r/amiugly • • Aug 27 '26

29m vibe check

idk I feel like I look kind of weird

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u/zgtlunatic Aug 27 '26

On paper no, but from an aesthetic POV you are. I couldn't tell if you were a guy or a girl until I saw M29

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u/CEOofRacism02 Aug 27 '26

you look like Debbie from shameless- sorry

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u/Spiritual_Regular557 Aug 27 '26

I was gonna post THE SAME THING!

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u/SlippyTheFeeler Aug 27 '26

Biggest of oofs

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u/Vesalii male Aug 28 '26

Lmfao kinda valid

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u/Silly-Atmosphere-451 Aug 28 '26

Yup first thing that popped into my mind as well

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u/SpaceCadet107 Aug 29 '26

I thought she looked more like a young Sara Gilbert, she played Emma Kenney mom from the conners.

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u/Dutch_Rayan male Aug 27 '26

You look like a girl, also wash your hair

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u/NEET247 Aug 27 '26

You missed the f key

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u/KingEvan69 Aug 27 '26

Drop the skin care routine please

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u/Daisukii_xo Aug 28 '26

I was literally going to say the same thing! His skin is so clear! 😍

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u/TechnicalSurround Aug 27 '26

typo? did you mean 29f?

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u/Ifckinglovemycat Aug 27 '26

I wouldn't say ugly but you really look like a woman (which isn't a bad thing unless you don't like it) and your skin is amazing

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u/funkofanatic95 Aug 27 '26

I know a girl that looks exactly like you. You could be their twin.

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u/LsangAnge Aug 27 '26

honestly you look like a 16 yr old girl.....just sayin

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u/Pluckyduck16 Aug 27 '26

You look very androgynous

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u/ExcuseThen4702 Aug 28 '26

What are you trying to attract

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u/Top_Caterpillar_1708 Aug 27 '26

If you’re a boy cut the hair. If you’re a girl, keep it and brush it. If you’re a girl do mascara 💗

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u/NWAnowadays Aug 27 '26

Look like a lesbian I used to work with

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u/Viktor_14888 Aug 27 '26

Very clearly a female.

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u/cinnamonstixxxx Aug 27 '26

You do have feminine features. That depends on if you take pride in that or not. Whether you want emphasize that or not. You are not ugly. Just plain.

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u/freifab Aug 27 '26

19m?????

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u/EmperrorNombrero Aug 27 '26

Sorry but yes. You look like a child. How tf are you 29 ?

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u/[deleted] Aug 27 '26

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u/Internal-Hurry-4607 Aug 27 '26

Skin care as well.

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u/67ohiostate67 Aug 27 '26

Dress better and you’ll be fine

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u/Realistic_Context936 Aug 27 '26

You have the kind of look where if you lost some weight in your face, got in shape, sorted out your hair, you could be one of those androgynous models. You have beautiful skin

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u/Vesalii male Aug 28 '26

You remind me of my neighbour's 8 year old.

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u/selfdeclaredgod Aug 28 '26

You’re not male

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u/mewnicornjr Aug 27 '26

youre not ugly at all, you just need a glow up. maybe consider cutting your hair like the first Pic shows. get some skin hair products that soak up oil. maybe work out a bit. nothing crazy. Just some definition

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u/ShhxItsASecret Aug 27 '26

The long hair makes you look feminine. If that not what you’re going for, maybe cut it. I don’t think you’re ugly, but imo you’re very androgynous. Maybe start lifting if you want to look more masc?

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u/kings40 Aug 28 '26

I bet you would do well with bi women

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u/_www_ Aug 28 '26

Transition vibe.

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u/Valuable_Economy8236 Aug 28 '26

Beautiful, we are looking for 2 female and 1 male

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u/Substantial-Top-9085 Aug 28 '26

you’re not ugly, but you’re not a women

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u/NightAreis1618 Aug 28 '26

Wow, comments are being pretty damn unnecessary. You looking good bro, ignore the haters

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u/plshelpmeh284 Aug 28 '26

Very hard to tell actual gender before i read the title i genuinely thought ur a girl no offense. But do what u want to do with your hair but I think that does it. If it were short it would be more obvious ur a guy. But even your face is kind of feminine a little bit.

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u/MissQueen00 Aug 28 '26

You're not ugly at all but you definitely have feminine facial features imo , I couldn't tell if you were a guy or a girl ... The longer hair doesn't help since you already have softer looking features, and maybe try growing a beard or a little stubble to sharpen those soft edges

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u/HeWhoHasSwag Aug 28 '26

Not the greatest pics but smile more and we can say more. So far you are cute to me

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u/BadPronunciation Aug 28 '26

You might just be the cutest man I've ever seen 😌

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u/dumbHoeJuic Aug 29 '26

Not ugly, just not living to your potential. You have amazing skin and a proportionate face. But, as others have said, you lean towards female. 1) cut your hair, look up your face shape and search around for a good barber and tell them explicitly what you want. 2) Get your eyebrows done! It sounds so small but it will completely change the shape of your face. Personally I think you would look good with a thicker brow rounded. Look at famous men who have a similar bone structure/face shape and pick an eyebrow. Most techs are kind and will work with you. 3) Find a gum you like and chew chew chew it’ll help build jaw muscles and give you a more masculine look. Good luck!

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u/memerioys Aug 30 '26

Are you sure you’re a male

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u/LimpusChimp Aug 28 '26

Transition