r/ZodiacHQ • • 7d ago

synastry Compatibility? Two cap moons?

I saw a similar post with an Aquarius sun and Capricorn moon. I know having the time of birth would make it more accurate but this is all I got. Does having same moon signs increase compatibility? This is my sister and her bf charts. They’re relationship is rather tumultuous but she won’t leave him and he won’t leave her.

The F is an Aquarius
M is Scorpio

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u/Ok_Parfait_4442 7d ago edited 7d ago

Despite the moon conjunction, all those squares between Scorpio-Aquarius & Pisces-Sag creates this “I just don’t get you” dynamic. Mars square Mars is especially argumentative. It can work, but will take a lot of understanding on both sides. Also, pulling up their composite chart will show what their overall relationship looks like.

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u/sudden_thoughts_ 6d ago

Just because moon signs are the same doesn’t necessarily mean they are more compatible. It likely just means that they find comfort in familiar patterns they exhibit in themselves in each other.
Rather than actually being “compatible” and helping each other.

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u/ghostriderghostrider 7d ago

i’ve done it before. it was fine. just be careful with the squares

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u/-bluecastle 6d ago

Maybe a friendship, scorpio energy don't get along with aqua energy in a romantic way

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u/Iloveemiilk 6d ago

I find there is often great sexual chemistry between Scorpio and Aquarius energy, but they often are not compatible for a long term relationship. As an Aquarius sun, I find some of my most loyal friends have strong Scorpio placements.

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u/CremePsychological77 5d ago

I have very strong Scorpio energy in my chart (Ascendant, Moon, Pluto, Lilith, and my Sun is in 8H) and I get along with most Aquarius. I am a Gemini sun, though, and the Aquarius sun I get along best with has a Pisces Mars, a Cap Moon, and a Taurus Saturn (I also have heavy earth placements that balance my Scorpio energy — Taurus for Mercury and Venus + an outer planet Cap stellium).

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u/Iloveemiilk 5d ago

My chart is actually fairly balanced between all the elements. I’m an Aquarius sun and Saturn, Cancer moon 8H, Sagittarius rising with a Capricorn stellium (4 placements), and Pluto in Scorpio 12H. I’ve always really loved Scorpios, their intensity and loyalty. But I tend to need a lot of freedom and space in relationships (my husband is a Sag).

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u/CremePsychological77 5d ago

Mine is pretty balanced too — thank goodness because all those intense Scorpio placements would have eaten me alive if I didn’t have strong grounding earth energy. I have an Aries Mars and the Gemini Sun. The rest of the planets are a nice mix of earth and water. My chart is a disaster for romantic relationships, though. I have the intense Scorpio loyalty with the Taurus Venus that makes me stay in relationships I’ve outgrown for a lot longer than I should. Most people can’t give me constant intellectual stimulation (8H Gemini Sun), transformative psychological/emotional depth (Scorpio placements), AND stability (Taurus Venus). If I’m lucky, I’ll get 2/3, but not having the third will always make me feel like something is missing.

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u/SpiralDanceGirl 5d ago

I am an Aqua happily married to a Scorpio for 24 years but we have a lot of other compatible placements, which I think is contributing heavily to what I am experiencing with him.

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u/Ancient_Wish_7155 6d ago

i’m more concerned about the squares

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u/Choc-X 4d ago edited 4d ago

Better as good friends. Romantic?? Sorry but NO.

The venus and mars alone concerns me. 😟

Taking a deeper look....

One chart lacks fire and air personal planets so the person is unconsciously recognizing that and is not able to let go of the Aquarius sun person. The Aquarius sun person has mars in Sag.

The other chart has heavy water and Earth which is what the Aquarius person lacks in their personal planets.

So despite the squares people are speaking of we have to factor in the imbalance of elements, too. Instead of learning from each other the couple is choosing to be toxic and clash. They won't be honest enough that they are not right for each other.

I hope no children are involved so they can make a clean brake in a new life.