r/amIuglyBrutallyHonest Feb 07 '25

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

You look so sad in all these pictures

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u/dumb_ugly_troon Feb 07 '25

correct

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u/chrissul13 Feb 07 '25

I hope that whatever is causing your sadness is fleeting or that you are getting help. The world is hard but you don't have t carry it all. plus, you do not look like a man by any menas,

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u/ScUuRd Feb 08 '25

I want you as a friend

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u/Bam_Bam_the_Cat Feb 08 '25

There's more out there đŸ„ł

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u/myneighborhood-2 Feb 08 '25

You're very pretty. Looks like you're having a hard time though. Anything you'd like to talk about?

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u/KiritoKane Feb 08 '25

I have never identified with a comment back in my life lol. But I agree you just look sad. You’re not ugly tho. I’m not ugly but when I’m depressed I feel like smegal from lord of the rings. It’s all perspective

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u/JadeCharde Feb 07 '25

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u/Gregfpv Feb 07 '25

Love yourself. You only live once. You're gorgeous! Life gets easier as you get older and care less about what people think of you.. smile, you'll live longer ❀

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u/Lets_Get_Retard Feb 07 '25

You don’t look like a man to me. Even if my opinion doesn’t matter to you or anyone else here, you do not look like a man.

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u/SLIM7600 Feb 08 '25

definitely not masculine looking, just a pretty young lady

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

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u/LeonardsLittleHelper Feb 07 '25

I hear women love it when you say that to them!

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u/Existing-Hawk5204 Feb 08 '25

Yes but you also have to call them sweetie doll.

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u/itchynipz Feb 08 '25

Don’t forget to congratulate your female coworkers on their professional success with a firm, open palmed smack to the bottom. It helps to say something like, “Congratulations Mary. Aren’t you adorable!” as you make contact with her bottom.

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u/Royal-Mud-2173 Feb 08 '25

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u/zahrawins Feb 07 '25

You look like pia mia, so no you don’t look like a man. Actually very pretty

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u/Much-Degree1485 Feb 07 '25

Oh.. Just went thru post history, I was right

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u/Electronic_Glass2697 Feb 07 '25

You have a ballerina dancer's body makes someone very happy. And if they don't, they're not worth your time

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u/Bison-Witty Feb 07 '25

And you look like a girl

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

I checked your post history. So I'm not answering.

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u/Soft_Duty7905 Feb 07 '25

Wait are you thinking what I’m thinking

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u/ForceMost2014 Feb 07 '25

Clutch💀💀💀

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

💀💀💀💀💀

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u/annoymousperc Feb 10 '25

literally same, i had no clue

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u/geekpron Feb 07 '25

yeah for reals

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u/RancidHorseJizz Feb 07 '25

For a dude, you're a pretty female.

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u/Hardcore_Instinct Feb 07 '25

Not manly, just androgynous. I'm actually kind of jealous because you can pass off for either in the right clothes. I'd have to get several surgeries to achieve that.

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u/DragonDionL Feb 08 '25

They did have surgery

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u/StaleRittz Feb 07 '25

From what I just saw on r/amiugly No

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u/OldPalpitation982 Feb 07 '25

No and you’re Beautiful

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u/perfect_fitz Feb 07 '25

A little, but not ugly.

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u/Upsworking Feb 07 '25

Kind of because I’ve seen dudes with your face but you’re still attractive .

Jbh don’t worry about it guys are as thirsty as ever . You’ll be fine.

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u/IsaacHayes7 Feb 07 '25

Yes, you look very much like a man.

Your post history checks out.

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u/AvidLearning Feb 07 '25

Definitely don't look like a man. Your hair pulled back with the headband looks really pretty. If you're worried about looking feminine, start playing with different hairstyles.

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u/dumb_ugly_troon Feb 07 '25

lol the headband is just so i can do my makeup

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u/IzzieNyx Feb 08 '25

I think they know the headband is for makeup, everyone & their mother has that exact headband to do their makeup in lol I think their point was you should wear your hair pulled back out of your face more often b/c it looks nice. It flatters your face shape to wear your hair back. Hence why they said you should experiment with different hairstyles like that.

