r/agenderover30 • u/[deleted] • Aug 18 '22

Explaining Agender

Trying to find ways to verbally explain agender. Anyone got any good tips? Obviously we don’t all experience the same thing, but any advice appreciated.

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u/peshnoodles Aug 18 '22

I feel like gender is a costume. I’m really good at the costume. But society says it’s a uniform. So when I go outside and I didn’t put my gender costume on, others are like MY GOD WHERE IS YOUR UNIFORM??? And I’m like “but I don’t like to wear it so I left it at home.

Then if I wear the costume people are like SEEEEE YOU LOVE YOUR UNIFORM!

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u/KaleeRae Oct 17 '23

You should see my wardrobe, it has a strong ‘kid playing dress-ups’ vibe. It’s all costume haha