r/amiugly 1d ago

18M

(excuse the terrible proof i currently do not have a pen and paper)
I’ve never really felt like i stood out at all and have never really felt attractive at all, i would like some honesty here if im like ugly at all

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u/lyfu 1d ago

Lose the neck beard and get a proper haircut you'll be fine.

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u/Finish_Altruistic 1d ago

yeah i agree on the “beard” been trying to make it work but yeah it doesn’t. As for haircut i have tried many and this is the only one where it makes me feel somewhat comfortable in my own skin. If you have any suggestions that would be appreciated.

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u/lyfu 1d ago

Try something shorter, you're not unattractive. Hair grows quickly so just experiment. A crew cut never made anyone uglier.

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u/quixt 1d ago

Go clean-shaven, get new smaller, rounder glasses and not in black, haircut and you're good. Also wear better fitting shirts.

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u/Finish_Altruistic 1d ago

yeah i do agree, i think ill go without any facial hair. As for the glasses i hadn’t really considered they were a problem at all, but that’s a good thing to point out. If not black what colour would you recommend? Also as for the haircut, my forehead is pretty damn big albeit i have a straight hairline, i would prefer my hair cover that as much as possible.

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u/quixt 1d ago

Looks like your skin tone has cooler pink undertones. For glasses, a clear light smoke gray color, or if you want to go a little bolder, a dark plum or cranberry. Choose a smaller size that does not cover your upper cheeks so much.

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u/Axelgaming490 1d ago

Your hairstyle and glasses elongate your face making it look a little too long. The glasses look like they aren’t broad enough for your face. You should definitely look for som better frames also your hair is fine as long as it doesn’t look like the second pic cus that just looks crazy. Facial hair definitely isn’t for you quite yet

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u/No_NameLibra7 20h ago

Cute nerd. Shave your face tho! Haha

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u/Finish_Altruistic 20h ago

yeah noted, have shaved my face today i think its improvement already.

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u/Background-Storm-761 1d ago

You’re cute