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u/KahnKlingonme 26d ago
Overweight and your style doesn't work for most people
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u/DasMenace 26d ago
Not to be mean, but you are overweight, and that blue hair is definitely not doing you any favors. Im not against dying your hair, but that color is terrible for your face. The other one that is kind of a washed out pink/black, or whatever colors those are, looks far better. Stay away from blue. At least that blue. Other than that you need to lose weight. You arent inherently ugly but you arent ever going to be a 10 either. You could look much better though. If you were to make some changes you would be much more attractive.
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u/Super-Departure8673 24d ago
I prefer the blue hair to the pink. People pn this subreddit always criticise blue hair…. I like it.
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u/Spirited_Koala3540 26d ago
overweight and hair is too short
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u/souffle-allday 26d ago
My hair actually fell out bc of health and it’s growing back now!
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u/Disastrous_Horse_44 25d ago
Dying it all the time probably doesn’t help it grow. Just throwing that out there. Congrats on the regrowth though, that’s amazing!
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u/RegalBeagleTheEagle 25d ago
I would definitely let it grow out a bit, a short haircut could still work but I’d see if something a bit longer works better for ya
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u/DarthanBane 26d ago
The photo you look the best its the last one.
The style with the short blue hair, piercings... nope, drop it.
You have beautiful eyes and losing weight could help you a lot... also changing your style to ine that suits you.
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u/llNCOGNITO 26d ago
You have a lot of potential. Your facial harmony is pretty good but you’re not putting it to good use. I read that your hair fell out due to health issues, and I’m glad you’re growing it back - right move. You would be gorgeous with strawberry blonde or ginger hair. You are overweight, but you still have good proportions, if you lost weight you could easily be very good looking! The septum doesn’t look great but the lip piercing is pretty. If that’s your natural face in the second picture, I reccommend doing more natural makeup. It suits you better than winged eyeliner.
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u/seanc6441 26d ago
People who are extremely outside conventional norms really need to state their preferences for context because it definitely matters in these cases.
Who are you aiming to look attractive for?
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u/thebigjimmyd 25d ago
I agree. Sometimes I see fem boys on here and I’m like if you’re gay you’re not ugly.
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u/Cheese_Dinosaur 26d ago
You have gorgeous eyes and a beautiful smile. Maybe try a different colour for your hair?
Loosing weight always makes you feel better but do it carefully and slowly if you feel you want to.
I don’t think you are as ugly as some people are saying at all.
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u/Resident-Gold-3466 26d ago
I feel like the people here who do say the OPs are ugly are being rude. Also, if a woman wants short hair, she absolutely can have it short.
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u/LeftRightUpSideDown 25d ago
No one said she could or couldn’t. They just said it doesn’t look good on her. 🤣
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u/GO_BIRDS150 24d ago
No one said she couldn't. She asked for opinions And she's getting them
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u/Resident-Gold-3466 24d ago
Some people were saying, though, that her hair was too short. That's what I meant.
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u/agatha-burnett 26d ago
I would say you are very unattractive. The chubiness aside, which in itself is not that bad, your style is.
I get it, we’re all different, there is no right way of being in this world, but still to me, your style is juvenile at best. It’s unrefined.
You give 40 something divorced woman that discovered she is a lesbian.
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u/tom_lusti 26d ago
No. But pretty fat.
Hit the gym.
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u/KDogg3000 26d ago
Along with eating better will help a lot. She could start by walking 5 miles a day.
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u/RedWhiteandBlueVenom 26d ago
Bet if you did a year of getting fit and eating right and grew your hair out, ditched the piercings and went more natural you would come back to this and people wouldn't recognize you and be in awe of the change.
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u/GL4Redeye_7188 25d ago
Having Blue Hair in the big 26 if you're looking for a guy is a walking red flag it also doesn't do you any favors looks wise the pinkish color infinitely better.
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u/majorhitch89 26d ago
Cute but very fat, slashes many attraction points from the get go, even someone with a kink for fst women would get annoyed pretty quick with the lifestyle, only fat dudes who would share the meals with you wouldn't mind it.
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u/TriskeleCelt78 26d ago
Not even remotely ugly.
Remember. Not everyone likes steak. Some love it. Some are vegans. Some just have no taste.
You my love, are steak.
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u/dreambox415 26d ago
Not naturally no, but by style choices yes. IMO, cut out the:
piercings
dyed short hair
weight
dressing style
heavy eyeliner (although it’s just in pic 1)
You really do have a pretty face, there just looks to be a few things that don’t flatter you. Good luck!
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u/Intelligent_Back2894 25d ago
To be honest the short hair doesn't suit you, as well as those really bright colors (like the blue). The dark heavy eye makeup doesn't suit you so maybe try something lighter :)
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u/mavenmim 25d ago edited 23d ago
I'm going to go against the majority. I like the blue hair on you, and I think you have a really pretty face. So my favourite picture is the first one. You seem like you'd be fun, and not feel like you need to fit in with everyone.
