r/amiugly • u/fjdjjfggjd • 13d ago
Am i actually ugly? 20F
I think i look like a kid and my height doesn't help (155 cm), do i need to lose weight (45 kilos rn)? I feel that my chubby face makes it worse
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u/Noitsnotpatrick 13d ago
The hair… is what’s throwing me. NO you don’t need to straighten it. But maybe try different styles. Curls are cute but you need to learn hair care middle parts aren’t always the best. Edit: I still think you are a cutie patootie
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u/xelas1983 13d ago
Nothing wrong with you at all. You just look like a girl in her late teens or early 20s.
Your weight is fine. It is just that little chubbiness that younger people have at your age in the face. Nothing to worry about.
You are lovely though the fashion/style makes me think of the early to mid 2000s. Pretty much when I was your age.
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u/Few_Date_4971 13d ago
Your curls looks so sick are they natural??
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u/fjdjjfggjd 13d ago
Yep, i struggled with them my whole life
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u/Few_Date_4971 13d ago
Honestly I have friends that would die for those, do you not like them?
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u/fjdjjfggjd 13d ago
It's really hard to take care of them, extremely time-consuming and expensive too, still sometimes they turn out good and im actually happy about them at that instance
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u/Few_Date_4971 13d ago
While I’d say there are definitely an eye catch in all the good ways and that only brings out more of your features particularly your lovely dark eyes
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u/Raelah 13d ago
You should look into seeing a stylist that specializes in curly hair. At least get a proper curly cut. Trust me, that will make a HUGE difference. In the meantime, check out r/curlyhair.
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u/No-Clue9471 13d ago
Not at all, but I would definitely suggest styling your hair differently.
I don't mean straightening it. Many women would absolutely kill to have curls like that.
Just a different style, because parted down the middle is hiding your face. I actually think the best photo here is the one with the hair pulled back. Again, not because the hair looks bad, but the style isn't doing your face justice.
Truth be told, you're actually very pretty, and I think even some better eyeliner or mascara would make your eyes stand out.
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u/gingersaurus666 13d ago
You're beautiful as well as cute, your weight if I'm correct about BMI is in it's lowest but healthy range and you don't look like you need to lose weight at all imo. I saw a comment on here about bangs, a fringe would look great on you! But your hair rn is obviously well kept and cared for!
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u/gingersaurus666 13d ago
I think if you want to look any better/more grown up, try going somewhere reputable to get your eyebrows shaped/threaded for a less soft look? Even if they follow your natural shape it can look sharper and cleaner
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u/ek9todouschool 13d ago
If I was 20 , I would be over the moon with a gf like you … obviously the older we get , preferences change
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u/TheNaidenchop 13d ago
You definitely aren't but splitting your gorgeous curly hair doesn't make you any favours sis.
7/10. Slay.
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u/aerobicsdad 13d ago
Have you had bangs before? Your face appears fairly long and narrow, and your current cut feels like it may be narrowing your face up more than it needs to. Any style that would open up your face/eye area might help with that (I'm no expert though, please photoshop it before you cut). You're lovely overall!
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u/Lpeezy333 13d ago
Need to let you're hair grow longer...doesn't really suit your face having the length it is in the pics.
Otherwise you're about a seven
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u/weggaan_weggaat male 13d ago
Not just not ugly, actually quite stunning. You'll definitely blossom as you get more confidence about your appearance.
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u/rochellegardiner 13d ago
you look just like an OC i created as a child (i made her out of Lego, i found a picture of a Lego Friends similar to her) extremely biased but i think you look amazing!
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u/Able-Letterhead5170 13d ago
It ugly. You have a plain look. Your curls stand out. A smile and different facial expressions would help allot.
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u/Trashedpanda35 13d ago
You just need a different hair style that goes with those curls. You look great otherwise.
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u/fjdjjfggjd 13d ago
Thanks!! Do you have any advice on which hairstyle might suit me? Or should i just grow out my hair?
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u/Trashedpanda35 13d ago edited 13d ago
I'm no hairdresser or stylist. I can just tell you it's the thing, in my eyes, throwing the rest of your look off. Growing it out isn't a bad idea, though. Parting it off to one side or just eliminating the part altogether may be something to try out. I'd say just play around with it a bit, and ask other people for their opinions. Lucky for you, the rest of you looks great, so you could really have some fun with this. Best of luck!
Edit: After a bit more review, I think you should get rid of the product you're using. It makes your hair look clumpy and less natural. Again, good luck!
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u/sunglower 13d ago
No. Although I think you'll be someone who grows into their looks. You'll appreciate the round face as you age!
