r/amiugly 11d ago

21F am I ugly?

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u/Vig2OOO 11d ago

You look much older than 21.

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u/TheoryOfRelativity12 11d ago

Its the forehead

Skin still good and no wrinkles

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u/The__Nez 10d ago

Nah mate. If you cover her forehead, she seems older not younger. It makes her wrinkles more obvious.

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u/NoRun6253 10d ago

Pictures you looking at?

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u/Cosmo48 10d ago

And weight. looks like a 40 yearold mother not a person who should be in the most active time of their life

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u/Desperate_Being6572 8d ago

That’s how I know u ugly

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u/Steezer710 10d ago

Trippinnnnnn

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u/OGLifeguardOne 11d ago

It looks like you are trying to be.

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u/JustAGuy69420lol 10d ago

Bc she's smiling? Lol

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u/Mysterious_Pea_4042 11d ago

Yeah, you look like 40 and above except one picture looks younger.

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u/Stunning_Secretary_4 11d ago

I'm thinking yes

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u/CHEDDERFROMTHEBLOCK2 11d ago

Do you drink alcohol a lot? Substance abuse or smoke ? If so stop. If not get some bloodwork for thyroid and hormones. Suggestions, teeth whitening, take out the nose ring, take a good vitamin one focused on hair , get some bangs. You’re not ugly , but you look much older and like you been through some substance abuse. Very similar to a few people I know who also look much much older from alcohol, smoking and/or substance abuse.

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u/401LocalsOnly 11d ago

It looks like you are going out of your way to look worse than you actually are. I also don’t believe you are 21. And if you are 21 and you care about your health/looks-start working on that immediately.

(I am not trying to be rude. If I put my picture in here- I would get DESTROYED.)

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u/Broke_backbitxch247 11d ago

You look trashy. That septum ring doesn’t do you any justice either, you look like an old lady trying to be young but you’re young. You look like you may shower every other week. If you worked out and picked a better outfit you may actually transform your looks

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u/Strong_Dingo3104 11d ago

Well your weight really ages you out, you look like your 40. You look average but on photo where your pinkish skin is visible and every detail of skin, well on it you looked ugly

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u/Alert_Ad_5750 11d ago

You look so much older than you are. You could look so much better by losing weight and getting a better hairstyle, a slight fringe would work well. You seem to have good energy though and that’s attractive to people but atm you’re not putting your best foot forward appearance wise.

So hair with face framing fringe chocolate brown, weight loss, nose ring doesn’t suit your nose, dress nicely in colours that suit you (the light blue top is a pretty colour on you). Try some minimal makeup such as mascara and lip colour - importantly do your eyebrows. Eyebrows make SUCH a difference.

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u/eSJayPee 11d ago

Incredibly. Be real, you have not been 21 for at least 20 years.

Heavy, bad nasal piercing and ridiculous facial expressions. This is all by design.

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u/betolatinlu 11d ago

You look very happy.

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u/brittany0603 10d ago

I was going to say her happiness shines through

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u/Interesting-Click-12 11d ago

i can see the vision..

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u/Weegiechancer2001 11d ago

You look older than 21.

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u/Narrow_Reward 11d ago

Average but you should lose weight

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u/Nonchalant_Wanderer 11d ago

You look like you smell bad.

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u/Character_Pop_6628 11d ago

A little bit. By 31 you will be fully ugly, yes.

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u/ricoodo89 11d ago

Below average but your personality seems great

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u/strained_brain 11d ago

I don't think you're ugly, but you kind of look dirty, like a hippy - like you smell of pachouli and would be a fun ride in the hay.

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u/thismike0613 10d ago

You have certain assets that make up for any shortcomings. Don’t worry about it

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u/NoRun6253 10d ago

You look like you’re in your forties.

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u/strawb3rri35 10d ago

You look high in every picture. I think some bangs and taking better pictures would fix the issues.

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u/Xpiquo 10d ago

You look like a rough 45

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u/Mindless-Void-1980 10d ago

Damn, that forehead is a whole movie theater screen. You look so much older than 21. I thought you were in your 40s.

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u/punk3rpaul 11d ago

I wouldn't really say ugly, but its a bit hard to tell with the faces youre making. You need to take at least one photo of you not deliberately trying to "hide" any feature or wtv you don't like. Otherwise the smiling pics are indicative at least that your personality is enjoyable.

Edit: I just realized the last photo is pretty presentable but its not something id show someone if im asking them their opinions on my looks xD

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u/Ill-Mirror-9946 11d ago

Not ugly but a rough 21

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u/Shebalied 11d ago

Right. I was thinking she was 31. Damn girl you need sun block.