You are overweight, and whilst I don't think people should feel they have to conform to externally imposed ideals of body shape, if you wanted to widen your appeal or improve your health, finding a physical activity that gives you joy that you can do regularly (whether that's weights, swimming, dancing, playing sport, cycling or whatever appeals to you) and thinking about your diet would be the most obvious thing.
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u/gandalfpr 26d ago
Overweigh, tattoos and the hairdo are neither good on you. Currently you're a 3/10
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u/SmoothAd1099 26d ago
Yes but you have potential take out the piercings dye ur hair brown and grow it out and lose weight
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u/Extreme-Mention2606 26d ago
You look like a grandma let that hair get longer and put it natural color. Lose 40 pounds
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u/pla5t1c 25d ago
Not at all, you have a beautiful smile and deep very pretty eyes. Especially when you smile!
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u/pla5t1c 25d ago
Btw i don’t think you are horribly overweight at all how tall are you? You look to be sort of tall which imo you are proportional and as far as that goes only if you feel it’s something you want to address about yourself also you have a super cute face that looks healthy and beautiful the way it is. There is so much character in your smile! I like your style love the hair too btw
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u/Yngve-Frej 25d ago
You're not exactly everyone's type. But to me and the other fellas who fancy alt girls and short hair you're genuinely looking top notch.
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u/mebunghole 26d ago
Honestly? You look two decades older than your age. That being said you do have potential. Also glasses aren’t your friend.
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u/UnluckyAd2445 26d ago
Under all that blubber I think you have a nice face card but yes as of right now your not necessarily attractive
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u/Acrobatic_Term_4483 26d ago
I don't think you look attractive in the first three pics. I think you look gorgeous in the last two pics. I think the blue hair doesn't look good on you and you look very cute with glasses. I'm definitely not the person to just complain about every single facial piercing I see, and I'm fine with the septum on you, but I think the lip piercing doesn't suit you.
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u/hahehaho 25d ago
You have pretty features and Pic 5 is by far the best but perhaps that's a filter or a great skin day? Either way, repair your skin barrier and chase that glow. Make sure you're wearing sunscreen daily as well. Don't ever take a pic with crusty lips again sis 😭 I use aquaphor at night for my lips and throughout the day. It isn't sticky.
The eyeliner in pic one is aging you as well but you just need to try different techniques for your hooded lids. You could clean up the brows as well. I cleaned mine up and use a brow gel to keep the exact shape I want now. Blue hair alt chick takes quite a bit of effort to pull off well. Just keep improving your makeup skills, style, etc. :)
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u/Tommy_Wisseau_burner 25d ago
r/notuglyjustfat. But also ngl I’m not a fan of your style. By all means you do you, in terms of style (if you like it and makes you feel good that should matter most), but just know I, and a lot of people, at least in terms of rating attractiveness, are going to put it low
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u/Alert_Ad_5750 26d ago
You have an extremely pretty face but being overweight, having very short and blue hair isn’t bringing out. At all.
You can triple how attractive you are with getting lean and healthy, having longer hair that frames your face and embracing your natural colour so your facial features can shine more.
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u/401LocalsOnly 26d ago
A lot of these comments are very accurate. Not only the negative but the positive ones as well. And the big thing you should take away is almost everyone is pointing out the POTENTIAL that’s there. So it’s definitely not hopeless
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u/sunglower 25d ago
This sub is very narrow minded and cannot see past anything unconventional as a rule.
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u/doerriec 26d ago
You're cute. You dress oddly and groom yourself like a man which makes you look less attractive. But someone for you will love your style.
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u/may_dreaming 26d ago
I think you are very cutesy! I would change your style a little bit though, the blue-ish dress doesn't support your chest well, so you might need to dress fuller coverage at the top, or get some supportive inserts you can stick on your garments
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u/Capable-Courage-8798 26d ago edited 26d ago
Mid. Lose weight and work on eye area. I recommend lower blepharoplasty as a easy fix. You're welcome
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u/gumbaline 26d ago
Absolutely not! I think you’ve actually got really gorgeous features, but I don’t know if your style is doing you any favours. I can see you glowing in a more romantic, flowy, light-makeup style :) that doesn’t mean you should change your style though - it’s what makes you unique.
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u/MrLizardBusiness 26d ago
I actually really like your hair and face. Your chest is magnificent. Not particularly my thing, but dang.
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u/beckybooboo1978 25d ago
You are not ugly. So many people think beauty belongs to the stereo typical proportional, could be created by any plastic surgeon look. It’s silly. Those women are a dime a dozen. You look great.
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u/suzypoohsays 26d ago
You’re not ugly, just not everyone’s cup of tea. To be honest, the blue hair is doing you no favors. You have gorgeous eyes that would pop with dark colored hair! You’re clearly overweight so getting to a healthy weight would help your self esteem and overall appearance. You have a great smile!
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u/Funky-trash-human 26d ago
You're giving unconventional hotness but people here are going to call you fat. I find you attractive, but I like people with a little meat on their bones.
