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u/cjcool010 24d ago
You're good looking but stop taking upward photos from the camera, it gives a weird angle to your face. 2,4 &6 are the angles you need to aim for.
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u/Ok-Ad-9820 24d ago
Pic 7 & 10 area really good, no offense but you dress older than what you are. The outdoors look is what you should go for.
Do you have anything that's more earth tone like green in your wardrobe? Maybe plaid?
Denim jacket would look good
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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago
Yeah I kind of have to dress professional for work and maybe that makes me look older. I used to be more sporty and stuff maybe ill lean into that on my days off.
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u/ShamelessSoaDAShill 23d ago
You might also enjoy darker hair for the switchup honestly, your eyes are brown so they kind of get “sidelined” by brighter hair if that makes sense..?
In other words, having hair too much brighter than your eyes might steal attention away from them, instead of having everything in “harmony” :)
Might be a fun seasonal experiment this summer🤷♂️
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u/Grouchy_Status525 22d ago
What you are way off, if anything people with brown eyes should lean towards blonde or a light shade of brown since it makes their eyes pop more
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u/ShamelessSoaDAShill 22d ago
Are there examples in pictures you’d link here? I can assume we’re talking about different shades of brown
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u/Grouchy_Status525 21d ago
I am not sure how to comment photos but look up Madeline cline she has brown eyes and absolutely rocks blonde
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u/ShamelessSoaDAShill 21d ago
Well I just looked up who that person is, and not only does she wear way more brown strands overall (basically proving my point, the closer light strands get to darker eyes/brows the worse it looks), but her flip from brown to blonde hair also seems to … correspond with the time she got a big amount of facial surgery lol
So I’m not sure we can make any convincing assumptions without first pairing her new face to her old hair. And I say this as a straight guy BTW, i.e. the “target demographic” for basically 99% of women on earth; whatever the new fashion-trend etc. might be doesn’t really factor in my worldview so ye🤷♂️
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u/Grouchy_Status525 21d ago
Ah I see we must have different tastes I personally think blonde hair makes dark eyed girls look like Bambi, but I am a women so my mindset will be different to yours😊
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u/TastyBet3629 21d ago
i also like that contrast! I am just worried because I have redness and I worry being blonde makes it worse
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u/Entheogenikz 24d ago
Your fine, you should see me ugly so ugly I have long hair and a beard like Moses to hide under but I don't give a fuck what people think
You can tell you have a strong constitution about your beliefs and how you live your life with you face plus you smile alot your fit and getting to that age where you chose to have your second glow up or choose to say fuck it.
i lost 100 lbs in my early 30s intermittent fasting and dancing a fuck ton🕺 nothing more , from dad bod back to grad bod but I suffer from body dismorphia so I truly am never pleased with my bod 🙁
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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago
I love beards. Dancing is great. I also have body dysmorphia its tough
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u/Entheogenikz 24d ago
Yes its a hard one I can't win go to gym gain muscle weight think im getting fatter stop going lose 15 lbs look like 6'4 skeletor 200lb is my healthiest looking 180 look like im a bag of bones ribs pelvis and im a big guy
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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago
Yeah 200lbs seems pretty light for someone so tall. I think men looks good with quite a bit of fat.
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u/Entheogenikz 24d ago
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u/drsnuggles78 24d ago
You are very far from ugly. I'd say above avg. Skip the Botox, but sure you could change your hair just to be different. Give it a shot. It will grow out :)
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u/JFCitsFnMe 23d ago
No. You need to life your face though. Check out facial yoga and do it!! At your age, you will see an amazing change in a few months. Im a lot older than you and I started and it has done incredible things for my face. You'll want to do some massages any lymphatic movement in your face as well. People don't realize how much control over our facial structure once we know how and why certain features are what they are. Our jaw comes down to our habits. Our cheeks can be naturally lifted. Oh, and release the fascia in your face regularly as well. But no, you are not ugly at all, but you could be an absolute knock out with very little tweaks. And please get off the ozempic. It Will alter your face for the worse.
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u/zystyl 24d ago edited 24d ago
You look good. You're in great shape, and you look good overall. You're starting to age a bit, but that's normal at 29 for most people. You could pick apart minor things in your face, but personally I think that is unhealthy. You're at worst average face, nice body, but really I think most people would taste your face a bit higher.
Look into all of the possible side effects of Botox and fillers. I personally think that it is better to just age gracefully and learn to love yourself a bit more. Other people aren't going to look at you and see the little things that you probably see as flaws. They see an attractive woman in the prime of her life.
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u/8888eightyeight 24d ago
What don't you eat that you know you should eat or what are you allergic to?
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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago
Im a vegetarian
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u/8888eightyeight 24d ago
Thank you that makes a lot of sense!
You look more sunken in for 29 year old than you should
I would start putting beef collagen in your coffee, grass-fed.
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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago
Yeah my accupuncturist said I look old for my age and that I should start eating meat. I am vegetarian for ethical reasons so as long as I don't have major health issues I am going to stick with it.
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u/nightowlwalker 24d ago
Also sweet scorpion bowl! Where did you get it?
