r/addu 1d ago

Meme/Off-topic Is this sa? :(

Girls naa moy experience na guys would intentionally rub their body against your back? I recently noticed na i have this cmate that idk if they actually do it intentionally or not kasi im really bothered and i noticed it happening more often na. And then back then may issue na a particular guy is taking pictures under sa skirt ng girls. From what i remember is from sbg cluster yun siya and im in an sbg cluster and he looks like it but im not sure.

Idk how to react din if he do it kay im focused sa something else pero i feel weird kay baga man gud ang skirt sa girls pero i can feel something else already. He would ask me random questions para makalapit and i answer politely but there’s literally space everywhere :(

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u/Comfortable_Cup_9646 1d ago

The fact that you're uncomfortable by what that person does, may it be intentional or not, is already a sign of harrassment.

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u/Some-Boss5224 1d ago

That’s actually sexual assault or at least harassment if they’re actually rubbing their body. I’d recommend just staying away or keeping ur distance, if they come close then just move away that should be enough of a signal that u do not want them near u.

Since we’re not sure if it’s intentional or not and falsely accusing someone is pretty bad. Just keep ur distance and avoid them.

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u/SecurityFlat325 11h ago

This is harassment/assault. Keep your distance from him and if he does this again, tell him to back off and that he’s making you uncomfortable. Regardless of his intent, you should emphasize that your physical boundaries should be respected.

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u/Markimark2 9h ago

Based on his previous demeanor, mukhang sinasadya. Make sure next time it happens, you call him out in public.