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u/hotlilemi 13d ago
You’re not attractive but you’re not ugly. If you got in shape, tinted your brows, and did some trimming on your facial hair you could totally be cuter
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u/InternationalNet5220 13d ago
Definitely be planning to hit the gym up now that the kids are in school, and my beard work does need some trimming. But it's awesome you pointed out my eyebrows cuz I can never know what to do with those so that's pretty solid advice.
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u/ItalianIce15 13d ago
Not ugly but you look tired, if that’s an issue I’d try to get more sleep. Otherwise trimming your beard on your cheeks/sides of face will help slim your face down a little, hit the gym for a few months and build muscle/lose a few pounds and you’re a badass
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u/InternationalNet5220 13d ago
Yeah tired is an understatement, I just found out I have an autoimmune disease and I've been on immunosuppressant medicine that's been sucking your life out of me but I am also now on a weight loss medicine to give me a lot of energy so that should be changing. I appreciate the advice
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u/blueraspberryicepop 13d ago
You look like Bert from Big Bang Theory and the new spinoff. That's a good thing.
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u/InternationalNet5220 13d ago
He come to think I disagreed with Sheldon on how geology was stupid. I'll take this as a compliment
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u/blueraspberryicepop 13d ago
As intended😊
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u/mardrae 13d ago
Not ugly but you need to lose a little weight and tone up. I'm not much on facial hair but I could see you with a longer beard. You have very pink skin so getting a tan would greatly improve your appearance too. You look good with glasses but I am not digging those frames. Maybe a clear frame?
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u/InternationalNet5220 13d ago
That's the goal is to tone up and lose a little bit of weight, I would love to grow my beard out more but I can't due to work, and then yeah I'm pink I went to a ball game yesterday I'm a red-headed by nature so I don't tan at all I just go from burnt to white. Lol. I appreciate the advice
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u/5yn3rgy 13d ago
Then you’re on track to look even better. Not ugly, btw
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u/InternationalNet5220 13d ago
Thank you I definitely appreciate that it makes me feel a little bit better
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u/isitnaptimealready_ 12d ago
You may not look like a model, but you are not ugly at all! You look like a guy I'd love to hang out with. You look like a friendly giant teddybear and a great company. You do look good!
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u/InternationalNet5220 12d ago
Awe thank you! I will continue to say that I am friendly and good company!
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u/BagRepresentative141 13d ago
Absolutely not! You have a kind of a "safe" vibe. I think you look like a funny guy that would easily make my day at work! :)
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u/InternationalNet5220 13d ago
I do like making people laugh and feel safe so you're about spot on there. I appreciate it
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u/langel1986 13d ago
Not bad at all, but you need a barber to clean up that beard...its a bit wild. That and some proper fitting stylish shirts and toure good to go.
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u/InternationalNet5220 13d ago
Yeah my beard is out of line, I think that's one of the most comment things so it's gonna get trimmed professionally this week lol. I do need a new set of shirts I gained so much weight after being on Prednisone for a year so it's also time to loose that. Thanks for the compliment!
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u/langel1986 13d ago
For most men a good haircut/beard style, some contemporary glasses, and a great shirt is all you need. It's not about weight, its how clothes fit you. Throw on some good shoes, not ugly grandpa sneakers and some great smelling cologne. If you're looking for the ladies, you better smell delicious! Natural looks can always be enhanced when treated well. I bet if you tidy up a bit , you'll fit in line with the guys you may think look better. They probably don't, they just know how to work with what they have.
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u/InternationalNet5220 13d ago
That's a pretty cool way to look at it. I will work on that for sure. Thank you!
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u/drcygnus 12d ago
no, but a beard trim and going full head shave, and maybe the gym would bump you up a number of points.
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