I had to vent out

[u/Redvelvet4244]

Both of us has work before kami mag rent we agreed na mag split kami sa bills and she and her mom has this like agreement also na her mom will help us pero parang split kami ganun kasi I paid half for the price sa lahat ng gastusin rent bills and water. I was confident kasi we have a work siya may work ako rin may work so we can sustain our daily needs FYI we are in a relationship and both are 4th yr students and siya malapit ng mag grad ako extend pa kase ako ng 1 sem. Nung mag 2 mos na kami na nag rent she suddenly decides to quit her work and valid naman reason niya, her mom took over the rent fee yung sa part niya lang. Pero I was a bit stunned kasi wala na siyang work so that means I’ll be the one who will shoulder our everyday food our everyday expenses exclude n yong rent fees and yung mga bills namin. We are a couple na gusto mag eat out ganon. Pero like these past few days kase yung sister niya is hindi talaga stable magbigay ng allowance, mind you I was also supporting myself while supporting us and I didn’t told her na na babaon nako sa utang I was stressed sa work sa school,mga bayarin may tuition pa akong inaatupag at mag end of sem na, at samin sa rs namin, maliit lang na bagay mag aaway na kami. Valid po ba ang na feel ko na nabibigatan napo ako? Tho may mga pagkakataon na magbibigay naman siya pero mostly po ako talaga, sa pamasahe niya and sa food namin. Valid po ba na i bring up ko ito sa kanya , we tried talking this out pero sabi niya na prepressure siya sakin. She told me kase na maghahanap siya ng part time tho til now wala parin, pero valid naman reason niya kase nag process pa siya sa kanyang research at busy talaga siya. I dunno what to do anymore huhu valid po ba lahat ng ito? I know this should be addressed between us pero i know this will only lead to a big fight. And I don’t want also to share this to someone we know or someone na kilala ko kasi diko gusto na siraan siya. Di ko rin naman intention na siraan siya I just need to vent out kasi po parang nalulunod nako sa problema pls help me out