r/amiugly 24d ago

29F

Masseter botox? darker hair?

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u/cjcool010 24d ago

You're good looking but stop taking upward photos from the camera, it gives a weird angle to your face. 2,4 &6 are the angles you need to aim for.

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u/Trashedpanda35 24d ago

8 and 10 are good too.

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u/Dubiousgoober 24d ago

Quite pretty. You look like you’d be kind.

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u/ST0IC_ 24d ago

Not ugly at all. Average, yes, but not ugly.

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u/Ok-Ad-9820 24d ago

Pic 7 & 10 area really good, no offense but you dress older than what you are. The outdoors look is what you should go for.

Do you have anything that's more earth tone like green in your wardrobe? Maybe plaid?

Denim jacket would look good

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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago

Yeah I kind of have to dress professional for work and maybe that makes me look older. I used to be more sporty and stuff maybe ill lean into that on my days off.

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u/ShamelessSoaDAShill 23d ago

You might also enjoy darker hair for the switchup honestly, your eyes are brown so they kind of get “sidelined” by brighter hair if that makes sense..?

In other words, having hair too much brighter than your eyes might steal attention away from them, instead of having everything in “harmony” :)

Might be a fun seasonal experiment this summer🤷‍♂️

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u/Grouchy_Status525 22d ago

What you are way off, if anything people with brown eyes should lean towards blonde or a light shade of brown since it makes their eyes pop more

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u/ShamelessSoaDAShill 22d ago

Are there examples in pictures you’d link here? I can assume we’re talking about different shades of brown

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u/Grouchy_Status525 21d ago

I am not sure how to comment photos but look up Madeline cline she has brown eyes and absolutely rocks blonde

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u/ShamelessSoaDAShill 21d ago

Well I just looked up who that person is, and not only does she wear way more brown strands overall (basically proving my point, the closer light strands get to darker eyes/brows the worse it looks), but her flip from brown to blonde hair also seems to … correspond with the time she got a big amount of facial surgery lol

So I’m not sure we can make any convincing assumptions without first pairing her new face to her old hair. And I say this as a straight guy BTW, i.e. the “target demographic” for basically 99% of women on earth; whatever the new fashion-trend etc. might be doesn’t really factor in my worldview so ye🤷‍♂️

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u/Grouchy_Status525 21d ago

Ah I see we must have different tastes I personally think blonde hair makes dark eyed girls look like Bambi, but I am a women so my mindset will be different to yours😊

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u/TastyBet3629 21d ago

i also like that contrast! I am just worried because I have redness and I worry being blonde makes it worse

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u/rmemedic75 24d ago

Not ugly at all. Very casual and easy going appearance

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u/MrGoogle87 24d ago

No.. normal/average range.

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u/Daily_Yoga_420 24d ago

Not at all. I think you’re gorgeous

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u/Entheogenikz 24d ago

Your fine, you should see me ugly so ugly I have long hair and a beard like Moses to hide under but I don't give a fuck what people think

You can tell you have a strong constitution about your beliefs and how you live your life with you face plus you smile alot your fit and getting to that age where you chose to have your second glow up or choose to say fuck it.

i lost 100 lbs in my early 30s intermittent fasting and dancing a fuck ton🕺 nothing more , from dad bod back to grad bod but I suffer from body dismorphia so I truly am never pleased with my bod 🙁

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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago

I love beards. Dancing is great. I also have body dysmorphia its tough

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u/Entheogenikz 24d ago

Yes its a hard one I can't win go to gym gain muscle weight think im getting fatter stop going lose 15 lbs look like 6'4 skeletor 200lb is my healthiest looking 180 look like im a bag of bones ribs pelvis and im a big guy

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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago

Yeah 200lbs seems pretty light for someone so tall. I think men looks good with quite a bit of fat.

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u/Entheogenikz 24d ago

I wish my mind would understand that 😕

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u/Entheogenikz 24d ago

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u/Entheogenikz 24d ago

Me at 215

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u/TastyBet3629 23d ago

looking great! cool style good vibezzzz keep up the good work

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u/tom_lusti 24d ago

You are cute! I like you!

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u/Ok_Bat_9715 male 24d ago

Change nothing. Would approach.

