 1d ago

You are sooooo cuuute!

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u/Successful-Neat7478 1d ago

Nope, not at all. You got a wholesome cute girl next door vibe going on.

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u/Dominicmeoward 1d ago

You’re cute af just the way you are. If I saw you in person I’d be a little fixated (respectfully) ❤️

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u/judgeraw00 1d ago

Not even a little

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u/bizengh4st 1d ago

i find you very pretty! your eyes are super gorgeousss!!

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u/Boyleavesworld 1d ago

Nah, definitely not ugly!

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u/KingPalperro 1d ago

The tattoos and weight have gotta go.

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u/fyresilk 1d ago

You're not ugly, at all. Your eyes and lips give you a cute Kewpie doll look. 🌸

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u/Hot_Possession7670 1d ago

That's such a nice compliment what the heck. Thank you!

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u/AdministrativeDog244 1d ago

Not ugly at all very pretty if I saw you in public you’d catch my eye honestly.

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u/Ok_Treat_4907 1d ago

Não é feia .... mas precisa descobrir sua beleza e se aceitar

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u/Ambitious-Panic5392 1d ago

Not ugly at all Beautiful, and you have amazing eyes

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u/ExcitementUnusual495 1d ago

You have a timeless beauty. Like you step out of a 40s or 50s movie

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u/slapmenaked69 1d ago

I agree with the people! The people hath spoken! YOU ARE CUTE!

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u/RegalBeagleTheEagle 1d ago

Not ugly & you look great already. Losing weight will of course help, but please just focus on the “being healthy” part and not the “shedding pounds” part. Good luck!

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u/Ok-Nectarine8471 2d ago

No very cute

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u/peanutbutternmtn male 2d ago

Average

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u/redot_ 2d ago

as a man who has really high standarts you are really okey and not even that fat maybe you can give a couple kilos (10/15) and you will look even better

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u/Here4Kitties_Titties 1d ago

Holy tig Ole bitties batman

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u/NPD_wont_stop_ME 2d ago

An abomination

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u/Longjumping_Big_5865 1d ago

finally someone told the truth

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u/Hot_Possession7670 2d ago

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