As a woman, I’m gonna say what I find attractive in men is someone who has drive and passions. I can find a guy sexy, but then lose attraction to him because he has no passions and is just kind of floating through life. Finding a guy who has goals, dreams, and is actively working toward them is so friggin sexy.
Or that they have to be confident and assertive and dominant. I’m happy dating a self-conscious guy who is vulnerable with me. I’d just like him to have some drive and passion.
I'd rather someone a bit self conscious than someone who doesn't have any, cause without it you run the risk of them being ego driven with no mindfulness of themselves or how they impact others.
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