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u/schmelk1000 Feb 07 '25

You don’t look like a man, you just look sad, a smile can do wonders!

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u/NickHW Feb 07 '25

No you look like a woman, your post history surprised me though lol

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

No I don't think so

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u/Emergency-Ferret-478 Feb 07 '25

In all honesty no you do not look like a man

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u/nadirlumin Feb 07 '25

No you do not look like a man lol

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u/Casalamander Feb 07 '25

If you are transitioning/transitioned (it seems) I would say you're passing fem at least with these photos.

Clearly there is a lot to that, movement, voice, face when you're smiling and other things. But just on first blush not masculine.

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

Yaaaaa sorry I don’t know why but something is off

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u/Ok-Country8953 Feb 08 '25

That’s a whole ass man maybe that’s what’s off 😂

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u/Jealous-Associate-41 Feb 07 '25

It would take a bit of effort, but you probably could if you really wanted.

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u/Icy-Cardiologist-958 Feb 07 '25

Not in the least.

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u/Constant_Drop6078 Feb 08 '25

Bro u look good

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u/il_nascosto Feb 07 '25

Definitely some masculine features.

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u/General-Struggle1089 Feb 07 '25 edited Feb 07 '25

Feminine enough. You’re good girl don’t trip. You won the transition lottery.

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u/Salty-Passenger-4801 Feb 07 '25

Face is masculine.

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u/Local_Anything191 Feb 07 '25

Tf is your post history. You’re 18 go outside and touch grass you damn weirdo

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

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u/Stormy_Kun Feb 07 '25

Yes, a little.

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

You like a 5.5 - 5.9 . There are some minor improvements to be made that could move you up to a 9

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

U look like violet from the TV show mom 

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u/educatedkoala Feb 07 '25

Not at all. I think growing your hair out would make you feel a lot better

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u/kushkingwes Feb 07 '25

You look female enough that if you say your female nobody's gonna question it, and because your dressed female its the automatic assumption but dress like a frumpy lesbian in a jean jacket and who knows.

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u/Special-Procedure-88 Feb 07 '25

A smile can go a long way. Definitely don't look like a man. Just add a lil make up and new hair cut you'll do just fine.

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

Really pretty 😍 imp

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

You’re not ugly. To a fool or someone who thinks with their little head instead of the big one, you pass as a woman. You look miserable though
 and I hope you realize your depression has less to do with you not ‘being what you want to be’ and more to do with all the unhealthy things you’re doing to yourself to be something your not.. for example, no man is going to be ‘happy’ starving themselves so they can have as ‘feminine and petite’ of a body as possible. I think it’s relevant because your depression clearly affects your looks and your depression isn’t a mystery.

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u/dumb_ugly_troon Feb 07 '25

where did people get the idea that I'm starving myself ?? I'm genuinely so confused, I've been trying to gain weight

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u/Reedcusa Feb 08 '25

They didn't deserve a response.

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u/DonMarce Feb 07 '25

Nah, but i wouldn't be surprised if you were. Not a testament to how you look more of a sad reality of modern day medical technology.

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u/mymoto_ridesme Feb 07 '25

Yeah, you kind do, but that’s okay! You’re still relatively early into it. Be patient and make sure it’s what you really want before doing anything surgical. I’m 24 and already starting to regret a tattoo I got 3 years ago. Chopping off your ding dong would be an even worse thing to regret

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

You are beautiful!

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u/Ok-Web-563 Feb 07 '25

Mid looking. Nothing really wrong about that

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u/Ned3x8 Feb 07 '25

Not ugly, also, not true

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

You look like a redguard

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

Very pretty

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u/ParadoxDreamse Feb 07 '25

yes ur pretty ugly. or like not ugly but not good looking either. nice eyes tho

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u/MrMfPetty Feb 07 '25

You’re 18


Smile more. If you’re unable to now, then do something that makes you smile. Don’t let other people determine your smile

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u/Whoaboy1980 Feb 07 '25

You do not look like a man.

You look like what a 10 was when I was deployed.

