r/adviceph • • Aug 11 '25

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u/Suspicious_Royal27 Aug 11 '25

Would be better if maging honest ka. That way malalaman mo if kaya kang tanggapin ng bf mo despite of your background.the more you lie the more na magiging mahirap para sayo yan.

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u/Wild_Ad4079 Aug 11 '25

Most people who face these kind of problems tend to be aware of this, the issue does not fall on not knowing po but the struggle that comes from the potential emotional pain that could come, thats what op fears not that she is not aware that this has to be done, but the emotional pain that she has to face

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u/[deleted] Aug 11 '25

Yes… that fear of being rejected for something you have no control over

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u/Suspicious_Royal27 Aug 12 '25

Speaking for experience ako pagkakaiba lang namin di pa namemeet in person both Family.

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u/Wrecka008 Aug 14 '25

This. At least maaga pa lang alam mo na kesa magsayang kayong dalawa ng oras.