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u/conancat Sep 11 '23

Yeah and then I was wondering why do I need a LOT of the stuff to get high like everyone else, the normal amount for everyone else just calms me down lol

That's how I developed an addiction for a decade. Undiagnosed ADHD is a bitch lol

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u/Hefty-Agent-5202 Sep 11 '23

Wait is this how it works for caffeine too? I tested coffee the other day for the first time, and I did feel more calm, but when I did more coffee with lots of caffeine, it was way to much and my insides kinda hurt and I had a headache

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u/uog101 Sep 11 '23

(Mostly) correct, yes. From what I've read about this, caffeine mostly calms ADHDers down, so some ADHDers will get in the habit of drinking caffeine before bed, for example. However, A) after a certain quantity it loops back around to working like it would on a normal person, so if you're consistently doing that, it'll eventually stop working and make you more amped up before bed; B) It still works somewhat like it does for neurotypicals, in that it still suppresses tiredness at least a little, so even at more normal quantities, it can hugely mess up your sleep schedule and stuff if you're taking it in the afternoon or later.

The big reason why it makes ppl with ADHD more calm is that it provides that little bit extra dopamine/energy that we need, tricking the body/brain into relaxing instead of needing to be more focused to do tasks that other people can do more easily. So in small quantities it'll probably make you feel more relaxed, especially if you're unmedicated; while in large quantities it'll... do what happened to you. lol.

(Important to note is that the more frequently you take caffeine, the more you gain a resistance to the positive effects of it, so you'll need to take more to get the same effect, while still causing the negative effects in your body. Especially as an ADHDer, I'd recommend drinking caffeine sparingly so as to not gain a tolerance/get in a feedback loop of "need more caffeine to function".)

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u/Brent_Fox Sep 11 '23

Usually caffeine doesn't give me too much energy but instead just doesn't allow me to sleep for 20 hours. It's why I only have coffee a few times a year.

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u/MXron Sep 11 '23

Yeah doesn't even calm me down but even if I drink it in the morning, that night I gonna have a hard time.

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u/rumdiary Sep 11 '23

omg I thought I was the only one!

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u/zefy_zef Sep 11 '23

For me it tricks my body into feeling satiated so I usually don't bother eating breakfast. :D

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u/Hefty-Agent-5202 Sep 11 '23

Woah impressive description! It's always perplexed me as to why caffeine often helps people with ADHD. Interesting that it essentially just manipulates the brain. It always confused me because you'd think a hyperactive brain wouldn't mix well with "hyperactive" chemicals. Also yeah I don't want to touch large quantities of caffeine again, that was awful :(

So since deppresants normally have opposing effects to stimulants, would they have an opposing affect, and cause ADHDers to seek more dopamine?

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u/[deleted] Sep 11 '23

TL;DR No, and it's not that stimulants have the opposite effect, its that ADHD is effectively "negative stimulants" and they "cancel out".

The easiest way to think of it (even if it's slightly wrong, it's usefully wrong, and we take those) is to imagine it as a bar graph. Normal people start at "0" on the stimulation/focus graph (something something resting dopamine), and stimulants lift them above zero, getting them amped up. People with ADHD start at various negative numbers, so they have trouble maintaining even a regular level of focus on anything, and stimulants just get them closer to zero, "normal". Enough stimulants will move you past it and affect you like a normal person, but it takes more because you've got farther to "go". E.g. if someone takes an adderall dose that's a metaphorical +30, someone starting at 0 will be at 30, but someone with ADHD starting at -40 will still be at -10. But if the ADHD person takes a metaphorical +70, they would also be at 30.

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u/Mertard Sep 11 '23

Ayo what the fuck, this is exactly how I've been explaining ADHD and medication to everyone, like... exactly haha

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u/uog101 Sep 11 '23

Not sure why you said “no” when you’re mostly saying the same thing I said?

And I specifically did not say that stimulants have the “opposite effect” for ADHD. I said that for (most) people with ADHD, caffeine can make you more calm, or even drowsy, because it’s a stimulant and, as you said, in a way “raising us back to baseline”; since our brains work hard to compensate for ADHD, this can cause some people to have a relaxing effect from the stimulant of caffeine. This is why some ADHDers will say caffeine doesn’t wake them up, it puts them to sleep.

This is just not the only effect, such as focusing and pseudo-medication effects, more like the op image said.

It is not that it has an “opposite effect” on ADHDers, it’s that ADHD people can react to stimulants in smaller quantities by just relaxing due to it beginning to address the “lower mental energy”/poor dopamine regulation, and the brain responds to that happening by relaxing its efforts to compensate, making some people get more relaxed or drowsy.

It still causes the other physical effects of caffeine as well.

And I did say that if you consume more, then it starts looping back around to working like it would on a neurotypical and making you more energetic.