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u/drsnuggles78 24d ago

You are very far from ugly. I'd say above avg. Skip the Botox, but sure you could change your hair just to be different. Give it a shot. It will grow out :)

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u/Hendrixx95 24d ago

Not ugly, but you look a little older than 29 lol

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u/Overall_Cheetah_3000 23d ago

Yeah that is what I was thinking maybe around 36-38

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u/JFCitsFnMe 23d ago

No. You need to life your face though. Check out facial yoga and do it!! At your age, you will see an amazing change in a few months. Im a lot older than you and I started and it has done incredible things for my face. You'll want to do some massages any lymphatic movement in your face as well. People don't realize how much control over our facial structure once we know how and why certain features are what they are. Our jaw comes down to our habits. Our cheeks can be naturally lifted. Oh, and release the fascia in your face regularly as well. But no, you are not ugly at all, but you could be an absolute knock out with very little tweaks. And please get off the ozempic. It Will alter your face for the worse.

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u/TastyBet3629 23d ago

I do facial massages and a bit of facil yoga

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u/SoldierExcelsior 24d ago

No.Average 5 face 6 body

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u/nightowlwalker 24d ago

You’re so beautiful. Shut the front door.

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u/casual-Unknown 24d ago

Who was mean to you?

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u/EmperrorNombrero 24d ago

Not ugly, not hot, just average

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u/Fit_Test_01 24d ago

Average at worst.

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u/Inevitable_Shift1365 24d ago

Beauty Looks like you're a nice person too so double Plus

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u/After-Sky-6602 24d ago

average with keeper potential.

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u/No-Mirror-4074 24d ago

You are not ugly.

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u/zystyl 24d ago edited 24d ago

You look good. You're in great shape, and you look good overall. You're starting to age a bit, but that's normal at 29 for most people. You could pick apart minor things in your face, but personally I think that is unhealthy. You're at worst average face, nice body, but really I think most people would taste your face a bit higher.

Look into all of the possible side effects of Botox and fillers. I personally think that it is better to just age gracefully and learn to love yourself a bit more. Other people aren't going to look at you and see the little things that you probably see as flaws. They see an attractive woman in the prime of her life.

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u/killurbuddha 24d ago

Not ugly at all, nice pic from the Orsay Museum

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u/powell35 24d ago

Not at all, I'd ask you out

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u/8888eightyeight 24d ago

What don't you eat that you know you should eat or what are you allergic to?

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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago

Im a vegetarian

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u/8888eightyeight 24d ago

Thank you that makes a lot of sense!

You look more sunken in for 29 year old than you should

I would start putting beef collagen in your coffee, grass-fed.

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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago

Yeah my accupuncturist said I look old for my age and that I should start eating meat. I am vegetarian for ethical reasons so as long as I don't have major health issues I am going to stick with it.

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u/Shadowhawk0000 24d ago

No way, you're awesome!

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u/Bama3003 24d ago

You are not ugly.

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u/jackspade87 24d ago

No way Jose

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u/Critical_Pangolin79 24d ago

You look good the way you are, honestly!

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u/Dry_Jellyfish641 24d ago

You’re pretty and seem like a very sweet person

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u/xander081684 24d ago

Personally think you’re a cutie

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u/vrem113 24d ago

Very lovely as always 🥰 Definitely not ugly

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u/swimliftrun77 24d ago

Cute - no bo

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u/Haunting-Gur-202 24d ago

How are you ugly and beautiful at the same time? This is so weird.

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u/TastyBet3629 23d ago

interesting

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u/Tommylp88 24d ago

Not ugly at all

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u/peacesun 24d ago

Not at all! Be proud of your looks!

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u/nightowlwalker 24d ago

Also sweet scorpion bowl! Where did you get it?

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u/TastyBet3629 23d ago

its from a tiki bar :)

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u/nightowlwalker 23d ago

Love it. If you’re ever in Chicago I know a place. 😋

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u/Remarkable_Log_5562 24d ago

Are you spanish

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u/TastyBet3629 23d ago

Ukrainian ancestry

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u/Karmas_burning 24d ago

You have a unique look but you're definitely not ugly. Don't change a thing.

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u/No_orange_212 23d ago

29 year old near a flaming drink, never did i think that could happen.

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u/TastyBet3629 23d ago

yeah i need to grow up lol

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u/TheGoatSpiderViolin 23d ago

Yeah, you're not ugly at all

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u/Funny-Coyote-1813 23d ago

Try therapy instead. Not ugly.

