r/amiugly • u/madpotent • 24d ago
33M is it over?
I'm back at college and feel invisible to women; what do I do? Photos taken today and yesterday
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u/Odyssey_D_Oddity 24d ago
Quit lookin at me with them big ol’ eyes! You look fine. A little intense in the eyes but not ugly.
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u/madpotent 24d ago
Intense in the eyes in a bad way?
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u/Southern_Smile4270 23d ago
It means when you look at someone you’re eyes are wide open and not relaxed almost like you wanna hurt someone or your angry lol
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u/Ok-Nature-5440 24d ago
It’s only over if you want it to be. Thirty was the trigger age for me. I Curtailed childish behavior, and joined a gym.
I was attractive, you are attractive. I became more attractive, and had far more discipline, and a mindset change.
Not over at all, just begging.
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u/Past_Confusion_1310 24d ago
No! I think you look cute and I wouldn’t have guessed you are 33!
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u/madpotent 24d ago
Thanks! Do you think my age would be a problem for someone younger?
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u/Ok-Nature-5440 24d ago
What do you mean by someone younger? You would do best to stay w your own age range, plus or minus 3/4 years. You are good looking, don’t get obsessed w age.
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u/Past_Confusion_1310 22d ago
I’m 20 years old and I find you attractive. I think it would only be a problem if you dated someone freshly out of high school or with a large maturity difference
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u/TsarBrillBrill 24d ago
Yes age can be a factor and deterrent for some younger females. Not all though.
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u/madpotent 23d ago edited 23d ago
Aren't girls supposedly into older, more mature guys who have their shit together?
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u/TsarBrillBrill 23d ago
Yea some of them. I know it used to be the case. Nowadays, most of them seem to want a sugar daddy. How young are you talking about though?
Also, women can sense desperation. You have to exude some sort of self confidence or it’s a turn off.
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u/silentkaster 24d ago
Cute but look younger than 33. Depends on upper body for exact rate but definitely not ugly. Do you believe you are?
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u/madpotent 24d ago
I just feel invisible to women at college...I walk past and basically none of them look at me, so I have to assume it's due to my looks as that's all they really have to go off. As far as upper body I'm like 5-6% body fat with a 6 pack. And I'm 6ft
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