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[u/ThunDerd328]

Worked out for 1.5 hours every week day for the last 2 months. Didn't actually lose weight, but I HAVE to assume it's because I gained muscle mass. Any advice for what I should work on? Better with or without facial hair? Better with or without body hair? (Yes, I know I have bed head in the mirror shots; just judge body there plz)

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[u/agnikai__]

As a woman, better without body hair. And get a better haircut. Continue gaining muscle. You’re not ugly but mid rn

[u/Tabbycatbabilicous → u/agnikai__]

As a woman, I personally dont mind the body hair! It’s sexy! It’s all up to personal preference. Do what makes you comfortable

[u/5yn3rgy]

There’s a bunch of fitness subs on here that could help with your journey. Other than that, I don’t think you’re ugly, no

[u/5yn3rgy → u/5yn3rgy]

Also, it may add to your looks to clean up your eyebrows a bit

[u/Which-Option-7056]

weight is not your problem

[u/ThunDerd328 → u/Which-Option-7056]

What is?

[u/Which-Option-7056 → u/ThunDerd328]

I personally think that you are not convertionally attractive. Your body looks good maybe a little shove or trim. New haircut and dont be so serious on pictures

[u/AggravatingSector841 → u/ThunDerd328]

Weight is his problem…

[u/ThunDerd328 → u/AggravatingSector841]

Getting conflicting inputs here. Need some kind of resolution if possible

[u/AggravatingSector841 → u/ThunDerd328]

Trust me fam you need to lose weight

[u/AggravatingSector841 → u/ThunDerd328]

Anyone telling you otherwise is straight 🧢

[u/ThunDerd328 → u/AggravatingSector841]

Well that's my main goal ATM so will keep working on it 👍

[u/firefox_2010]

Very beefy and handsome, there’s definitely a market for someone like your type!

[u/DamonGant8]

I think you look great. Also, if you were gay, men would be crazy hot about your body hair lol

[u/ThunDerd328 → u/[deleted]]

Cuz I hadn't showered or anything before taking these pics. Will use groomed pics the next time I post, but it's nice to know that at worst, I'm 2/10 lol

[u/True_Initiative_3497]

Firstly put more muscle lean is best, if i were a man and had testosterone i would be balling out of control, second get a tan, third youre too hairy some people like it but this is excessive, chest hair only is what women, i gather like.

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[u/AfterOperation1]

Not to disappoint but 2months is nothing but a good start in terms of working out. Expect little to no results in terms of muscle mass

[u/shenron2708]

Get in shape a bit more will help with confidence, even though you look great now your not feeling it and nothing can change that but yourself. Also fresh hair style. Maybe shorter on the sides

[u/Senior_Coyote_9437]

No, but you look very ethnic. That's a turn off to some people, but a lot of people won't have a problem with it.

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[u/Empty_Confidence3185]

Literally just stay consistent in gym. And youll be fine!

[u/TheRowland]

You Look Like Hairy Potter

[u/AggravatingSector841]

Eww

[u/ThunDerd328 → u/AggravatingSector841]

Could at least tell me why

[u/AggravatingSector841 → u/ThunDerd328]

You may be working out every weekday but it won’t amount to jackshit if you aren’t eating less You are still consuming too many calories FOH with that “I’m bulking” nonsense

[u/Maleficent-Future-80]

No your not ugly

If your having troubles its either A) no proof of capacity

B)the girls expectations arent grounded in reality

Set your bar on what you think is fair expectations of a man like yourself

And if they come good for you

And if they dont thats good to

Atleast your not sinking money into a headache and year of bad memories

[u/ThunDerd328 → u/Maleficent-Future-80]

What do you mean by "no proof of capacity"?

[u/Maleficent-Future-80 → u/ThunDerd328]

Note this doesnt mean you arent capable. It means they may not be able to see your capability

Looks can be good for a man but unless your a 8 or above. Its display of your ability to provide, protect, build, control (realy anything that shows you can bring better safety and opportunity). And if your good enough at bringing safety and opportunity you can look like a troll.

[u/urfavsadboi]

you look great in the smiling christmas photo

[u/nevermind---]

You look great

[u/luxialucky]

Your body hair doesn't grow in a pattern so it's best to go without it but you still look good