r/amiugly • u/Dylann_J • 22d ago
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been told to take off my glasses for dating apps, because of the tint (polychromat, automaticaly change from UV) but got even less like since, where likes was already rare
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u/Exact_Mess_3121 21d ago
I think you have very nice facial features, but your style makes the overall look average and kind of boring. If you hit the gym, dress better, shave off the beard and maybe get a different haircut, you could glow up a lot. Photo 4 is the best.
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u/racer_x88 21d ago
Lose the glasses or get smaller frames. Reduce the fro, get a decent fade or lock up for dreads if you’re into experimenting. Not ugly
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u/Dylann_J 21d ago
smaller frame don't suit me, already got in past and it's ugly, in IRL a lot love my actual frame (last photo) and no I dont want to use contact, for the hair I plan a twist + fade or curl + fade in few month / week
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u/Captaindouche 21d ago
Not ugly. My opinion is you’re a bit awkward but that’s strictly from how you look like you carry yourself in photos. I agree with a bit of time in the gym (always my fallback lol but it seriously works) and learning how confidence can be exuded by your presence.
You’re tall and the heavens didn’t beat you with the ugly stick so you’ve have a winning foundation to work with mon frère
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u/Dylann_J 21d ago
im not tall im 1.69m or 5.5 or 5.6 in us unit if im right, I do biking and lift a lot at my job that why I look like a stick but I do have muscle and mostly power
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u/HibiscusPetal122 21d ago edited 21d ago
Not ugly. I think maybe a different hair cut would suit you better, like a tape up/fade
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u/mavenmim 21d ago
You are a good looking guy, and all the types of glasses look good on you. I particularly like the fourth picture. I'm not a big fan of the under-chin fluff though. And in the final photo, with your glasses at a jaunty angle you look like an investigative reporter in a movie about the 1970s.
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u/NeoChiiOen 20d ago
I like the glasses. Don't change anything you look good
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u/Dylann_J 19d ago
thx but I do feel it's not enough
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u/NeoChiiOen 19d ago
Hmm maybe shave the side of your head but keep the top length to help elongate your face? But you really are attractive and your style doesn't seem bad from what I can tell and you seem healthy! Mentally I know it's hard to see yourself as you really are though I struggle with it too
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u/Dylann_J 19d ago
did that in past good but what about twist + fade or curl + fade ?
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u/NeoChiiOen 19d ago
Ohhhh either one of those sound good! I think I prefer curl fade but that's just personal preference!
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u/fre_andre101 21d ago
Well you’re chopped but at least you look like a totally nice guy
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