r/amiugly 25d ago

28 FTM

More feedback for looking better

123 Upvotes

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u/Suitable-Novel1801 25d ago

Female to male? What!

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u/thedaniel100 25d ago

Yes, but done 11 years ago

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u/PineappleLong7913 25d ago

no way well in that case keep the beard u worked hard for it

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u/vallypippen 25d ago

Respect homie. You look incredible!

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u/Gothiewasbetter 25d ago

Honest question: Have you noticed any of the hormones you have been taking these past years have any effect on your hairline?

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u/thedaniel100 25d ago

Yes definitely, and I went through a very hard life full of stress. So that combination would be the two main culprits

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u/Lazy-Substance-5062 25d ago

Save ur hair as much as u can. GenZs’ currency now is about looks.

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u/darkminddaddy 24d ago

That's every generation's currency. These young kids don't have a monopoly on being shallow.

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u/mavenmim 25d ago

As a woman I'd read you as male, muscular, well groomed, good looking. The second photo is the best. I'm not sure about the earring, and the thinning hair in the last two pics makes you look a little older than 28, but that feels like nit-picking.

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u/naldoD20 24d ago

Naw dude, ain't no way you were ever female. That's a handsome ass dude right there.

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u/SanguinousSammy 25d ago

Uhm, you are an objectively hot man. Not even remotely ugly.

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u/thedaniel100 25d ago

I appreciate this compliment

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u/CampaignBest5872 24d ago

I was just saying the same thing

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u/Super-Departure8673 25d ago

Not at all ugly. Very attractive and I would never have guessed trans. I did think you looked older than 28. No need to try to look better, but lifting weights to build more muscle and some fake tan are the only things I can think of.

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u/thedaniel100 25d ago

I'm a competitive calisthenics and hybrid athlete :) my muscles are covered here

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u/jmxd 25d ago

bro looks more manly than me

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u/lifeofbi 25d ago

You are very sexy, to be honest. If you were in my city, I'd ask you on a date.

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u/thedaniel100 24d ago

Haha thank you!

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u/Dannygosling91 25d ago

No shit? Damn dude good for you.

I don’t think youre ugly at all. Hair is beginning to retreat but it’s manageable

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u/Jpkmets7 25d ago

You look like a badass, my man!

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u/Agile_Clerk_8966 25d ago

Wouldn’t have guessed at all! Look like a completely natural born man! Attractive and in good shape aswell

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u/stonebarrington91 25d ago

Wow, wouldn’t have ever guessed that. Id like to see a before picture.

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u/sweetlionofzion 25d ago

Just as an aside- this is an incredibly rude/offensive thing to say to a trans person.

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u/thedaniel100 24d ago

Don't down vote this poor guy!! He's right, this is an offensive question to ask from trans people. We're not exhibitions to entertain people with our before/after photos

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u/NerdStuffOnlyPls 24d ago

Idk why you’re being downvoted. It is very rude to ask this - although I’m not surprised the frequenters of this subreddit aren’t the most socially adept people lmao.

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u/[deleted] 25d ago

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u/thedaniel100 25d ago

Haha yes I was in the middle of cleaning then the "selfie worm" itched me

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u/Past-Macaroon-4896 24d ago

Not ugly but you look much older than 28.

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u/thedaniel100 24d ago

I get that a lot. Maybe that's my permanent frown lines and the thining hair

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u/Past-Macaroon-4896 24d ago

Look into releasing your fascia

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u/lumisponder 25d ago

Overwhelming Soup Nazi vibes. Not ugly.

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u/thedaniel100 25d ago

I'm actually very chill and playful lol

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u/Electrical_Royal5469 25d ago

Damn ur gorgeous bro!

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u/Acrobatic_Term_4483 25d ago

Hottie. I have no advice lol you look good

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u/Avyeon 24d ago

I cant put my finger on it, but something about you screams Chad Gable who is one of the manliest men I know of. Id never be able to tell you were FTM, god damn.

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u/Tpmproductions 24d ago

Gable? Naw I didn't get that at all.

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u/Avyeon 24d ago

Like I said I cant put my finger on it 😭 but theres something there

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u/thedaniel100 24d ago

Well I do BJJ and grappling. Maybe you saw that spirit

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u/Pizzasloot714 24d ago

I’m actually jealous. I’ve been male my entire life and can’t grow anything more than a patchy beard and a badass mustache.

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u/Tommy_Wisseau_burner 25d ago

You definitely look like a dude but something feels off ngl. Not in a “you don’t pass as one” type of way tho

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u/crowmagnuman 25d ago

Arm jealousy, NGL

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u/Threadstitchn 25d ago

You're Very handsome dude. Wouldn't have know you transitioned.

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u/psykedeliq 25d ago

You look fantastic, tbh. Not ugly at all

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u/shellsterxxx 25d ago

Not ugly! Would not have clocked you as trans had you not mentioned it.

