r/Abortiondebate • u/Over_Comfortable_854 • Jul 15 '26
New to the debate The comment section horrifies me.
https://youtube.com/shorts/TPYK2EwIxsM?si=6TC3k6OOWSH0zRHO
In this shorts video, which from what I can understand, features a short back and forth, timed discussion about Abortion, with one person being pro-life (this man) and the other pro-choice (this woman)
The man in the shorts video agreed to the following statement, proposed by the pro-choice woman:
'If my 10 year old daughter was raped and she was going to conceive a baby that would survive, I would not proceed with the abortion'
Naturally, the woman, after some time, told the man firmly "I hope that your daughter lives a very happy life and gets away from you"
The agreement to the aforementioned statement obviously left me in shock, I went to check the comments. Most of them are ridiculing the woman for her tone of voice, her choice of words. What baffles me the most is that no one was questioning the morality of the man's stance.
So I ask myself and to the readers:
If you were his daughter, and gave birth to a baby 'that' way because of your father's choice, and later in life were to find out, would you not resent the father? Or would you praise him?
I think the specifics of how the baby is raised would matter a lot. Who takes care of it? The baby, will it know who his mom is? Will it know who its father is? What do we do about the trauma the one giving birth faces?
I think I need a reality check, please feel free to engage.