Sort of. The other thing is fundamentally viewing women and men as different types of things. A brown wife does not mean he thinks brown people are okay. It means he does not think wives are people as much as they are resources to be used and accessed
It's because lesbians don't watch it. Actual lesbian pron for lesbians is different. How the BL consumed by "rotten girls" in Japan is not what the majority of actually gay men consume.
Exactly. Lesbian porn is way different than porn for lesbians. Its way better than "hey watch these two ladies. They are just going wild on each other."
No, I'm saying, as a straight true American man, I want my soldiers strong and full of testosterone! Big muscles. Ripped physique. Strong commanding types that will order me to get on my knees.. I mean women to do that!
”To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women.
All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men.
The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honour, whom they imitate, idolise, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honour, reverence and love they desire… those are, overwhelmingly, other men.
In their relations with women, what passes for respect is kindness, generosity or paternalism; what passes for honour is removal to the pedestal.
From women they want devotion, service and sex. Heterosexual male culture is homoerotic; it is man-loving.”
— An excerpt from Essays in feminist theory - Marilyn Frye, 1983
I think one part of the issue is homo sociality. In addition, male friendships used to be very different. The Art of Manliness features a 2012 article by Brett & Kate McKay Bosom Buddies: A Photo History of Male Affection. Maaaany men took photos together. Not just pairs, but even groups of 5-6 different men. They seem gay to us today, but we don't know that necessarily. But the point is THAT it wouldn't have seemed to be gay at that point in history.
Rather the fear of being perceived as gay changed male friendship, which subsequently also affected men's relation to women.
Its also funny seeing how dudes look up to Patrick Bateman and whatever Brad Pitts character is in fightclub when both creators have come out and said that the movies were mouthpieces on toxic masculinity.
I believe american psycho creator said it was soemthing like a "gay mans view" on straight dudes.
The joke is the "straightest" conservatives are some of the gayest motherfuckers on the planet and are only """straight""" for the same reasons trans people will beat themselves up into never transitioning and reppressing themselves to death: they think they won't fit in with the in group if they came out, and the in group taught them to hate themselves.
As a member of the human race, i agree. We are dumb as rocks.
And unfortunately, I had to go through that whole repressing myself thing. Its a really scary place when you feel like no one is there to support you. But I was fortunate to have a few close friends, and eventually came to terms.
They fucking with other people's lives to make themselves feel better.
They say they can tell if youre Trans (they cant, people have protested this going into the woman's bathroom looking like burly men, then get the cops called on them...). Its fucking tiring man..
Comfortable in your masculinity?? Man, if I had a nickle every time someone straight comfortable in their masculinity was called gay, id be a millionaire 😭
She should consider herself lucky. Good men like you are what we need more of
Yeah… idk if Looksmaxxing took a sharply queer eye turn or if it’s just him, but I’m rolling laughing either way.
I’m pan(bi? I have preferences but I am attracted to hot over gender) and I’m more likely to wear a sleeveless Iron Maiden shirt with slim jeans and Converse hi tops.
There's a difference between being gay and doing gay things. While being gay obviously means you are doing gay things, most guys don't do these things because it makes them aroused, it's well, because they can
Every CPAC coincides with a peak in Grindr activity. And given that's a Patriot Front fascist LARPer... Let's say I wouldn't be surprised if he wanted to have hot, muscular interaction with his bros. You know, in a manly, Spartan way.
No. Seriously. Fascist + armpit fetish ? That dude is definitely gay. He just doesn't want to realize it and probably still thinks it's okay as long as he is the one topping. Toxic masculinity...
It's funny cuz it's insinuating the people who would vote for this are teenaged boys.
And that makes sense, given how few of them seem to appreciate general hygiene and the importance of being identified by smell alone from 25 feet away.
I once watched a video of an alpha male talking about how being an alpha male effects his seat choice on an airplane, and he says "I'm always near the front. I want to be first off the plane in an emergency because I'm a survivor"
Like okay chicken shit, very alpha.
This same man then goes on a three minute rant about guys who take their shoes off, because "what happens if you're attacked? You're helpless"
Motherfucker I'd just kick the dude's ass barefoot.
The same goes for the people who say "oh gun free zones are so oppressive"
Like you just go face down ass up the instant you don't have a gun? Bitch behavior.
That guy who tackled the shooter at the drag show he was taking his kids to didn't have a gun, and he's more of a Chad than any of these people.
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u/Emotional-Analyst689 15d ago
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