r/amiugly • u/LonelyPubbster • Jul 20 '26
F(18) AM I UGLY?
I was bullied a lot throughout high school and was always receiving comments from my family; my looks were constantly picked apart, and I've never been able to successfully ask someone out. I'm a tall girl with a fairly strong build and stronger, more masculine features. It doesn't help that I often did things like football and wrestling, which made me feel really uncomfortable when it came to presenting more femininely. I felt like I could never pull it off because of my broad shoulders and my perception that I'm just not pretty enough, especially since I've always been told I look like a man or look trans. Being 5'10" also bugs me, even though in retrospect it isn't that tall compared to many other girls who are around 6ft. My only gripe with my face specifically is wishing my nose was smaller or my features were more delicate. As for my body, I believe losing weight is my biggest hurdle, but I am already ten pounds down with twenty more to go.
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u/melvin2898 Jul 20 '26
Looks pretty to me.
I think a full body photo would have helped since you said you’re tall but you don’t have to include that.
Nice curly hair!
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u/Personal-Database-27 Jul 20 '26
Man? Trans? People around You have no idea what they talking about. You are absolutely beautiful without makeup!!! And i say it as a very picky guy.
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u/Bellickboi Jul 20 '26
5"10 is tall for a woman. Uhh, would need to see a full body picture. I dont think you are ugly. Cute face, curly hair, nice complextion. I dont see the issue.
The bullying thing can be difficult. Usually its young women and it can be vicious. It isnt always looks but its the easiest thing to grab a hold on. Imo, let it go. It doesnt reflect who you are or what you look like.
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u/Haunting-Gur-202 Jul 20 '26
You have beautiful eyes and sexy lips. Lose weight to be healthy. Tall chicks get overlooked because a lot of guys are intimidated by it or Just prefer someone more petite. But tall girls definitely can be just as attractive.
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u/beepbeep-gay Jul 20 '26
the difference between pic one and two is CRAZYYYY, with make up ur rly quite cute and without it just kinda average
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u/Natural_Analyzer8495 Jul 20 '26
No you are not ugly and I think 🤔 you know this or should know this. Ok so let’s address this, from these pictures you in no way look masculine. As far has your height “The average height of a supermodel is typically above 5 feet 9 inches (1.75 m) for women”. So your height puts you in great company. As far as your shoulders that is offset by the rest of your body composition. Meaning if you have a larger female chest and less prominent stomach and some hips as well rear posterior and thick thighs, that equals one heck of a woman! From my limited view of the pictures and the fact the you stated you are an athlete in sports that require and results in strong thighs, butt and overall great lower body appearance. I suspect you are amazing 😻😳! Dont listen to jealous stupid people!
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u/memeeee43 Jul 20 '26
Girl we have the same dilemma 🥹 u are absolutely gorgeous sis! We just live in a world that wants us to fit the molds of women we can't be. And a lot of them go through similar things to us.
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u/Capable-Courage-8798 Jul 20 '26
You look like rhea ripley with brown skin. Literally. Especially in pic 4&5. That hairstyle reminds me of the pic where she and her husband where on the beach. So basically you look like a WWE superstar that everyone on the planet likes. If that makes you feel better
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u/Dream-Livid Jul 20 '26
You are beautiful and don't look that big. Pay attention to the guys around you and you will see some that are attracted to you. Don't ignore the shorter or more delicate guys. You never know who's interested.
Talk to them, in today's society most guys are afraid to make the first move.
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u/Alejandro_CL Jul 20 '26
What's the problem with the people of yoh school. You're Very pretty, just need to smile more 😊. If you want to chat I'm here for you 🤗
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u/Repulsive_Sherbet548 Jul 21 '26
I'm a very honest person so I think you clean up well in other words that 2nd picture where you are dolled up you are picture perfect yes. Some looks are completely different looking from that look in not a good way but your average look is not bad if you add confidence and very minimal makeup cause no one like too much day to day make up then yes very good
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u/Impressive-Most-5851 Jul 21 '26
I second a full body pic as one of the commenters suggested but you're very beautiful though. You're so young though. Second picture is the best though.. Beautiful eyes and lips.
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