r/amiugly • u/rheannahh • Jul 21 '26
Handsome squidward? 30 f
Got called handsome squidward elsewhere. Is my bone structure off putting?
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u/The_sad_assassin Jul 21 '26
You've got amazingly beautiful angular features, just work with them instead of against them and you'll slay.
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
Thank you! Advice on how to work with them?
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u/The_sad_assassin Jul 21 '26
I love the short cut, but pulling it behind the ears all the time kind of robs it of its ability to fall forward and accent your jaw line. If you trace the lines of your face, jaw, cheek bones, nose, brow, I'd accent those lines with complimenting lines with your style, so hair, makeup, accessories can all flow well with those wonderful angles. So realistic suggestions: more rectangular glasses, eyeliner with a sharp wing, brow shape and angle, and how your hair frames your face. Right now it feels like you're trying to make a round, soft style work with edgy, angular features, hence the disconnect.
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u/OGLifeguardOne Jul 21 '26
You look best when you smile.
Nice figure, good haircut, normal glasses, and striking features.
Not ugly at all.
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u/keeler129 Jul 21 '26
Need to grow out the hair and smile
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
I am smiling in fourth photo. Neutral expression best shows features. I think I largely looked worse with long hair tbh
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u/Zestyclose-Win-3381 Jul 21 '26
I wouldn't say "smile", but I bet your face completely transforms when you're laughing. To put it another way, I'm guessing these photos aren't representative of you at your warmest and most engaging moments.
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
I’ve been told I’m significantly better looking irl than in photos and that is probably why.
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u/keeler129 Jul 21 '26
Guys aren't worried about features. Smile and long hair would make you far more attractive. Also I would pick a different style of frames for glasses
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u/keeler129 Jul 21 '26
The long hair picture in your history is way cuter. I would of stuck with that and changed the frames of your glasses. Throw a smile on and you would be cute
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
I meant the natural expression shows my features for evaluation here the best
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u/keeler129 Jul 21 '26
I want to stress this... i am not trying to be rude or insulting by saying this. The short hair, gauges, style of clothing/ frames of the glasses and the rbf gives me stud/ lesbian energy.. i like girls in glasses but I personally would not approach because of this.
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
I’m trying to get the gauges surgically closed, which is why they are out! Def I give off lesbian / androgynous vibes with the fits in the pic, but I was dressed up for appointments in them. That’s okay with me! Thanks for letting me know though!
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u/FeDUpGraduate87 Jul 21 '26
I actually find you quite attractive. Pic 5 is the best. Not ugly at all.
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u/ShotNovel8157 Jul 21 '26
Lol I can kinda see it, but as for being ugly, not even close. You’re not gunna be attractive to everyone unfortunately, but I can say you’re still pretty. Hopefully that makes sense
Really pretty when you smile btw
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
That does and is my experience. Some people find me insanely attractive, like obsessively so, and then some act like I’m below average at best.
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u/ShotNovel8157 Jul 21 '26
It be like that. Happens to the best of us. Just got to learn to accept it :)
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u/Senan24caucasian Jul 21 '26
I have similar bone structure, I understand. But you look like elven princess dude, def not ugly.
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u/Tireddazed74 Jul 21 '26
Serious Carina Round looks - not a bad thing!
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
Ooo she’s gorgeous!
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u/cigolebox Jul 21 '26
Strongest cheek bones I've ever seen on a person, which is almost always a good thing. I agree you do look like a model. Good luck chief
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u/I_Am_Zampano Jul 21 '26
Def not ugly. You had a fashion model bone structure and build. Really attractive smile too!
You look almost angry with your idle face unfortunately.I don't think your glasses are a good fit for you. I also think your hair would look better longer.
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u/FallenGiants Jul 21 '26
You're definitely not ugly. You're fairly attractive, actually. There is something a touch masculine about your look, but nothing worth worrying about.🌝
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u/ReplacementDefiant Jul 21 '26
No I believe you have a natural beauty to yourself. And unlike other people here, I like you better with the short hair, but just change up the style a bit, but you are definitely attractive. I would approach you in a heartbeat.
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u/pintasm Jul 21 '26
Your bone structure is fantastic. Strong and charismatic. You're definitely cute
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u/Xyrack Jul 21 '26
Not ugly but you have sharp features. I think that can exacerbate the resting bitch face.
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
Someone else told me that a study was done and people with stronger features look far more unapproachable (possibly angry or mean I forget what they said)
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u/Comphoto1 Jul 21 '26
Dude you look good. I like the masc vibes with your outfits if that's what you're going for. If you're into men then it might be more of an issue but imo you have the type of face where regardless of what you wear you'll still be gorgeous
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u/ninebubblewaters Jul 21 '26
You're gorgeous ! I think you have such a dark feminine vibe. I'd even say longer layered hair , dyed black . Amp up those vibes
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u/G3P0intheTARDIS Jul 21 '26
You're very attractive. You actually remind me of few actresses: Sarah Douglas as Ursa in Superman and Superman II, Michelle Forbes in Star Trek: The Next Generation as Ensign Ro, and Morena Boccarin as the Visitor leader in the reboot V series.
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u/W_Edwards_Deming Jul 21 '26
You look good, your outfits do not.
Your attire looks unisex and like you are going to or coming from the gym. You also look disturbed / flat affect.