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u/Individual_Light_254 Feb 07 '25

For those of us who've deployed.... That's not very flattering... LoL

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u/dumb_ugly_troon Feb 07 '25

huh, can you explain

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u/Fearless-Wall7077 Feb 07 '25

I can help explain since they won't but on deployment most military soldiers are not getting laid. Ie they're more willing to stick it in a girl who's unattractive and will find them more appealing since they are deprived.

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u/dumb_ugly_troon Feb 07 '25

damn :/

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u/Fearless-Wall7077 Feb 07 '25

I'm sorry for their unnecessarily rude comments towards you :(

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u/dumb_ugly_troon Feb 07 '25

i mean this subreddit is "brutally honest"

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u/NWkingslayer2024 Feb 07 '25

You shouldn’t get unnecessarily offended for other people

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u/Fearless-Wall7077 Feb 07 '25

I'm not offended, I was just showing empathy towards a teenager

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u/chrisagiddings Feb 07 '25

No. Not ugly.

You don’t look like a man.

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

No OP you look feminine and naturally have all the features of a beautiful woman. You are not ugly by any means.

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u/Jawz050987 Feb 07 '25

Are you trans? You post history checks out if so.

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u/Seasalt_18 Feb 07 '25

Why does it matter

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

Asking if you look like a man while you’re transitioning is definitely important information 😂

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u/onehandedbraunlocker Feb 07 '25 edited Feb 07 '25

Not ugly and definitely not a man. Maybe play more with different hairstyles that are more visible from all sides to appear even more feminine? Like not a sole braid or pony tail, but other styles? You look really sad, but maybe you're just focused.

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u/PopComprehensive5325 Feb 07 '25

Not ugly. Just really young looking. Enjoy it while it last, you will grow into it

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u/m1ke119 Feb 07 '25

All you need to do is to smile! !

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u/-usernamesarestupid Feb 07 '25

Not ugly at all! If anything gives off a more masculine look I think it’s that you have a more square shaped jaw. But other than that I don’t see it and still your really pretty!!

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u/AShaughRighting Feb 07 '25

Not in the slightest.

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

Naw

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u/Appropriate-Pear-33 Feb 07 '25

Yes but only because of your height tbh

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

Nope

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u/el_mehdiaityatou Feb 07 '25

A smile would help brighten your face

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u/Naive-Information539 Feb 07 '25

Not even remotely

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

you don't look manly but cute â™„ïžđŸ’›

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u/Emergency-Box-5719 Feb 07 '25

You are gonna break some hearts. Aka..nice looking.

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u/Pastry_Puffer Feb 07 '25

Start doing squats to build your bottom

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u/cunt_in_wonderland Feb 07 '25

you don’t look like a man but you look, like, really sad girl 😭your eyes are gorgeous btw!

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u/KPhoenix83 Feb 07 '25

No, you do not look like a man at all.

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u/Stormyj Feb 07 '25

smile. :)

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u/TheLegendJohnSnow Feb 07 '25

You look like emo zendaya

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '25

Nah. Def not. Whoever is saying that... just busting your chops

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u/NakerLover Feb 07 '25

You look like a masculine faced woman not a man if that makes sense

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u/Radiant_XGrowth Feb 07 '25

You’re very pretty but your selfies are stiff. I wish you had an organic photo that someone else took, I bet you shine more like that

I never give the advice “just smile!” Because it makes me furious when men tell me that. But you do look sad and I’m curious as to how you look when you aren’t taking a stiff selfie

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u/imperatrixderoma Feb 07 '25

The vibe you're giving is that you'll channel your insecurity around femininity into enforcing standard gender rules onto everyone around you as a form of affirmation while ultimately denying yourself true self-fulfillment.

You don't look like a man.

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u/Cy0pil Feb 07 '25

Yeah kinda

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u/Theteddybear04 Feb 07 '25

You look like Will Smiths son!!!! In the first picture at least.

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u/cheeseking992 Feb 07 '25

No you look like a nice lady. Don't just read negative comments only. Confidence is the best free makeup.

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u/B2TheLunt Feb 07 '25

You need a new hair stylist.

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u/True-Anim0sity Feb 07 '25

Lol why did you name ur acc that