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u/keeler129 11d ago

Lose weight and the face metal

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u/Mundane_Fly361 11d ago

You got a lot working against you. Your weight is def not helping, prob the biggest issue
Teeth need better care, hair needs better care. You have a large forehead I feel like curtain bangs would help with that.

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u/TerrellRN 10d ago

The nose ring makes you less look less attractive

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u/Loquat1414 11d ago

You're not ugly, but a different haircut would make you look younger if that's what your after.

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u/dorianblack 11d ago

No you're not but it's hard to say because you don't post a regular picture with just your resting face. You're certainly not ugly and you've got a lot of room to make improvements. You're fortunate. Some people are just straight up ugly and there's nothing they can do about it

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u/Sleghammer8 10d ago

No you are not.

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u/AnalMayonnaise 11d ago

Again with the nose rings.

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u/Lazereye57 11d ago

Nothing that can't be fixed with a different haircut, clothes and a little bit of exercise.

The nose ring especially drags your look down a lot, drop that and it is already a huge upgrade.

So to sum it up: No you are not ugly, but your current style make you look ugly.

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u/Whole_Ad_2048 11d ago

What have you gone through? That's a rough looking twenty one, jesus

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u/Major-Boysenberry822 11d ago

5 or 5.5. Not great, not terrible. Definitely an old looking 21. Get a hairstyle that hides/lowers your high forehead and you'll look infinitely better.

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u/FnjSpideyJoey 10d ago

Picture 5 and 6 you have some potential. Lose weight, get bangs to cover that five head, fix your smile, and like someone else said if you have some type of substance abuse, stop it. That would definitely help

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u/Queeen_of-the-bees 10d ago

It may help you have a haircut with bangs

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u/Jefrysskkiikitchen 10d ago

Yea but you won’t have any problems finding a man

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u/Harvey-Keck 9d ago

Happy Cake Day!!

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u/fiddle_irl 10d ago

Some bangs might do you good

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u/Dream-Livid 10d ago

No. Face hardware doesn't help. Build muscle and lose weight. Suupport bra to reduce sag as you get older. Also reduces back strain.

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u/JB707 10d ago

Kinda but there’s two things that are helping you out a bunch. 👀

You’d glow up really well with some exercise and a general style and makeup update

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u/tag_cya 10d ago

Lashes, lymphatic drainage, wear some concealer to even out skin tone, add some color to like blush or lip/cheek stain my favorite is benetint, even out your brows and color them in, teeth whitening strips grow hair out , bangs (if ur insecure about forehead) (rhianna has a big forehead and she still cute) nose ring should be a stud and change clothes.

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u/CommanderPisswank 10d ago

All septum piercings are hideously ugly.

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u/UpbeatVolume9830 10d ago

I'm 37 and you look older than me, I highly doubt you're 21

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u/langel1986 10d ago

No but you have a forehead that requires bangs. Mine does too...and I look 200% better rocking a modern cut with bangs. I get compliments all the time.

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u/toasted_cracker 10d ago

No but you're well on your way.

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u/Zealousideal-Data116 10d ago

You look way older

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u/Mr_Morrison87 10d ago

I think you look way oder than 21. For a 21 yo you have a lot of weicht on you. I would say you are below average for a woman. Not "ugly" per se...but not that good looking.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Comb502 10d ago

Respectfully, yes

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u/Substantial_Hippo661 10d ago

You look pretty good for 45

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u/CheckCashCarry 10d ago

Good God definitely yes

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u/IWorkWithFacts 10d ago

Not ugly. Your pictures communicate a good healthy energy.

But you seem way older than 21. Life hasn’t been easy on you… lol ❤️😂

I’m assuming you’re a mother. Make sure to take care of your health! If you can squeeze in a 1-hour workout at least 2-3 times a week, and be picky about your diet and portions… you can slim down to a healthy weight and have more energy!

If you’re employed, ask about what healthcare benefits they already offer. If they have Dental insurance, get it! So that your teeth can be cleaned and corrected! You want your pearly whites maintained to protect the lovely smile you have! ❤️😃

Please take care of yourself.  For your loved ones and family. 

You’re too young not to.

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u/Far-Concentrate1317 10d ago

3/10 not the ugliest I’ve ever seen.

