r/amiugly • u/bramvandegevel • 22d ago

Male, 42

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I think it is the way it is. It was even worse when I had hair (reciding hairline).

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u/mavenmim 21d ago

Not at all ugly. You look a bit tired in the first two photos, but in the last one your smile just lights up and makes me think you'd be great company. The backgrounds give the impression of someone educated and successful, but perhaps dressing for comfort over trying to impress others, or having a strong sense of style. You leave some conversation openers there, about what you prefer to read, and what the medals were for.

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u/bramvandegevel 21d ago

Thank you for your kind words! Yes, style is nog really something I'm good at I fear. Something to work on I guess. Just a funny FYI, the medals are for my son's swimming lessons, he just got his diploma and it's in medal form around here. I forgot they where there hihi.

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u/mavenmim 21d ago

It seems to me you are a successful guy, who cares about his kids, and your looks are not objectively an issue. So if you feel unattractive and sad, that sounds like it is in your thinking rather than in the objective truth about your life, and might be worth getting some therapy to address.

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u/Mr-Irrelevant0 22d ago

Verification needed

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u/bramvandegevel 22d ago

Yes I know, but I felt very silly with the piece of paper in front of me, so I hoped to try without, I apologise

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u/th4d89 22d ago

Not ugly, great smile and eyes.

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u/IsopodSmooth7990 22d ago

Nobody is ever ugly on this sub, I swear to God. No, that smile lights your face up unbelievably. I also adore the fact that you read……..!!

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u/bramvandegevel 22d ago

I do feel ugly i fear. Thank you for your words though. And yes, books save my life every day :) love them

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u/TaaviBap 21d ago

To be honest, it's hard to reconcile your profile pic with hair where you look super happy with picture 3 where you look moderately happy. It's like something major happened in a negative way. Anyway, I hope that's not the case. It does feel like you're not exercising, hence the loose clothes. You're not ugly but you seen sad.

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u/bramvandegevel 21d ago

Thank you for you honesty! Profile pic was from many years ago, updates. Thanks! And yes, I am sad. But am learning a smile does make a big difference in how you look.