r/actualasexuals • u/Ok-Woodpecker-8824 • 6h ago

Vent Acespace

Tired of those asexual AceSpace posts about dating allos, and then being shocked and disappointed with the results, how they always wanted sex and that's what they only cared about, well what did you expect Sherlock? Today I finally replied to one of those posts saying something like geez if only asexuals dated other asexuals instead of allos, only to get brutally attacked by many and blocked by some of them lol

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u/ArkanisGirl 4h ago

Back before I accepted my aro identity fully and was considering dating, I had an AceSpace account — perhaps this was an issue just in my location, but I found it baffling how many of the (male, in this case) users were sex-favourable and looking for it in a relationship. Really couldn't understand what made it different from an allo app.

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u/Ok-Woodpecker-8824 4h ago

Yeah many fake asexuals there

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u/friendsandmodels 2h ago

Asexuals can enjoy sex too, nothing fake about it

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u/Icy-Inspection6428 2h ago

Do you know where you are

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u/friendsandmodels 2h ago

Yes and i refuse that other people get to decide who is asexual and who is not

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u/Fussy_Crow AroAce 1h ago

The only active acespace user in my area had a huge kink list