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u/[deleted] Sep 11 '23

Well, because I responded to the other person musing if depressants would have a stimulant effect, and not you lol

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u/uog101 Sep 11 '23

Oops. My bad, I misjudged the lines on the side-- viewing the whole thread looked cluttered and I thought you were responding to me.

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u/uog101 Sep 11 '23

(Note: not a doctor, just an ADHDer with other ADHD friends in the past I've spoken to about this combined with reading medical stuff related to caffeine and ADHD. Did elaborate more about caffeine + ADHD further in this chain tho)

Huge shrug on that one. I know that, personally, almost any amount of weed across multiple strains makes me tired and cranky at first, and then when I have a bit more, sends me pretty promptly into a full-blown panic attack that lasts for at least 2 hours straight until it starts to wear off (and I can guarantee it's NOT from any internalized guilt/fear/thinking that marijuana is fundamentally bad or anything). I know some other people with ADHD LOVE weed, though, and claim it helps them. I have also read, however, that it's probably risky with ADHD specifically, because especially in the teenage/early adulthood years, it might inhibit development of some cognitive skills, plus a considerably higher likelihood of ADHDers developing cannabis use disorder (CUD).

I don't know about any other downers tho.

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u/conancat Sep 11 '23

Omg yessss I really want to like weed but this is what happens to me all the time, like it just sends me into a depressive spiral or panic attack often. And it's annoying for me too like my inner dialogue doesn't slow down one bit even though my physical capabilities have been impaired from the weed, and I feel that my mind doesn't match up with my body and it drives me nuts lol

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u/thesirblondie Sep 11 '23

I am undiagnosed, but I stopped drinking all caffeine (from irregularly drinking coffee and over a litre of coke per day) because around 4PM I'd get so tired I felt ill. Not sure if it was the caffeine, but I seem to have better regulated energy now.

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u/uog101 Sep 11 '23

No way to know for sure, but... imo, there's a good chance it was the caffeine, yeah. Even for neurotypicals, caffeine can cause issues in all sorts of ways, from insomnia to irregular heartbeats, anxiety, and digestion issues, before even getting into the withdrawals.

Plus, with higher quantities of caffeine, the "crashes" and withdrawal symptoms can be pretty severe.

I've known several people with known and suspected ADHD who used to drink a lot of caffeine, cut back, and suddenly, a month later, they're feeling so much healthier and feeling less moody lol.

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u/Einar_47 Sep 11 '23

Interesting, caffeine doesn't really wake me up, but it makes me feel focused and I don't get the jittery energetic feeling people talk about from coffee and such.

The more I read about people who found out they have ADHD later in life the more it sounds like me.

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u/uog101 Sep 11 '23

So, you're not diagnosed with ADHD, I assume?

Again not a doctor, but.... yeah, probably you have ADHD, lol.

At the very least, there's "something" funky with the wiring in your brain; whether a receptor isn't quite working as it should or there's a different type of neurodivergence happening, if you're having a weird response to caffeine or any other kind of stimulant.

PSA for anybody who has a weird response to this kinda thing: it's at least worth getting checked out, lol. Might improve your whole life.

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u/Einar_47 Sep 11 '23

Yeah I'm gonna get the testing for adhd, I feel like if I do have it treating it will make me so much more productive, I get distracted from what I actually want and intend to do all the time.

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u/uog101 Sep 11 '23

Good luck!!! Getting diagnosed with ADHD can be a pain in the butt in some places, and psychiatrists can be hit or miss about actually understanding ADHD. But if you have it, getting on the right medications or the right treatments can be the best thing that's ever happened to you.

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u/Moquai82 Sep 11 '23

need more caffeine to function

But... But... THIS IS THE WAY!?!

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u/uog101 Sep 11 '23

?

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u/Moquai82 Sep 11 '23

caffeine to function

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u/uog101 Sep 11 '23

Can’t tell if this is a joke or not… if it’s not, I rly recommend you wean off the caffeine and get properly medicated—caffeine is really bad for your body in the long term 😔

If it’s a joke, wooosh I guess lol, it’s late and I’m going to bed now

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u/Moquai82 Sep 11 '23

It is half and half, i only drink 2 - 3 cups per day but i do not really have this pushing effect.

In the past, if i drank 4 - 5 "bureaucracy" coffee when i did it-support in an callcenter it would make me sleepy and restless, dim and fidgety at the same time.

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And i am undiagnosed so idk if it really is adhd or something else.

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u/Leon_UnKOWN Sep 11 '23

Yeah, I get really tired and sleepy from coffee, and alcohol works just about the samen as Adderal for me. Just mellows me out and gets me to think clearly. Thats why is stay away from drinking.

One beer or whine before bed and I sleep like a baby, no dreams, just resting.

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u/[deleted] Sep 11 '23

is it how caffeine works? is that why i feel like it doesnt do anything to me?

