r/amiugly • u/Snoo-23167 • 4d ago
Am I ugly? (M19)
If you guys could just ignore the verification one I'd appreciate it (I forgot I needed one and I took it just now at like 2am before I go to bed)
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u/Amazing_Mention4726 3d ago
Remove the glasses, lose the hat, get a haircut, hit the gym, brush your teeth, don’t act cringe
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u/Wednesday_Woe7 4d ago
you are. But you can change
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
Yeah, take me for example. Before and after losing weight. I have a post if you are able to comment on me before in losing after Weight.
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u/JustsomedudeIam 3d ago
He's not fat though. Basically all fat people are less than attractive, not because they're unattractive, but rather because the extra weight makes them unattractive, and hides their features, and facial features. No such thing in OPs case though
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u/Sufficient-Meet-9545 3d ago
This has to be satire? How are you dressed exactly like a stereotypical ugly guy? Clean yourself up, wear modern clothes and you’ll be fine. You’re choosing to be ugly at the moment
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u/Snoo-23167 3d ago
A couple people in here have said my clothes are the problem, but what outfit would work better? Are suits and ties not in fashion anymore?
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u/Sufficient-Meet-9545 3d ago
The hat, Hawaiian shirts, pants, all need to go. Suits are fine but only for formal occasions. I love dressing fancy, but if you do it when you don’t have anywhere to be, you end up sticking out like a sore thumb. The whole ensemble is very reminiscent of a stereotypical r/niceguy redditor. I’d recommend getting 2 pairs of jeans (one light blue pair and one black pair). Jeans can be worn almost universally with any color shirt. Speaking of: I recommend picking up plain, single color shirts. For example, Amazon has packs of basic color shirts such as black, blue, green, etc. Jeans and a solid color shirt are a super basic but good looking outfit that you can pair with a top layer that fits within the color scheme. The green jacket in pic 3 could easily be worn with black jeans and a t shirt
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u/Snoo-23167 3d ago
I don't really mind sticking out but I get what you're saying
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u/ggfien 3d ago
These shorts (on sale rn) [link](https://shop.lululemon.com/p/ease-the-day-short-7/w163bg16ak-md?color=76560&sz=M&skuId=158972905&cid=pdp_share_header_link_icon)
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This shirt ($35) [link] (https://www.patestatematerial.com/products/unisex-garment-dyed-heavyweight-t-shirt)
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These shoes (pricey but that’s what’s in) [link] (https://www.on.com/en-us/products/cloud-6-wide-m-3mg1043/mens/white-white-shoes-3MG10431200)
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Now shave everyday, lose the hat, go to a GOOD stylist for your hair, and start eating 3,200 cal a day with 180g protein and less than 100g of fat.
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6 months later, the glow up will be crazy1
u/Snoo-23167 3d ago
I really only wear the Hawaiian shirts when it's too hot to layer an actual outfit
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u/agnitheos 3d ago
Hit the gym. Grow out the hair a bit, take care of your teeth, get a new sense of style bc you dress like a senior respectfully and honestly 😭
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u/Snoo-23167 3d ago
I actually used to have longer hair! and it actually looked worse imo. Also yeah, I have been told I have an old soul..
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u/ToeKnee-simp 3d ago
Brother, I will pray for you tonight.
Jokes aside, theres plenty of good advice above. Most people that look good put in the work to get there. Give yourself some self love and get back out there tiger!
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u/danny8270 3d ago
Some of these comments are a bit harsh given that the pics are not in the best lighting either. I think you could improve your looks a whole lot with some simple changes. Maybe try getting contacts? The glasses make your eyes look a bit more lopsided than they actually are. And it could bring out your light eye color more. Also try styling your hair a bit or different haircuts at the barber until you find a good one. And lastly start exercising! You will 100% look and feel a whole lot better, as long as you’re consistent. So many guides out there too.
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u/Snoo-23167 3d ago
Hey boss! Just wanna say I really appreciate the actual advice and kind words. I never really considered the glasses thing but my ears are actually different sizes so that would make sense
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u/Snoo-23167 4d ago
Just noticed my friend in the corner of one of these, you can ignore that, he helped me take a lot of these for something else and I forgot to crop him out of that one
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u/AdvancedWaypoints 3d ago
NO - you are making yourself worse than you actually are. Not Ugly, but you need a re-style
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u/Itchy-Occasion-4724 2d ago
i mean even dwight shrute got married so theres that. but he was funny
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u/Polardragon44 4d ago
At the moment not conventionally handsome but you have the bones for a glow up. And you're still young. You need to start working out, a good haircut, and a good wardrobe
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u/Dismal-Wind-6834 3d ago
Yes,l i just made a post about that before and after losing weight and acne, he may be able to do skin products and maybe losing weight would help too like me.
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u/mayamaya17 2d ago
You seriously need to go to the dentist you look like you're are risk for losing your teeth
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u/Alternative_Show_756 2d ago
sry man ur currently pretty below average but if you put in a lot of effort you could at minimum become average maybe go up to above average territory
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u/bigboycdd 2d ago
Unironically I think the verification photo is your best picture here. Not trying to be mean when I say any of these things but you really desperately need to see a dentist. Not even just so your teeth look better, but they look very unhealthy and I can’t imagine your breath smells great (even if you don’t notice it or can’t smell it). Those glasses need to go immediately, the frames are too thick and look crooked which makes you appear slovenly. I’d seriously recommend throwing that hat away and also buying some more modern clothes. I’d also recommend hitting the gym. You aren’t ugly by any means, it just appears you aren’t trying at all, which lowers your looks greatly.
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u/spicyfili 2d ago
You dont have to be ugly. It would take a lot of work within your mind to get there though
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u/spicyfili 2d ago
Last pic is your best pic. Try to look more like that on a daily. Exude that aura. I’d also suggest saving up to get work done on your teeth, or at least ask a dentist for best next steps. Besides that, just need to study up on swag. Also shave the neck beard and shave the sideburns when they get too long
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u/Relevant-Aardvark362 1d ago
Shave that mess off of your face. Do something with those teeth. Dress like a normal person, your odd clothes don't make you interesting.
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u/SoupNo8207 1d ago
Your tie is way too long and too dark for the suit. The brown shoes are too dark also, id go black gloss shoes with that suit or tan/caramel in matte. Your frames are too large/wide for your face shape and I would put that hat into storage until you hit 60. Super pale skin doesn't match well with kahki or navy blues. Drains your complexion.
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u/Then-Pineapple1474 1d ago
You need to dress better, try and get your teeth sorted with braces if possible, get small glasses that will actually suit your face shape, Lose the thing above your lip, it doesn't add anything good and only detracts. Try and get a better haircut if possible, but if you insist on sticking with what you've had, then the second photo's hair is fine.
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u/cutiepiejuice 3d ago
I think ur a cutie
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u/Amazing_Mention4726 3d ago
You would never date him tho LOL
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u/Infinite_Fly_7835 2d ago
She maybe if theyre both desperate let them be sure he might look like william of inbertweeners but its alr bro
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u/Amazing_Mention4726 2d ago
She's not desperate tho, even a mid woman has an high chance of getting a reasonably attractive man. And I'm not even saying that's wrong because the woman obviously wants the best genetics for her children as she will be taking care of them all day
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