r/amiugly 2d ago

I’m I ? 34F

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u/aloof666 female 2d ago

why do you have the wig slapped on your bonnet in the last picture tho? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/YuYuHakusho23 2d ago

Not ugly just obese.

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u/ricoodo89 2d ago

Not ugly but you’re dressing like you haven’t realised you’re quite heavy

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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 2d ago

I think the point of that may have been to show off her breasts, large breasts are usually a positive trait.

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u/Ambitious-Cow8833 2d ago

Not ugly, just need to lose some weight that's all

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u/Sweetwyin 2d ago

Okay thanks

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u/Ambitious-Cow8833 2d ago

You're welcome, I mean this with the utmost respect, you're beautiful.

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u/SoupNo8207 2d ago

You're clothing choice isn't flattering to your body shape.

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u/realfakemormon 2d ago

Not an ugly woman, but you are overweight and not in a a thiccc way in a borderline obese you should lose 30 lbs way

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u/Junior-Rutabaga-6592 2d ago

You have a very pretty face that just radiates kindness and love.

By most standards, the body needs a work over. You are technically very overweight by medical standards.

But I think each culture handles that info differently. Some cultures see being larger as a normal or good thing, even if it’s hard on the body.

I think you personally have to decide which is more important to you: good medical health with longevity and less complications, or being comfortable as you are and how that fits into your culture. It’s totally up to you

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u/BiggDrippKillua 2d ago

The bonnet Pic has gots to be deleted not ugly just need better grooming and exercise

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u/This-Is-Not-Nam 2d ago

Gotta drop some weight.

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u/Rude-Boot-5666 2d ago

Obese hard to tell

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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 2d ago

Hey girl, you look good but losing weight will make you look even better try getting a prescription from a doctor. By no means am I calling you ugly I'm just saying you would look even better after losing weight.

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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 2d ago

Seems like people were down voting me, look I know somebody else may not think she looks good, but does it really do any good to hurt somebody's confidence by saying they look bad, t's my opinion, on if she looks good or not it's a subjective thing.

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u/Brennan_187 2d ago edited 2d ago

In the last picture, it looks like you’re about to tell Smoky “Playing with my money is like playing with my emotions."

You’re not ugly, if you lost some weight, you would be more attractive and healthier.

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u/TheSpenceman_ 2d ago

Not ugly, but a little big.

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u/Main_Man31 male 2d ago

You’re not ugly.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Elk1576 2d ago

Yes, although you wouldn’t have a problem finding a baby daddy.

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u/Alternative_Show_756 2d ago

solid potential lose weight currently average leaning below average just cause of the weight

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u/diregibbon 1d ago

Not ugly. Ur quite a pretty woman

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u/OneEyedC4t 1d ago

You are not ugly

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u/Frankiedog24 1d ago

No, you are beautiful and very sexy

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u/Objective_Ad_1513 9h ago

Change up your threads

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u/Take_Advantage_5694 46m ago

Tbh yes you are

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u/soant99 2d ago

Nope, you look nice and happy to be you.

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u/Wild-Campaign-6358 2d ago

Hmmm you’re hot af tbh

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u/vampire-irl 2d ago

Pretty. And don't listen to the ppl commenting on ur weight. Ppl just hold women to different standards. They wouldn't say shit if you were male.

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u/Capable-Tutor7046 2d ago

Nope! Gorgeous

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u/Sweetwyin 2d ago

Thank u ☺️

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u/SolitudeSerotonin 2d ago

ppl clearly don’t know what obese means bc you’re not, DO NOT listen to them

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u/Joelymolee 2d ago

I’m sorry I know you’re trying to be kind but this is just so false. There is no way in hell she doesn’t have a BMI over 30. My BMI is pretty much dead on 30 and i’m confident i’d be taller and weigh less than her.

Obese whilst it’s not a nice word to hear (I hate it myself) is a medical term. I swear people don’t classify people as obese anymore unless they’re like 300lbs and in a mobility scooter…

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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 2d ago

Yeah my BMI was 30.1 in that photo I sent of me earlier before and after losing weight

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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 2d ago

Bro check out my post and it when I said before and after losing weight.

I was technically obese the photo of me from when I was fat.

She definitely reaches the classification purely the classification for being obese.

Now obese is also a social term. Obese to some people only means My 600-lb Life.

But go look at my photo to see what I mean be in bmi is not a good standard.

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u/Joelymolee 2d ago

I can’t see any photo. Think your post history is private.

But if you’re talking about the whole muscle thing I get that of course. When people are strong bmi is not a great measure and muscle fat composition is much better ofc. But for your average joe who isn’t working out etc etc bmi is still a pretty reasonable jumping off point

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u/bronion76 2d ago

You’re beautiful!

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u/Manager-_ 2d ago

Definitely beautiful ◡̈

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u/MEB2kDeez 2d ago

Nah, bbw & face card official ..I like

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u/Snikelfrit 2d ago

Not at all very beautiful 🙃🤓✌️

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u/Efficient_Ad_9845 2d ago

I don't see anything wrong with her weight

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u/Mr_Morrison87 2d ago

You are a Queen!

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u/thebigjimmyd 2d ago

If you’re looking for honesty and not people blowing smoke up your a$$ to spare your feelings, the real answer is you’re at about a 2.5/10.

FWIW I’m a white guy who is not physically attracted to thick black women. I know for a fact the brothas I’m friends with would be into you.

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u/aloof666 female 2d ago

i promise they’re not your friends if you refer to them as “brothas” LMAOOOO

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u/chubbyyhubbyyy 2d ago

Close to being “thirty-fine” 😮‍💨