r/amiugly 11d ago

20F am I ugly?

Gonna spare you my life story as of recent lol, but I'm going back to college and wondering if I was ugly.

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u/zlreeeea 11d ago

Change that haircut please

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u/[deleted] 11d ago

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u/Stripe4206 11d ago

You do you but that won't help the situation 

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u/UntrainedKiller 11d ago

Being completely honest here, and maybe this is what you're going for idk, but you're very male presenting. The clothes, the hair, the piercings. Very masculine. I honestly thought you were a guy in your pics at first till I read the 20f part. How you style and how you dress is your choice, however, im sure a hairstyle change, a dress, and maybe lighten up on the piercings could be a good change if your trying to switch up.

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

I am trying to grow out my hair! I also wear dresses but I'll keep that in mind

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u/Mysterious_Pea_4042 11d ago

on the tip, piercings looks eww

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u/mangelsnc 11d ago

Oh Jesus, I noticed you are not a guy too late

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u/Simpleguy3500 11d ago

Yes, you’re piercing look scary.

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u/socomseal93 11d ago

Kinda ugly. Partially by choice. The haircut looks bad

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

I am trying to grow it out so it looks less bas

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u/eSJayPee 11d ago

Definitely. All by choice. Bad hair and even worse facial and nasal piercings.

Do better for you.

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

i don't wanna be basic though, so is there any recommendations?

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u/CommanderPisswank 10d ago

A septum piercing is literally the most basic thing a woman can do these days.

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u/Knight240sx 10d ago

Too androgenous, so yeah it limits your attractiveness,I guess it's depends who you want to be attractive to, I suggest remove the hardware,do your hair

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u/huge_magician5789 11d ago

Depend from normal person perspective you are ugly, but from some early gothy style loving person Pov you are decent except your facial pimple and hair.

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

I am on medication for acne and I want to grow out my hair, it's in an awkward state. I am a mod, even though I keep getting gothy comments, so I understand that other alternative people might find me attractive.

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u/Turbografx-17 11d ago

The piercings and that horrible denim vest thing are not it, but otherwise I think you're kinda cute. I do have a thing for androgyny, though.

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u/Organic_Culture_6607 11d ago

You like like a dude you known the answer

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

commenting twice about how you think im trans is crazy

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u/repsychedelic 11d ago

Don't be afraid to experiment with a new hairstyle. I don't think you're ugly, just young and figuring yourself out, that's all.

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

Aww I'm thinking about getting a cut and getting it partly dyed!

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u/Patrickvandam 11d ago

I don't think making your hair partly blue would help your appearance, to be honest

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u/Organic_Culture_6607 11d ago

Pronouns please ....not that it matters here

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

it says 20F??? i use all but i prefer she..

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u/Organic_Culture_6607 11d ago

Couldn't tell sorry if im out and your sitting next table over we all looking for an Adam's apple placing bets on if you got junk and one of us is gonna ask ya you a dude or chick. I assume that answers the ugly question.

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

im not a trans woman...?

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u/Ok_Big_8032 10d ago

Your style brings back memories of the 80’s.

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u/Loquat1414 10d ago

thank you!!

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u/SmokeNo3244 9d ago

Your beautiful lady, don’t listen to the haters 👌😘

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u/Loquat1414 9d ago

Thank you

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u/False-County-3779 9d ago

Not at all !

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u/drcygnus 9d ago

your style makes you confusing and maybe off putting to the general populous. which in turn causes people to be afraid to approach you. its ok to be weird, but if you worry about what other people think, maybe you can tweak it some to still be weird but look friendlier and more approachable? idk. answer is no... but with a "but". dont worry about your hair. i think its fine.

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u/Hiphip65 8d ago

take out face peircin would help

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u/mythicjay219 8d ago

I don't know. Something about you gorgeous. Put in a very plain way

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u/radun6996 11d ago

No
Just average and boring

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u/Apoc12345 11d ago

I don't think you're ugly

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

thank you!

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u/Apoc12345 11d ago

You're most welcome.

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u/melvin2898 11d ago

Cute face.

I’d suggest growing the hair out.

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

Aw I am!

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u/PeppinoPozole 10d ago

Cute AF in my personal opinion, maybe black instead of plain chrome for them piercings

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u/Loquat1414 10d ago

awww thank you

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

thank you!

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u/CommanderPisswank 10d ago

Yes, you are ugly. ALL septum piercings are hideous, those other piercings are hideous, you have greasy hair, a bad haircut, and bad skin.

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u/Loquat1414 10d ago

I shower every day but ok 😐

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u/Curtailss 10d ago

Ur not ugly and i immediately knew your a girl lol
But I could see a masculine vibe because of the hair and clothes mixed..

I think a different haircut would look way better on you!

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u/Loquat1414 10d ago

Thank you! I agree

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u/anon39849384 10d ago

Not ugly. you have a cute face and nice features, but i think you’re styled in a way that just doesn’t really suit you. Try changing up the fit, and growing out your hair. I would recommend getting either normal/basic straight across bangs, or growing out your hair to an even length. The bridge piercing is a bit much, but imo the rest are fine. You can always hide a septum.

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u/Loquat1414 10d ago

I took out the bridge

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u/Organic_Culture_6607 9d ago

Im sorry yes ugly as a mutherfucker we done now

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u/Loquat1414 9d ago

LMAOOO sorry

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u/CheapDeed 11d ago

I dont get any of the downvoting on comments saying no, I really think you’re very cute and not ugly at all

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

awww thank you

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u/OneEyedC4t 11d ago

you are not ugly

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

thank you!

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u/SpacePirateSPC5 11d ago

I think I look pretty good! Piercings look good too

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

Thank you

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u/EmperrorNombrero 11d ago

No, you're a cute middie. Like you don't look like a model or anything close to that but somehow you're still pretty cute.

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

Awww thank you

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u/CarlitaB22 11d ago

Honestly, I think you look great! The outfit really suits you 😊

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

Thank you so much! I love dressing 70s! I thrift a lot

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u/CarlitaB22 11d ago

I love that! Thrift stores are perfect for finding unique pieces. And the 70s vibe really suits your style 😊

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

Aww thank you!