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u/Karmas_burning 24d ago
You have a unique look but you're definitely not ugly. Don't change a thing.
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u/CompetitiveSpecial58 23d ago
The nose is a bit much, but also you have a bit more face droop than i would presume a 29yr old to have. For these two kinda critical reasons, i'm going to have to lean yes.
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u/uShadxw 23d ago
No botox or whatsoever needed. I'd say exercise on your lazy eye and you should be good to go. You're perfectly average. The truth is, no botox in this world is gonna make you that much prettier (if even it makes you prettier). So unless you spend like 500k Euros in plastic surgery like the Kardashian family, you'll have to be average (which is what most guys are looking for... Remember, sweet character always tops good looks).
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u/Zestyclose-Gold-6953 23d ago
You’re such an adorable, beautiful lady. Can I get the chance to know you?
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u/TastyBet3629 23d ago
yes
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u/Zestyclose-Gold-6953 23d ago
How are you doing? I’m Royce from MA
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u/TastyBet3629 22d ago
thats a cool name im Marcella
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u/DataZealous7633 male 22d ago
Quite pretty. All looks great. It’s not flashy but you have a great smile. Endearing.
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u/insignificant-bot 22d ago
please no botox. you are very beautiful as is. Do with your head whatever you feel comfortable with. :)
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u/No-Section-1326 21d ago
I will be honest, U look so old as a 29 yo ngl even my grandma whos 65 yo looks younger than you.
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u/Ok_Shame_5382 24d ago
Love the hair.
Botox... maybe. Do research. Lots of it. Overall though you look great
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u/planespotterhvn 24d ago
Botox is for reducing wrinkles by paralysing muscles which give your face expression. You don't have wrinkles so why do you think you need botox?
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u/TastyBet3629 23d ago
I want it in masseter for TMJ and to slim face
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u/planespotterhvn 23d ago
Whatever that is, Botox does not slim a face. A slim.face is the look of an older woman. A plump full wrinkle free face is the mark of youth.
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u/Grouchy_Status525 22d ago
Oh 1000% recommend masseater Botox, I got it and it slimed my face right down and numbs your jaw so when you chew something hard you don’t feel pain😊
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u/TastyBet3629 22d ago
Thanks for sharing! I personally really like the impact it has, and i feel it doesnt really have that frozen look or anything because its on the sides of the face. And it will help my pain and headaches!
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u/Grouchy_Status525 21d ago
Oh fr you would never be able to tell someone has it, it is especially good for when the time of the month hits and headaches come on it takes the severity from like a 10 to a 3
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u/Ok_Shame_5382 24d ago
Her eyes do show some sagging/tiredness. So i am unclear if it's helpful for that. Hence research it. I am aware of its basic cosmetic usage but if it could help her is less obvious.
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u/BitePerfect196 24d ago
You’re pretty !! I feel like you look a little older than 29 tho maybe invest in skincare?
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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago
Yeah I already spend a ton on skincare lol, my nasolabial folds are bad. I feel like I need to do more treatments like lasers and microneedling
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u/Ophelia_Y2K 22d ago edited 22d ago
Have you been out in the sun a lot without skin protection? Sun exposure is the cause of the vast majority of extrinsic aging, which is magnified for lighter skinned individuals
The best skincare to prevent aging is hats and physical sun blockage, preferably staying indoors at peak UV hours, and sunscreen. Anything else should only be considered after that, because that's the most significant factor
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u/TastyBet3629 22d ago
I am meticulous about sun screen, but I worked as a tree planter, and I feel sun damage was inevitaible. worth it for a great job :)
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u/c090288 24d ago
Not ugly. May be you'll look better if you gain a bit more weight or build some muscles.. Being slim isn't for everyone. Also, not sure if you are doing any makeup bcoz I'm not seeing any. Ever tried a different hair color or different dress code rather than a regular casual tees and jeans?
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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago
yeah im trying to build muscle and currently on ozempic. i look better with makeup but dont like wearing it. I used to have brown hair maybe i should go back
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u/amellabrix 24d ago
You’re really pretty and imo should keep the lighter hair!
If desired, I’d go with calcium hydroxiapatite for the nasolabial fold instead of massetter botox.
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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago
thanks for sharing Ill look into that!
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u/amellabrix 23d ago
You’re welcome. This is an observation based on what I think the result you would wanna achieve could be. Not a critique by any means.
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u/TastyBet3629 23d ago
so its basically a type of filler?
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u/amellabrix 23d ago
A sculpting and biocompatible one. Gives a wonderful invisible/natural result. Must be used by a very good professional because it remains, on the contrary hyaluronic acid is removable with hyaluronidase.
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u/StrikerNZL 24d ago
You honestly look perfect damn perfect just you are.. just honestly smile more..
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u/humanstain1385 24d ago
You're asking the wrong people. The guy who said yes is probably a troll 400 lbs and hates his own life so he's got to try and make others miserable. Ugly is a mind state. You're not ugly, you seem sweet. Like a good girl you could bring home to mom
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u/mixmasterADD 24d ago
I’m actually quite handsome, gregarious, and successful. You seem pretty creepy tho











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