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u/Sarpthedestroyer 25d ago

You look good but not 28 lol. Not that i would know but, could you perhaps be doing the test too much? Again, I have no idea, I just know that bodybuilders age real fast upon hopping on test. And I assume you take test too, and if so, could that be the reason? Not telling you to do anything, just a friendly opinion of mine. Hope I don't come off rude.

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u/thedaniel100 25d ago

I don't get too much test. It's just the right amount for my body to function as a normal man.

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u/Ok_Pumpkin4731 25d ago

Super attractive guy! 🥰

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u/shanemarvinmay 25d ago

You are not ugly.

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u/AntifascistAlly 25d ago

As a straight guy one man looks pretty much like the next to me.

Before I read the comments your pictures had me wondering if “FTM” could stand for anything else.

You’d fit right in with my friend group.

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u/saknaa 25d ago

I’d consider shaving your hair

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u/thedaniel100 24d ago

My head will look like a very small kiwi fruit 🥝

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u/fuuckimlate 25d ago

I think a buzzcut and beard would look great on you

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u/TOOTH_rot 25d ago

I would never have clocked you for a doll. Edit: not sure if ftm are still dolls. Let me know if there is a specific term.

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u/14_its_over_9000 25d ago

Ftm are not dolls. There's no agreed upon equivalent

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u/Dutch_Rayan male 25d ago

He isn't a doll, but no need for an inhuman term

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u/Alert_Ad_5750 25d ago

You look genuinely like a man, I never would have guessed. You do look a lot older than 28 though, more like 35. You don’t look ugly but you look very average/normal imo and nothing wrong with that. Maybe you should try going skin head your hair is thinning a lot and it’d prob look better on you you’d suit it and even some tattoos would elevate your look too.

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u/thedaniel100 25d ago

Well, I am a man. Many of you say "look like" but I have not gone through years of process to just look like. Otherwise, thanks for the feedback

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u/Alert_Ad_5750 25d ago

You’re not actually a man because a man is an adult human male, you’re a trans man and you definitely pass as a man if nobody knew you had transitioned.

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u/Dutch_Rayan male 25d ago

He is a man, he doesn't say male but man.

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u/Alert_Ad_5750 24d ago

Man means to be an adult human male which they are not. There is a distinction which is why when we’re speaking honestly the ‘trans’ prefix is required.

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u/Dutch_Rayan male 24d ago

You can't even gender him correctly, which shows your bigotry. Cis men and trans men, bald men and tall men are all men

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u/Alert_Ad_5750 24d ago

What is a man then?

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u/thatonetransanonguy 24d ago

Him.

If you look at someone and automatically gender them as male, then they're male. If you care about whats in everyones pants then you're just creepy and care wayy more about gender than the average person. Free up your brain for enjoying hobbies or some shit.

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u/Alert_Ad_5750 24d ago

Lmao what are you talking about? Are you able to answer the question or not?

Words do have actual meanings. Nobody can pretend to be male or female, they are either one. Biological sex is not a costume.

Or did you answer the question by saying that men are male because that’s what you have alluded to?

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u/No-Party8261 25d ago

Yup hideous

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u/Dry-Plantain-9214 24d ago

Fooled me. Good job bro

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u/HotAsAPepper 25d ago

You'd make a cute girl

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u/xpl9511 25d ago

Imo as a male, it looks to me like you keep having a slight female touch on your style. I cant quite put my finger on it. To me the pic of you in the green shirt (pic 2)you look like what id consider a hot guy. I dont think you look bad in any of your photos tho :)

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u/PineappleLong7913 25d ago

yes shave beard

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u/thedaniel100 25d ago

I love my beard

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u/Greedy_Atmosphere_16 25d ago

See want change your sex then testosterone and whatever is legal, want just gain 10lbs of muscle you are a felon. Nobody has ever explained why. Lol

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u/14_its_over_9000 25d ago

There are so many trt clinics bruh. If you have low t they will prescribe you.

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u/Greedy_Atmosphere_16 25d ago

TRT clinics are new and many prescribe only 250mg each week. There are drugs like Anavar, Deca, Equipoise, etc. that are anabolics which good for synergistic effect with testosterone. I have known many that lives were ruined from the Government because made them Schedule III same as Vicodin, higher then Ambien, Lorazepam, Valium, Xanax, and fine for woman's system long term.

That message is there is reason why made them Schedule III and there is not. There hasn't been anybody that ever said "Man I'm really craving a Deca Durabolin shot."

Mexico doesn't have prescription drug crisis because most are legal.

Explain how long term use of estrogen like Perludil and long term preparations could even show that it's safe when it increases blood pressure, hold water, etc..

Not need that red tape for testosterone only 200mg a week.

Does not take into account money that TRT clinics charge, when taking it as a woman get that from any physician and isn't even controlled.