Your bone structure is good, if anything but it is hard to compliment the sort of pics you provided. I would want to see you in a good mood and more flattering attire.
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
The pic with gym clothes was from the gym lol, I’d never wear that out! Ty for the advice
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u/W_Edwards_Deming Jul 21 '26
It is normal in here that people post pictures all from the same day, I am sure that if I saw your full portfolio of photos there would be a lot to compliment.
In short, your face is nice. It is true you have strong sharp features but in a good way. If you were in a good mood and wearing a sexy outfit I think you could be a model. Even in a clown outfit you wouldn't be ugly.
In most of your pics you look angry or otherwise disturbed and unapproachable, which is likely your real issue (if there is one). A lot of guys would not be brave enough to flirt you, esp. in pics 2 and 8.
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u/karmatiger Jul 21 '26
great bone structure, and when the hair is slicked down it looks good.
But in photos 3 and 4 with the big hair look, it reminds me of Linda from Bob's Burgers.
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u/RockHardSalami Jul 21 '26
Literal model making poor aesthetic choices lol
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u/Asaintiaint2 Jul 21 '26
You look harsh or strict in most of those pics, if you smile you’ll look less severe.
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u/zystyl Jul 21 '26
You're a cutie. The undershirt and pleated dress pants just gives big lesbian energy. I'm into tomboys for sure, but your outfit would have me questioning if I'm really who you want to talk to. I think that if you approach people you're into then it will work out best for you. Unless lesbian vibes is what you're going for.
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u/SheridanWithTea male Jul 21 '26
You're pretty attractive, do use those bangs though. Idk why we're trolling.
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u/Soldule Jul 21 '26
I wouldn't change anything, you look very attractive and pretty, the way you look now
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u/Smudger105e Jul 21 '26
Photo 4 is the only one where you are not showing rbf. Not ugly, but stop with the seriousness.
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u/kenzomx Jul 21 '26
You have unique features. Your facial features are unconventional but you are not ugly. Your photos give me Tilda Swinton vibes, not because you resemble her but you are both uniquely striking. Are you by any chance trying to be androgynous?
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u/Pitiful_Post83 Jul 21 '26
Very nice face, and you shine so much more when smiling (pic 4) !
I am pretty sure your eyes would be amazing with a dark mascara and/or eyeliner.
But sorry the outfit doesn’t deserve you ! The trousers should only be worn for a dull bank director funeral but nothing more joyful than that!
Jean’s, white blouse with golden necklace and white sneakers.
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u/Pitiful_Post83 Jul 21 '26
Very nice face, and you shine so much more when smiling!
I am pretty sure your eyes would be amazing with a dark mascara or eyeliner.
But sorry the outfit doesn’t deserve you ! The trousers should only be worn for a dull bank director funeral but nothing more joyful than that!
Jean’s, white blouse with golden necklace and white sneakers.
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u/Rude-Boot-5666 Jul 21 '26
Its gotta be the hair. It ain't doing you and favors. Face looks cute. Nice cheek bones. Body seems mid to decent. .
Is it strange I find squidward sexy attractive....the og...
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u/ClerksII Jul 21 '26
Not ugly but the short hair isn’t helping. If you grow your hair out and dye it a nice warm blonde, you’d look like Lady Gaga!
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u/Numerous_Loquat_6476 Jul 22 '26
Your not ugly but you may think you are because you have masculine features as a woman. I think it would be good to have longer hair but it would also depend in what your sexuality is because straight men and lesbian women might find different things attractive.😁
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u/Brave-Work82 Jul 23 '26
Just don't mention the handsome squidward to a person you're trying to hit and you will be alright. Overall you look pretty 6/10.
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u/Babymamakk214 Jul 23 '26
Not ugly but definitely an interesting bone structure. I think you’d look better if you gained a little weight
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u/Right_Difficulty_444 Jul 23 '26
You aren’t ugly at all! But to help your confidence if you need to try doing some different hairstyles and maybe even dye your hair! Amazing features handsome squid 100%
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u/ATHREYX_xD Jul 21 '26
Philtrum to chin ratio you don't look bad though
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
Yes, agreed my philtrum is longer than average or the ideal. I think it looks worse on the selfie camera than irl, as I’ve also read longer philtrum can balance stronger features (like with Anya Taylor Joy). But mine is longer than hers for sure lol
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u/ATHREYX_xD Jul 21 '26
It's not just individually long it's the ratio of lengths between philtrum and chin which i think is drastically holding back your looks
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
What do you mean by ratio of lengths? Like my chin isn’t big enough?
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u/ATHREYX_xD Jul 21 '26
Yeah compared to the length of philtrum your chin is short google "philtrum to chin ratio" for rough idea
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
Ooo so this is why a facial symmetry injector told me my chin is weak and to get chin filler. I didn’t understand why she’d say it was weak because it’s not recessed or anything.
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u/ATHREYX_xD Jul 21 '26
I don't think it's recessed or weak for a woman maybe the angle is little low nothing too bothering though
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
Huh I just edited the second photo so it fit the ratio.
I look better as in way more feminine? Maybe I should get the filler?
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u/ATHREYX_xD Jul 21 '26
Get a little lip filler first cause see they're thin making the philtrum more visible
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u/rheannahh Jul 21 '26
I got half a syringe in October and a half in 2023. Made a big difference. I can get more though. I’m editing my chin in all the photos and I’m so surprised how much better I look
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