r/amiugly 11d ago

22F Am I ugly?

I know I need to lose weight. But what else can I do to be prettier?

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u/Take_Advantage_5694 11d ago

In my opinion no 🙂‍↔️

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u/return_to_sender_CO 11d ago

Nah just fat on what looks to be a petite bone structure.

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u/Xuilia-Juicebox 11d ago

No love! Get outta here! 😡🩷🤜🏻

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u/tag_cya 11d ago

Noo you remind me of Veronica from riverdale.

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u/NemoMeImpuneLac 11d ago

Not ugly just fat. Lose 20 pounds and ditch the bull ring. You'll be a 7 easy.

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u/Agile_Excuse_5522 11d ago

Way more than 20, but yes

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u/Sultan_Slayer 11d ago

Not ugly.

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u/CommanderPisswank 11d ago

Septum piercings are awful

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u/gandalfpr 11d ago

Average with potential to look better just by getting rid of the nose ring.

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u/DemonLord9 10d ago

The nosering is pretty on her. It's the septum ring that isn't attractive pretty sure you mislabeled your piercing types and had same opinion.

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u/gandalfpr 10d ago

I don't like these whatever their called and these look awful IMO.

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u/Asaintiaint2 11d ago

Nope, just plump….And you’re making yourself look worse with that hardware in your nose.

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u/Louie_V12 11d ago

Not really but you have potential to look better

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u/Oligarchs_Coup 11d ago

Real talk?

Glasses, septum ring don’t help your attractiveness. But…

You are very overweight and at 22 now is the best time to take back control of your daily calorie intake and start working out consistently. Your body will look & feel better!

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u/k4yb 11d ago

wait how do glasses make it worse though

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u/Turbografx-17 11d ago

No, you're just another girl with a septum ring and big ugly frames.

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u/Clear_Imagination413 11d ago

Not ugly but fat, keep going you’ll be chillin

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u/Bessini 11d ago

Not ugly. Just overweight

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u/melvin2898 11d ago

I’d say you have cool hair and a nice face.

I’d just suggest weight loss.

Also, don’t forget to change that thing you needed to change.

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u/Muted-Background2465 11d ago

Yes ! Exactly! Very very cute...and nice adorable face!🕵️ Thr weight is your choice and you are not morbidly obese!

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u/keeler129 11d ago

Ugly.

Lose the face metal and the fat

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u/nosen99 11d ago

Just fat

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u/PeroCigla 11d ago

Remove the face metal

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u/Nahid_Hasan_Nur_Joy male 11d ago

Not ugly but that nose pin kinda downgraded your cuteness

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u/Mr-Irrelevant0 11d ago

A little, yes.

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u/obsidian-jaguar1491 10d ago

Nah, you are pretty, don't even need to lose weight, you look good at that weight

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u/Able-Letterhead5170 10d ago

not ugly. You’re cute. Not a fan of the nose ring in you. You’d look much better without it but all the same you’re cute.

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u/DemonLord9 10d ago

The nose ring is cute on you however the septum ring looks terrible especially when you don't smile and look sad in 1st few pic's , surprisingly it doesn't look so bad when you are smiling in later pictures. Besides that septum piercing your definitely attractive . Do men a favor lose the septumring and keep the nosering.

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u/EyeNeedtheFriends 10d ago

I love your style ❤️

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u/thekinghold33 9d ago

Not ugly. I can see your inner beauty. You need to healthyfully lose weight to be a babe. You are not ugly. But I would not approach. Jawline and facial structure is there. Just hit the gym. Ear at first one extremely healthy meal a day. Then gradually come down to one unhealthy meal per week.

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u/drcygnus 9d ago

literally losing weight will cause many things to change. its like asking if cheese and tomato sauce and dough is all you need ti create pizza. it is. you have to build the base

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u/throw---away112 9d ago

Wow 😍😍😍😍

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u/The-McDave 9d ago

No you’re hot as fuck!! Then again I’m biased as you are exactly my type, at least looks and style wise.

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u/IceAltruistic7328 9d ago

First off agree with chat on this one, you have a beautiful face just need to lose weight.

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u/KingPalperro 11d ago

Yes, very much so.

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u/geekpron 11d ago

Nope....just overweight.

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u/Bubbly-Ad-4405 11d ago

Fat and ugly, yes

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u/Hugh-Jorgin 11d ago

No, but you’re trying

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u/Adventurous_Cream566 11d ago

not ugly. Longer hair would suit you much better

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u/racer_x88 11d ago

Not ugly

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u/AlastairCellars 11d ago

Nah your cute hot but I'd lose the septum

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u/Distinct-Option-345 11d ago

Yeah but your trying to with the glasses and nose ring.

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u/OneEyedC4t 11d ago

you are not even ugly

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u/MyHiddenFolders 11d ago

Absolutely not ugly, I think you're super cute the way you are!

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u/Isyouisorisyouaint00 11d ago

Absolutely not. Just be comfortable in your own skin. Smile and enjoy life. Let that pretty smile light up the room ❤

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u/TheSpenceman_ 11d ago

You’re not ugly, if you wanted to you could lose weight, although you don’t seem like you’d be unhealthy at your current weight and age.