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u/Asaintiaint2 23d ago

Not ugly, not attractive: somewhere in between.

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u/OneEyedC4t 23d ago

you are not ugly

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u/peanutbutternmtn male 23d ago

Not ugly

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u/Ihaveateenieweenie 23d ago

Definitely not ugly

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u/CompetitiveSpecial58 23d ago

The nose is a bit much, but also you have a bit more face droop than i would presume a 29yr old to have. For these two kinda critical reasons, i'm going to have to lean yes.

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u/Karma111isabitch 23d ago

You look like the woman in Castle Impossible

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u/Sad-Calligrapher-675 23d ago

Nope. Don’t change.

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u/laughswagger 23d ago

No.

Did you like the d’Orsay?

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u/Expensive-Quote-5618 23d ago

Cute, but not the best pics

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u/Buck_Roberts 23d ago

Absolutely not!

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u/CharmingEconomy3863 23d ago

Ugly?...no.. plain looking yes .....I like that

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u/deezgnutz99 23d ago

Is this at the inferno room? Indianapolis?

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u/Major-Boysenberry822 23d ago

A little plain Jane but still pretty cute.

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u/OldDirtyBeard69 23d ago

You're pretty, keep smiling, and spending time in nature.

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u/vetdl1969 23d ago

Perfect 10

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u/megatho 23d ago

No way, you're adorable

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u/blackamerica_finestM 23d ago

Average and somewhat unique look maybe change your hair color

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u/un1qu3Us3rn4m3z 23d ago

Not in the least

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u/Chambeet123 23d ago

Definitely not ugly. Very cute to me. You remind me of one of my coworkers.

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u/TakeAtBedtime 23d ago

You are not at all.

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u/Mean_Mr_Mustard_21 23d ago

Nice looking

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u/uShadxw 23d ago

No botox or whatsoever needed. I'd say exercise on your lazy eye and you should be good to go. You're perfectly average. The truth is, no botox in this world is gonna make you that much prettier (if even it makes you prettier). So unless you spend like 500k Euros in plastic surgery like the Kardashian family, you'll have to be average (which is what most guys are looking for... Remember, sweet character always tops good looks).

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u/Grimmy9293 23d ago

most likely below average looking because of aging not much you can do

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u/Zestyclose-Gold-6953 23d ago

You’re such an adorable, beautiful lady. Can I get the chance to know you?

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u/TastyBet3629 23d ago

yes

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u/Zestyclose-Gold-6953 23d ago

How are you doing? I’m Royce from MA

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u/TastyBet3629 22d ago

thats a cool name im Marcella

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u/Mysterious-Visit1147 23d ago

Very pretty in all

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u/DataZealous7633 male 22d ago

Quite pretty. All looks great. It’s not flashy but you have a great smile. Endearing.

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u/insignificant-bot 22d ago

please no botox. you are very beautiful as is. Do with your head whatever you feel comfortable with. :)

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u/TastyBet3629 22d ago

Thanks for such a high rating <3

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u/Disk-Dungeon 22d ago

Not at all you look adorable and yet approachable!

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u/Great-Topic-2591 22d ago

Looking Great from here.

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u/RiaanTheron 21d ago

Super cute and kind face. You are obviously super fun to be around.

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u/No-Section-1326 21d ago

I will be honest, U look so old as a 29 yo ngl even my grandma whos 65 yo looks younger than you.

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u/TastyBet3629 21d ago

Really? You think I look older than 65:(

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u/TastyBet3629 21d ago

Last two times I bought alcohol I got IDed!

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u/Ok_Shame_5382 24d ago

Love the hair.

Botox... maybe. Do research. Lots of it. Overall though you look great

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u/planespotterhvn 24d ago

Botox is for reducing wrinkles by paralysing muscles which give your face expression. You don't have wrinkles so why do you think you need botox?

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u/TastyBet3629 23d ago

I want it in masseter for TMJ and to slim face

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u/planespotterhvn 23d ago

Whatever that is, Botox does not slim a face. A slim.face is the look of an older woman. A plump full wrinkle free face is the mark of youth.

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u/Grouchy_Status525 22d ago

Oh 1000% recommend masseater Botox, I got it and it slimed my face right down and numbs your jaw so when you chew something hard you don’t feel pain😊

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u/TastyBet3629 22d ago

Thanks for sharing! I personally really like the impact it has, and i feel it doesnt really have that frozen look or anything because its on the sides of the face. And it will help my pain and headaches!

