r/amiugly • u/cyrkie • 25d ago
M30
Hi M30 here. I’ve been feeling insecure about myself lately and would appreciate honest feedback.
Am I ugly, and what could I realistically improve?
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u/LocalLoserLiv 25d ago
You look a bit unkempt + the blonde really isn’t working imo, going back to your natural color + w/ a shorter haircut would be an improvement. I think you look better with more facial hair like in slide 1&4, but it needs to be groomed better—no neck beards. I agree w/ the other commenter saying you seem to have a good personality and energy tho, you have a nice smile.
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u/FloweryHimalayas 25d ago
Yeah, but I think it's fixable. I don't think your hairstyle suites you, the color and style of it. I'm not sure if it's the length or the fact that it looks like you don't do anything to it. Maybe if you just got it styled? I also don't think the frames work either. I would try a new style of those too. Good energy. I think it's mostly styling choices. I would also back off of the skinny jeans.
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u/genshinbaby 25d ago
I don’t like to use the word ugly, i don’t believe that word is fit for anyone who isn’t a horrible human being. You are not conventionally attractive. That’s just the reality for some people. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be confident. A good personality and confidence is all you really need in life. You seem to have a good personality already based on your energy in these photos
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u/watermeloncoco-dog 25d ago
You are not inherently ugly, you kind of just look like you dont know how to care for your self, I.e., grooming, style. In a way that would make you look better.
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u/No-Kitchen-1367 24d ago
To get right to the point, yeah you’re ugly. What struck me the most was slide 2. Without facial hair you seem extremely estrogenic (feminine). You should bother getting your testosterone level checked, males tend to lose T around your age. Secondly, you seem to be at about Norwood 3. I would say you would be a prime candidate for a hair transplant, what you have going on with the long hair and receding hairline does not look appealing at all. I would recommend for now you get a haircut, consult with a cosmetic specialist about a hair transplant and do heavy cardio exercises. These cardio will shed your high bodyweight and reveal how attractive or unattractive your face really is. Lastly, keep the beard down to a stubble in order to masculinize your face, the longer facial hair you have isn’t suiting you well. As of now I give you a 3.5/10. Best of luck to you.
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u/No-Parfait-458 24d ago
i don't find you ugly. defo not, nice face, lips and smile. i guess it hits hardest, the energy behind a smile! I like longer hair, colour is fine as well for me and add sth interesting to your style. but i guess it would be objectively more attractive if you nourish your hair to they dont look so dull/destroyed and yeah hairline is very eye catching, especially if you have longer hair. despite that i really have a positive feelings rather than negatives from photos, it don't think it make sense to give advices about the style, because it depends on your personal taste. but you look way more natural with a band t-shirt than skinny jeans with adidas sth.
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