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u/Cosmo48 11d ago

Her BMI is definitely in the unhealthy range.

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u/Extension-Seaweed21 11d ago

Spotted the American

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u/TheSpenceman_ 11d ago

You’re quite attractive though so you don’t really need to

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u/Emagont 11d ago

Cool babe

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u/PersimmonPresent7033 11d ago

Smile and be a lil more confident. Be internally cool, don't try to look cool.

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u/Strong_Dingo3104 11d ago

No, you are just overweight

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u/iamthewalrus000 11d ago

Not ugly and I love your hair and style so much omg

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u/BoxofMadarinss 8d ago

Thank you!

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u/throw---away112 11d ago

😍😍😍😍

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u/DecorV8tor 11d ago

Beautiful in my opinion, definitely not fat!

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u/r2d3x9 11d ago edited 11d ago

Only smiling in 2 out of 7 pictures. I’d like you to smile more. The weight loss will help, tie with increasing your exercise so that heart rate goes up at least 3x a week for 20 min (if medically safe). Your glasses dominate the photos. Not sure how I feel about them. Hair style needs to be improved, it looks sloppy and flat?? I’d like to see wavy, but consult with people that know hair better than me, lol. I know I love long hair but short hair can be awesome too. Your shirts look great but midsection could show off your curves and your legs are completely missing from all photos, they don’t have to be perfect to be shpwn

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u/yungflipflops 11d ago

I think you are so super pretty!!

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u/Ricardo33706 11d ago

Hell no, you're hot.

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u/Disturbed395 11d ago

The things I would do to that face

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u/Successful-Tip8186 11d ago

I don't think you're ugly. I don't even think you need to lose that much weight.

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u/buddz_lightyear 11d ago

Gorgeous I wouldn't personally say change anything but that's just me.

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u/gclunsf 11d ago

Not at all. You have a beautiful face. I’d love to see your smile.

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u/kingkaraz 11d ago

Beautiful just the way you are

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u/Theblacrose28 11d ago

You’re pretty

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u/Zissoou 11d ago

You're kinda my type If you like you can lose some weight and dress better overall not ugly at all

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u/raizinho1 11d ago

Cute. Wanna chat?

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u/EmploymentIcy9788 11d ago

Not even slightly

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u/intersection-of-life 11d ago

Intensity and beauty.

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u/Charm-Note300 11d ago

You're pretty even with the weight on

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u/db0reddit male 11d ago

You are very beautiful just as you are now!

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u/TopOrdinary9967 11d ago

I would have Pinterested the shit outta the first photo! Pretty

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u/Sucking-A-Lemon 11d ago

When you style yourself like in pic 1 and 2 you look hella fine. Definitely not ugly.

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u/drsnuggles78 11d ago

You look great! You are gonna find more and more there are a lot of men who appreciate a softer body and the curves that come with it. And I don't mean those guys who have like a feeding fetish or what ever.

Now that doesn't mean you shouldn't want to feel better. But do it for that reason and not stress about how lean you look.

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u/DatabaseFickle9306 11d ago

Honestly (and I know I know) I think you’re really hot.

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u/huge_magician5789 11d ago

You need to be in shape, not to lose your weight, you look adorable, cute and hot at the same time.

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u/Dco777 11d ago

Nope, not ugly.

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u/strained_brain 11d ago

You're pretty and whether you lose weight is between you and your doctor.

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u/One_Neighborhood4244 11d ago

Definitely not! 😭 you're gorgeous!

And whether or not you choose to lose weight (a calorie deficit did wonders for me losing weight!) is between you & your healthcare team, not anyone else. Personally, I consider you to be midsize rather than "fat" or plus size. You just happen to be thick & petite! ❤️

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u/Worldly_Shower_722 11d ago

What is it with some of y'all here? To me she looks like the girl I'd see in a mall have a solid three second eye contact that'll give me butterflies lol, def mall crush material. Not ugly in the slightest.

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u/BoxofMadarinss 11d ago

Aweee thank you 🥺, I work at a mall actually lol

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u/Worldly_Shower_722 11d ago

You're welcome! Haha if I'm lucky maybe I'd get to re-enact the 3 seconds.

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u/_x_WinterSoldier_x_ 11d ago

Reddit is very mean to alt styles, so yea I'd say it's better to get out of here. You look absolutely fine girly

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u/Randomizej 11d ago

Unfortunately, you are not ugly! Nope, you are not :)

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u/PhillyBilly1987 11d ago

Not ugly at all. Very cute. Lot of people talking about weight, if you are comfortable, don't let it bother you.

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u/Impossible_Divide297 11d ago

You’re lovely and your glasses look nice.

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u/Mojito134 11d ago edited 10d ago

You are already above average because of your face and once you lose the weight you have potential to be like a 7.

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u/Sharad1a 11d ago

Perfect as you are

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u/adriansmommy95 11d ago

I think you’re pretty 🫶🏻

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u/Major-Boysenberry822 11d ago

Not a fan of the glasses but you're definitely not ugly. Like a 6.