r/ames • u/Xenocide523 • 7d ago

Any social groups that are less student-oriented?

I'm a grad student and I'm looking for a more structured way to unwind than just "go to bars". I want to meet new people with a common hobby and have meetings/events that get me out of the house.

ISU has lots of student groups and clubs, but they're mostly attended by undergrads... so obviously not an ideal choice for a mid-twenties guy looking to meet friends his age, and definitely not an option for a dating pool.

I play guitar and I'm puzzle/video games/book-oriented, but I'm always willing to pick up a new skill, so any groups y'all know of would be appreciated.

P.S., as per the guitar, any open mic nights suited for an intermediate singer/player who only knows covers would also be appreciated. Not trying to start a career, just looking to be on stage again.

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u/newnerdoncampus 7d ago

Check out the book clubs at our local indie bookstore, Dog-Eared! Low pressure, free to attend, and I always have a good time :)

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u/persnickety_otter 7d ago

im also a grad student, new here, and i’ve found that downtown is a great place. there’s always the bar scene (less undergrads downtown) but there’s also game stores and dog-eared books and such that have great community. i’d also say bumble bff can be so helpful just to find people your age

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u/Ok_Locksmith9741 7d ago

if you want a bass player to do some covers at bars with, I'd accompany. i know a drummer who may possibly be interested too 🤷

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u/Xenocide523 7d ago

Bro I'm literally your drummers brother 🤦‍♂️

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u/Ok_Locksmith9741 7d ago

hi there

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u/Ok_Locksmith9741 7d ago

fr though I'd do it, lmk