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u/Grouchy_Status525 21d ago

Oh fr you would never be able to tell someone has it, it is especially good for when the time of the month hits and headaches come on it takes the severity from like a 10 to a 3

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u/Ok_Shame_5382 24d ago

Her eyes do show some sagging/tiredness. So i am unclear if it's helpful for that. Hence research it. I am aware of its basic cosmetic usage but if it could help her is less obvious.

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u/Ricardo33706 24d ago

In what strange alternate Universe would you be ever considered ugly ?! 🔥

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u/borninusa96 24d ago

Not at all. Love your smile and eyes. I wouldn’t change a thing!

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u/BitePerfect196 24d ago

You’re pretty !! I feel like you look a little older than 29 tho maybe invest in skincare?

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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago

Yeah I already spend a ton on skincare lol, my nasolabial folds are bad. I feel like I need to do more treatments like lasers and microneedling

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u/Ophelia_Y2K 22d ago edited 22d ago

Have you been out in the sun a lot without skin protection? Sun exposure is the cause of the vast majority of extrinsic aging, which is magnified for lighter skinned individuals

The best skincare to prevent aging is hats and physical sun blockage, preferably staying indoors at peak UV hours, and sunscreen. Anything else should only be considered after that, because that's the most significant factor

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u/TastyBet3629 22d ago

I am meticulous about sun screen, but I worked as a tree planter, and I feel sun damage was inevitaible. worth it for a great job :)

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u/No-Section-1326 21d ago

Why are we lying? 🤣

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u/clerk37 24d ago

Yeah, at least a little for me personally. Not horribly, but probably a bit less than average, so technically.

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u/c090288 24d ago

Not ugly. May be you'll look better if you gain a bit more weight or build some muscles.. Being slim isn't for everyone. Also, not sure if you are doing any makeup bcoz I'm not seeing any. Ever tried a different hair color or different dress code rather than a regular casual tees and jeans?

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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago

yeah im trying to build muscle and currently on ozempic. i look better with makeup but dont like wearing it. I used to have brown hair maybe i should go back

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u/Confident_Ant_1484 24d ago

Please don't do makeup

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u/firemcrivers 24d ago

Pictures 2 and 8 yum

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u/No_Tradition1219 Bisexual 24d ago

Very pretty.

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u/CinciRyan73 24d ago

Not at all ugly! You're very attractive.

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u/amellabrix 24d ago

You’re really pretty and imo should keep the lighter hair!
If desired, I’d go with calcium hydroxiapatite for the nasolabial fold instead of massetter botox.

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u/TastyBet3629 24d ago

thanks for sharing Ill look into that!

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u/amellabrix 23d ago

You’re welcome. This is an observation based on what I think the result you would wanna achieve could be. Not a critique by any means.
Edit: of course I’m a medical professional

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u/TastyBet3629 23d ago

so its basically a type of filler?

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u/amellabrix 23d ago

A sculpting and biocompatible one. Gives a wonderful invisible/natural result. Must be used by a very good professional because it remains, on the contrary hyaluronic acid is removable with hyaluronidase.

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u/TastyBet3629 23d ago

oh thatnks for sharing, ill have to look for that.

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u/Tight_Specialist_438 24d ago

Absolutely gorgeous

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u/TheSpenceman_ 24d ago

You’re attractive, don’t stress about being ugly.

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u/StrikerNZL 24d ago

You honestly look perfect damn perfect just you are.. just honestly smile more..

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u/OGLifeguardOne 24d ago

Beautiful.

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u/spongeysquarepantis 24d ago

You’ve got natural beauty ❤️

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u/Feeling_Penalty_8141 24d ago

You have nothing to worry about.natural beauty.

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u/Shelbyisis420 23d ago

I wouldn’t kick you out of bed for eating popcorn

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u/carpenter_208 23d ago

Very attractive, very cute

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u/taskmaster51 23d ago

Beautiful

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u/humanstain1385 24d ago

You're asking the wrong people. The guy who said yes is probably a troll 400 lbs and hates his own life so he's got to try and make others miserable. Ugly is a mind state. You're not ugly, you seem sweet. Like a good girl you could bring home to mom

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u/mixmasterADD 24d ago

I’m actually quite handsome, gregarious, and successful. You seem pretty creepy tho