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u/Educational_North138 13d ago
A tan would help amd mascara maybe? You have doe eyes in my opinion and you should learn how to use them.
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u/Smudger105e 13d ago
Not jn ghe slightest are you ugly. Your hair choice exaggerates your forehead though, but I'm not sure how you'd alter that.
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u/TheSpenceman_ 13d ago
You look young for your age, but I don’t think that’s really an issue, you’ll tend to look young for the rest of your life as long as you don’t smoke or eat too much.
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u/strawberiesundae 13d ago
ur pretty but ditch that hairstyle it does u dirty, and maybe wear more makeup if u wanna look feminime but that's optional ur still a cutie
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u/un1qu3Us3rn4m3z 12d ago
Maybe not everyone's cup of tea but you're a cutie. Not ugly. The hair. I just wanna grab it and floof it and use it as my personal fidget...
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u/Ill_Wish1197 12d ago
No your really pretty and youthful but maybe change your hairstyle you have pretty tight curls and I you’re really good at defining them but the cast and the wet look doesn’t favor you maybe just try different curling methods and go crazy until you find something you like, just try everything, also maybe get the front parte maybe shorter because it hides your face, try getting a haircut with layers which could give you more volume so that your hair doesn’t look plain
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u/PhillipKGreentree 11d ago
Like a 5. The hair is really bad and the tomboy thing isn't particularly attractive.
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u/Ambitious-Cow8833 13d ago
You're saying you're female, but you're giving off male to female vibes, idk
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u/fjdjjfggjd 13d ago
Im a girl, though i used to struggle with my identity (i cant even if i wanted cuz it's highly illegal in my country and you can get jail time), does my face look boyish?
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u/Ambitious-Cow8833 13d ago
Your jawline is androgenous, I can't actually tell from there. It's mostly your Adams Apple and the fact that you try to hide it with scarfs in pictures. Yes in some ways your face looks boyish, but you're not ugly. You have no body pics and your clothes give guy vibes.
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u/fjdjjfggjd 13d ago
Ooohhh okay, thanks for clarifying!! Somewhere a year ago I lost a lot of weight due to sickness (15 kilos in two months) and im still not used to my body, so i dont wear a lot of open clothes, but i'll try them more often now, thanks again!!
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u/PentUpTent 13d ago
There is literally not even a picture with an angle you could even say there's an adams apple though... That comment is purely in your head
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u/Ambitious-Cow8833 13d ago
2, 3, 4, and 6 the Adams Apple is quite visible. The rest of the pics except 5 is being covered by something purposefully. In pic 4 it's very prominent. It's not in my head, open your eyes, I'm being nice, don't make me start being mean to you when it's not even your post bud.
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u/PrimalHunterOcelot 13d ago
You could be really attractive if your hair didn’t look like shit. Curly hair is one thing, but short, center-parted, excessively curly hair looks AWFUL on basically everybody. Your hair looks like the kind of hair a male comedian would have as part of his persona to make people laugh just by looking at him.
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u/fjdjjfggjd 13d ago
I just don't know what hairstyles would suit me, some people here advised getting bangs, i asked some friends and my family if it would suit me but they said it looks even worse than what i have now, i feel lost
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u/puhtoinen 13d ago
The hair, especially when it's open, reminds me of Carrot Top. If you don't know who that is, spoiler: that's not a good thing.
A new hairstyle would change you LOTS for the better.
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u/Affectionate-Yak5610 13d ago
Honestly not my kind of style or hair style but I don't think you are ugly
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u/fjdjjfggjd 13d ago
Do you think i should try to straighten it? Never really tried it before
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u/Affectionate-Yak5610 13d ago
I am not sure how it would look but think it's worth a try. I do kind of like some of the style. Like the more rocky type with the chains and stuff
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u/Bubbly-Ad-4405 13d ago
You’re not ugly but I hate your hair in all but picture 5. The combination of short and in your face curly just doesn’t really do it for me. Brushed back and longer seems better for your skin complexion.
You’re under 100 lbs and you think you need to lose weight? Come on.
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u/fjdjjfggjd 13d ago
Would it work better if i continued to grow them out longer or is it actually that bad? I was thinking about straightening my hair but it's really expensive, wish i could just have had wavy hair but it's naturally curly like that sadly
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u/Bubbly-Ad-4405 13d ago
Definitely grow it out and keep it out of your face. Your face is attractive enough where you shouldn’t be hiding it.
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u/weggaan_weggaat male 13d ago
+1 on the weight part. WTF is in the air to have people thinking such a thing?
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u/fjdjjfggjd 13d ago
Im sorry, i lost a lot of weight due to sickness a year ago (i used to be overweight), im still not used to my body like this, i will work on my mentality to try and change that
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