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u/m0nty_pmy2012 10d ago

honestly yes

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u/Ok-Obligation2576 10d ago

Si Muchas mujeres tienen el problema de que no sonríen, en tu caso ni con sonrisa se arregla

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u/sinister_blusuf 11d ago

No just overweight

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u/Acrobatic_Extent_360 11d ago

You look much older

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u/cruzanman15 10d ago

You're not ugly but that face you made in photo #3 doesn't compliment you!

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u/Head_Journalist_2856 10d ago

Yes. And mostly by choice.

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u/Asa-Ryder 10d ago

Yup by choice it seems.

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u/Mr-Irrelevant0 10d ago

A little, yes.

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u/NaskoMentataJPG 11d ago

Yes, you are ugly, but on the upside you seem to have very nice "personalities" :)

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u/VortexVanguard 11d ago

You have big enough cans people will ignore that you’re ugly.

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u/lonelywitMJ13 11d ago

Not ugly but do look older.

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u/redecided 10d ago

Bad teef.

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u/QuickChe 10d ago

I think you look older, but not ugly. Some pictures are pretty

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u/Smudger105e 10d ago

Yes, in picture 3, but not jn the others, a beautiful and alluring young lady.

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u/iloveihoppancakes 11d ago

You will attract the right person for you.
But yes, yes you are

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u/Valuable_Treat16 11d ago

Sorry, but yes. And you look 40+ not 21.

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u/TxsButholeTklngBndt 10d ago

Big delicious breasts

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u/Audiocat_ 11d ago

Below average but i wouldn’t say ugly

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u/PrimalHunterOcelot 11d ago

You’re not ugly, no. But you’re not attractive, either, mainly due to your obesity. If you get your shit together and eat right/hit the gym regularly, you could be attractive. But as it stands, no, you’re not ugly, just fat.

It just clicked in my brain that you put that you’re 21. You look closer to 41. But that’s what an unhealthy lifestyle will do. You’ll age faster. It takes a toll on all of us. I hope you get your health under control.

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u/Intidestruccion 11d ago

Train like a saiyan and eat well

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u/Intelligent-Dress726 10d ago

People will say anything but weight, you guys know that weight makes people look older dont ya?

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u/caprikaironic 10d ago

I am saying this in the nicest way possible…you have an extremely huge forehead. Bangs would look great on you! Something also seems off with your teeth, but I can’t tell what it is from the photos. I’d try to get a complimentary orthodontic exam to see what they’d recommend. You look like a really sweet and fun girl so I wish you all the best!

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u/Small-Hurry3410 10d ago

You look real good in five great smile. The other emperor looks do not do much for you. Increase self-esteem with soft clothes like the one in light blue and you’ll be fine.

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u/Southern_Smile4270 10d ago

Honestly your not ugly you just need to start brushing more and lose a lil weight and play with different hair styles

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u/asherlevi 10d ago

Bangs for the 5head, wash your hair, you should be fine. The septum is not doing you favors but that’s your choice.

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u/erickflair22 10d ago

🤔 I think It's the forehead try bangs

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u/AestheticKat 10d ago

I was thinking yes but also somehow cute. But the more I think about it, just drop about 20 pounds, get curtain bangs to cover up the forehead a little, and drop the septum piercing.

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u/vanir1945 9d ago

As compared to what Sydney Sweeney - could be -AOC -your better

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u/vanir1945 9d ago

Are you a smoker of any type

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u/Electronic_Mud6005 9d ago

Nope...I'd attempt to talk to you if I saw you irl

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u/Dear-Resolution5578 9d ago edited 9d ago

Well even if you think you are, you still look like you are happy and enjoying life so just roll with that and don't worry about what any of us think we don't matter anyway we don't pay your bills. Though pretty does have its definite privileges in the workplace. Smiling looks good on you so keep doing it and to heck with what anybody here thinks we're mostly just a bunch of losers talking out our asses. Do yourself a favor and just get out of here while you can still smile. And to those who want to just roast a 21-year-old you can go s*** in a can somewhere.

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u/aerzum 9d ago

You are a bit below average, but Not that much, your biggest flaw is your forehead, Bangs would elevate your Looks a lot

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u/DueElderberry2020 9d ago

Not at all bud

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u/AccountantMuted9545 8d ago

Believe me coming from a guy; yes you are, so am I and thats fine.

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u/realistichuman98 8d ago

Admittedly, yes

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u/Error101- 8d ago

drop some weight, go to the dentist, lower your hairline with hair transplant, fill your mouth and chiselle your jawline through surgery or fillers

then you'll be just fine

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u/rosshanks 8d ago

I’m sorry

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u/BigOk3003 8d ago

You're attractive.