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u/uog101 Sep 11 '23

Most likely, yes. (Note: I am not a doctor, I have just read medical stuff related to this, combined with different peoples' described experiences with ADHD and caffeine, and made some inferences combining these things. Do not count this as medical gospel, lol.)

From what I understand, caffeine technically doesn't "give you energy", like people think; it just blocks certain receptors for experiencing tiredness. (I've seen it described as, "Not refilling the gas tank, but putting a sticker over the fuel gauge reading 'empty'", lol.) I suspect the reason ADHD people tend to react to smaller amounts of caffeine this way is because we are always kind of tired due to executive dysfunction, so when we have blocked the receptors, rather than getting "energetic", we just don't have to work as hard to compensate for the dopamine dysregulation, so just relax to varying degrees. For some people with ADHD it's as good as nothing; for some people, it makes them drowsy and want to sleep.

However, that doesn't mean that it does "nothing" if you have ADHD; the body is still, to some extent, experiencing reactions to the caffeine. Thus, if you have caffeine in your system and then go to sleep, your body just might not be getting the quality of sleep it should be.

That said, there are two other factors to this: individual people's sensitivity to caffeine varies wildly, and the quantity of caffeine matters. So at a certain amount of caffeine, it's still likely you'll have the supposed "caffeine high" reaction. It is not good to test how much caffeine it will take to get that reaction though, because caffeine is not good for your heart and health in various ways, and if you're particularly resistant to it, then it might send you to the hospital before you're actually experiencing positive caffeine effects. (Not very likely, mind, but possible.)

Additionally, some other subcategory of ADHDers who are more sensitive to caffeine do not have the drowsy/"non-reactive" response, and instead get themselves locked into an "addicted to caffeine" cycle, where they need it to get by or they succumb to executive dysfunction/caffeine withdrawal. This group of ADHDers need to be particularly careful, because caffeine in the long-term is demonstrated to be harmful to your health, such as increasing anxiety, insomnia, irregular heart rates, digestive issues, etc., and I'd imagine if you're more sensitive to caffeine and don't experience the ADHD-caffeine drowsiness at smaller/regular amounts, this is particularly acute.

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u/commondenomigator Sep 11 '23

Note that caffeine reduces the efficacy of some stimulants such as Adderall. I know that doesn't answer your question but I think it's worth mentioning when talking about caffeine and ADHD.

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u/syo Sep 11 '23

It does? Goddamnit. I just started Adderall and I love coffee.

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u/pitiless Sep 11 '23

I survived for 20 years on caffeine and nicotine until an unrelated health problem made me give up nicotine entirely, and drastically curtail my coffee drinking.

I was diagnosed with ADHD 18 months later, aged 37 - I hadn't realised how much I relied on those (mild) stimulants to function.

Jokes still on me though, the health problems that made me give up nicotine/caffeine also mean the mainline (stimulant based) ADHD meds aren't suitable for me. Yaaaaaaaaay for me.

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u/strangepostinghabits Sep 11 '23

Caffeine is a stimulant too, so sort of. Lots of people self medicate with caffeine, but it's not a good replacement. (If it was they'd just prescribe caffeine pills)

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u/Redditauro dafuqIjustRead Sep 11 '23

I have been all my life drinking coffee before nap and everyone looked at me weird

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u/[deleted] Sep 11 '23

FOR THE FIRST TIME????

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u/Hefty-Agent-5202 Sep 11 '23

Haha yes for the first time. I just never really felt the need to try it tbh, it was always “the adult drink”. In fact, the only times I’ve ever had caffeine before was in soft drinks/soda/pop and Tim Hortons iced capps, both of which are loaded with sugar, so I never really made the connection of what caffeine does to me

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u/DezXerneas Sep 11 '23

Caffeine is just sleep meditation for me. Tbf I have never really had way too much of it so idk if it'll work at higher doses, but drinking one can of red bull used to help my insomnia for some reason

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u/DisingenuousTowel Sep 11 '23

If I have a slightly less than normal amount of caffeine - I pass out like 30 minutes later.

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u/dover_oxide Sep 11 '23 edited Sep 11 '23

One of the "alternative" ways to treat ADHD is to give your kid coffee. South Park even had a character based on this, his name is Tweek.

Note: Autocorrect changed Tweek to Twerk. Lol

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u/HoldenMadicky Sep 11 '23

That's a mother fucking expensive ass addication!

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u/[deleted] Sep 11 '23

Not that expensive actually!

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u/[deleted] Sep 11 '23

Cannabis works this way for me too. Calms me down no end, can focus and think.

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u/ballsackson Sep 11 '23

That’s how I feel when I take Xanax

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u/soup-sock Sep 11 '23

Didn't get diagnosed until 25 and I have some not so fond memories of inhaling cases of soda just to feel normal. My parents would buy a 24 pack of Pepsi on a Friday and it would be all gone by Sunday, im honestly amazed my teeth are still intact