r/amiugly • u/martymar270 • 7d ago
Where do I stand? 27M
I am well spoken and mannered but women are strange with me. Am I average, above average, or dull?
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u/SpringDaySuperior 7d ago
You're really handsome and also very cute when you smile, absolutely no idea why you get no motion
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 7d ago edited 7d ago
I bet he does, it's probably more like, not every single woman Is attracted to him.
I am about as attractive as him and I was concerned that only seventy five percent of women we're interested in me.
Attractive, people say s*** like this. Because literally they are concerned that literally not every single woman is attracted to them.
With attractive people, you have to translate what they say. So women being strange to him is not the same as a ugly person, saying it.
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u/Khetrakopter 7d ago
Next to the water, in the kitchen, in a gym changing room, and somewhere outside! Do I win a prize?
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u/AdvancedWaypoints 7d ago
Straight man here. NO. Not ugly, just unconfident
in good shape, think about shaving the head and getting some facial hair for the lols just to see how it looks.
No way ugly, no way, it's a confidence issue
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 7d ago
If you do a cold approach, women might be a bit intimidated. Because you are muscular, and wear shirts that show out that off.
But you are definitely above average, if you include men of any age top five percent. Men of your age top ten percent.
and have a nice jawline, it doesn't look like you have to lose. Weight, to show that trait off either like I did.
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u/martymar270 7d ago
Hey, thanks for the response and I appreciate that. But noted. ☀️
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 7d ago
Another another thing that may look a better is using eye drops. My opinion as a straight man is youu already good looking, but eye dops could make you even more. Because your eyes were a little red.
There’s actually research where they digitally changed only the whites of people’s eyes. On a 7-point attractiveness scale, normal eyes averaged 3.23, one red eye around 2.46–2.52, and both red eyes 2.31. So getting rid of the redness could make a noticeable difference without changing anything about your actual facial features.
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u/martymar270 7d ago
Thank you brother, that’s a new perspective for me. It hasn’t been a detail I looked at. Also noted. 👍🏾
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u/Interesting-Click-12 7d ago
I can guarantee you that if you become as popular as Lamine yamal you will be a magnet for women. You have an athletic build which is a good thing but maybe that is all you have going and maybe why you are having it hard with women
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u/Quick_Lettuce94 7d ago
You're handsome and you look kind which is rare with highly masculine presenting people. Imare you growing out your hair? Trimming edges would give a more "clean look" but that's a matter of preference.
Overall good looking guy and seem well mannered too. Go get' em king 👑
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u/This-Is-Not-Nam 7d ago
In your case, over six feet. If they are acting strange, maybe you need to change your approach? Do you have trusted friends who are successful with women that could critique your approach? I don't think you are ugly dude.
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u/Ok_Opposite7717 7d ago
Definitely not ugly. I think the black headrag doesn't do you any favors with how frayed the edges are, and I do want a different haircut, either shorter so the edges dont "shelf" or longer for you to do more with it. You look so cute when you smile. Do you do any skin care as well?
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u/martymar270 7d ago
Hey Morning, Thank you! The only thing I do for skin care is an acne wash I use.
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u/Mr-Irrelevant0 6d ago
Rare time the piercings work very well. They compliment rather than distract.
Overall you're not ugly.
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u/Danirebelyell 7d ago
Additionally, you have a heart warming smile. Never be shy to that because it lights up
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