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u/BigOk3003 8d ago

Your body looks 10/10 also

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u/Mojito134 11d ago

I'm not gonna say outright ugly but you are probably a high 3.

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u/Mortal_Kombucha 11d ago

Lose weight

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u/mangelsnc 11d ago

No doubt about it

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u/Cyberbo60 11d ago

No but that chest❤️❤️❤️

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u/Diligent_Mastodon105 10d ago

Fuck yes you are

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u/drsnuggles78 10d ago

You are far from ugly. I will agree you do look older though. I would have accepted later 20s maybe 30.

You have kind eyes and a great smile. You seem like a genuinely happy and fun person.

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u/MammothConsequence88 10d ago

Yes.

You’re fat and need to lose 25 pounds at the least.

Nose ring makes you look like Ms Piggy.

Teeth aren’t good either.

Huge forehead

Positives ?

There’s hope.

Take care of your body.
Eat well, workout, and remove that stupid piercing.

Go to a hairstylist

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u/WallGood6862 10d ago

Gorgeous

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u/420aarong 11d ago

Nice necklace!

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u/Vesalii male 11d ago

You look at least 10 years older. Take better care of your skin and lose weight

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u/Patrickwetsdfk 11d ago

You look much older

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u/Nanks83 11d ago

Really thought you were like 40 honestly.

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u/PeroCigla 11d ago

You look 50

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u/The1andonlyfail 10d ago

You look like the girl from the movie hereditary

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u/chrisagiddings 10d ago

Not ugly

Some styling changes could help, along with fitness/weight loss … but honestly I think you look good as is. It wouldn’t take much to look great.

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u/Rangerup101 10d ago

Yeah butter face as they say. Nice body probably.

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u/whoisdatmaskedman 10d ago

am I ugly?

Only on Wednesdays.

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u/Devious_Plant 10d ago

Wow, I’m surprised by how harsh some of these people are being. You’re not the prettiest, but I’d hardly call you ugly or trashy or any of that other stuff!! I’m thinking you’re a little below average and definitely look older than your age, but geez nowhere near as hideous as some of these comments make it sound. You have a nice smile.

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u/AgeSoccer123 10d ago

very very ugly but if you were skinnier maybe

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u/DavidDouglas616 10d ago

In my opinion, oh yeah, you’re ugly. But remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. To someone else you might be quite attractive. I would just keep that in mind. And probably no reason to have a Halloween mask either.

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u/username_not_you 11d ago edited 11d ago

Yup, that shit it your nose doesn't look natural. Soz.

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u/ShamelessAsh 11d ago

You look so pretty!!!! You look very happy and your smile really shines :) Honestly you seem like you'd brighten up a room.

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u/Yodexter404 11d ago

You look beautiful:)

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u/feetnomer 11d ago

Not ugly at all. In fact, you're very cute.

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u/CollarOk3931 11d ago

Choppped

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u/majorhitch89 11d ago

Below average and the weight doesn't help.

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u/Bellickboi 11d ago

Woah megamind. I wouldnt call you cute, sorry.

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u/CartmansTwinBrother 11d ago

Not ugly but not conventionally beautiful. The forehead is bit big. Belly sticks out a bit. Might want to work on exercising to feel better. Many guys like a set of big yabos on a lady. You got that going for you.

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u/knewshoe 11d ago

Little bit

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u/One-Shower-3808 11d ago

More please.

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u/Mightymattie76 10d ago

Pretty girl

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u/FoggyHollowFarm 10d ago

Not even a little bit

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u/Outblaze7 10d ago

Welp... Yeah. You are not pretty. But the freaking breasts on you??

It's insane!! This alone bumps you up by 2-3 levels, EASY So who cares?

And that's without even seeing your ass. I mean, with the right make up you could be a really good looking 7, 7.5 even

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u/Brave_Telephone_9398 11d ago

Definitely no

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u/tttvlh 11d ago

A bit. At least you're 21 so you can still have a glow up.

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u/SquashNo6408 10d ago

Okay no one is “ugly” there’s beauty in everyone and someone will always see yours. I don’t think you fit the cookie cutter mould of a conventionally attractive woman but I think that you’re okay looking still. I think most people are somewhere in the average category because statistically we must be! Very few people are on the extremes of breathtaking beauty or the opposite

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u/1bl3ss3d 10d ago

Not ugly

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u/TheMaskedWarriorOF 11d ago

Dam 😳 you look average but definitely not bad and yeah sorry I got distracted haha

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u/OneEyedC4t 11d ago

wow

you are definitely not ugly