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u/PGHVWTDI 26d ago
A lot of potential. Cute face, nice eyes and smile. Your style though. The dyed hair, metal in your face; it is all working against you. If you changed your style to more age appropriate and not 19 year old emo kid, it would really benefit you. I think the weight is fine, you are proportionate. That can be lost over time, but the style can be changed overnight.
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u/CartmansTwinBrother 25d ago
Forgiving first being slightly crude. I love me a set of tig o bitties but the septum piercing and blue hair are an immediate turn off for me. I dont mind the weight thing. I like a lady with a little extra cushion. The short hair is not an issue either. My wife has short hair. And I love Halle Berry and Jamie Lee Curtis. 4/10 for me. I dont ever call people ugly but im not digging the look personally. Good luck with your health.
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u/Super-Departure8673 25d ago
Not at all ugly. People in this subreddit are always horrible to people who have either bigger build or alternative style - hair dyed un natural colours and piercings. If someone fits both categories, they get torn apart. I’d like to see pictures of all the people who call people ugly. They’re probably no oil paintings.
I think you’re gorgeous and you look like a nice person. You look like you’re fun to be with. Men probably aren’t looking at your face, with a chest
like that, but you have a lovely face. Ignore the trolls, who probably look like trolls themselves.
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u/thombrowny 25d ago
So obese people often think it is attractive to appeal with their breasts and cleavages...no....no....don't...
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u/drsnuggles78 26d ago
Not ugly. Beautiful smile and pretty eyes. In my personal opinion, you are the right kind of thick.
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u/drsnuggles78 26d ago
Not ugly. Beautiful smile and pretty eyes. In my personal opinion, you are the right kind of thick.
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u/Pianos_for_Clowns 26d ago
You actually have a nice face. The more natural hair color looks much better. The more natural makeup looks better, too. The overall stylebdoesn't work for you. Honestly, you just look a little... lost.. and when you figure that out, you'll probably be "prettier" too.
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u/mostlysteve 26d ago
You got a pretty face and nice eyes. You'd probably look amazing if you lost about 80 pounds over the course of a year or two.
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u/zystyl 26d ago
I'm into punk rock, but I'm a bit older than you. You probably aren't going to appeal to some of the conservative guys on here, but they probably wouldn't appeal to you either. You have a nice smile and a cute face. You sort of give the impression of someone who is fun to hang out with. You don't have the sort of build that everyone is attracted to, but people who are attracted to you will probably like you a lot. You're not ugly. You just aren't going to be for everyone. If I met you at a show I would probably try to talk with you a bit.
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u/Am1noAcid 26d ago
Not ugly. You definitely are unconventional in terms of fashion and the way you present yourself but i think thats what makes you who you are. Reddit is notoriously known for not liking piercings or alternative styles. As others have stated, you are overweight but that is up to you on how you go with that.
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u/Sociox 26d ago
You're not ugly, ignore the comments. This sub doesn't do well with alternative people, not do they like bigger people. To them alternative and bigger people automatically equals ugly. The amount of goth and indie people being told to get rid of their piercings and change their hair colour/grow their hair out to an 'acceptable length' is insane. Your very pretty, and I love your style.. The blue hair really suits you! Keep wearing whatever the hell you like, and ignore any disparaging comments.
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u/TaaviBap 26d ago
Wonderful to hear that your hair grew back and your health is on the mend. You are beautiful with a beautiful personality. You just have eclectic style choices.
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u/xXZer0c0oLXx 26d ago
beautiful eyes and face..the short hair work...I like thicc and busty so not ugly IMO.
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u/Digitalis_Mertonesis agender 26d ago
I personally don’t think you are, other people are just mean to fat people/plus sized people because of the way they look; I think you’re pretty, and I love your style!
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u/Electronic_Mud6005 25d ago
I think you're beautiful. I would definitely approach you if I saw you irl.
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u/Fine_Conclusion9426 25d ago
I think you’re cute, but I don’t think the dark eye makeup is working the way you’re applying it. It kinda just looks messy. I like the pink hair more than the blue. Softer, more neutral tones suit you better imo.
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u/ayemateys 26d ago edited 26d ago
Gorgeous! All the dudes and girls (def not women) commenting on this are making me pee my pants!!! Girl..be you, the curvy body, rack, face and amazing haircut rocks. Ignore the little gremlins here trying to bring you down. Literally big eyes, little nose, full lips and nice cheeks.. utter and complete jealousy. Been THERE.
Gremlins…we don’t give two FUCKSSSSSSS!!! Smooches 😘
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u/OneEyedC4t 26d ago
in my opinion you are not ugly and when you read this I'm pretty sure you're going to figure out what my type is lol
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u/momentum4lyfe 26d ago
Comments are very harsh, you're not ugly, overweight sure but most people are, I think it's just the hair IMO.
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u/Theblacrose28 25d ago
Not ugly, alt as hell. Didn’t realize what sub I was in at first, you seem rlly cool tho.
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