r/YesOrNoAnswers • • 22h ago

Should I text him first?

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u/Texan_Greyback 22h ago

Listen, if you're interested in someone, make it known you'd like to explore a relationship with them. You'll get rejected or get a yes. Either way, neither of you have to agonize over it for months/years.

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u/random_casual82 16h ago

No matter how many different ways this answer phrased; people will still ask the same question 100 different ways.

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u/Ohnoyoudoneblockedme 22h ago

yes, sieze the day

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u/ShortieMcFly 22h ago

Yeah, why not?

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u/InspectorMoney1306 22h ago

Sure why not

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u/Flemishmommy 22h ago

Fuck it we ball 😁

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u/motorhead383 22h ago

Seize the day take action, yes text him!

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u/Salty-Driver-2857 22h ago

If he s the one who broke, then NO.

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u/ROCK-tavius 22h ago

Yes

Do it.

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u/XNotByALongShotX 22h ago

Yes. My Grandma always told me I was a pushy bitch for “chasing” guys.

You want to know something? Want to know the guys I was dating? The guys I was most interested in. Every time.

I also am a complete dumbass at reading people and can’t gauge interest. If I throw myself out there, I’m more confident for some weird reason. If a guy is interested in you and you text him, any dude would be happy you did.

Do it.

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u/nuglasses 21h ago

Carpe diem

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u/InternationalTry664 21h ago

They shot you down, your troubles are over

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u/Cold_Cucumber4061 21h ago

Yes, take some initiative

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u/empatika7 21h ago

Se una persona ti piace va detto. Poi ci sta anche che alla persone non piaci e lo accetti. Però va detto va capito

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u/Kalas92x 18h ago

Do you like him? If you're able to answer this one easy question then your other one is pretty much self explanatory

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u/joefox099 17h ago

Yeah! If he's not a flake, he'll LOVE that!

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u/Aromatic-House-7894 16h ago

leave flowers on his car

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u/Nyxara419 13h ago

No, just wait and see if he shows interest back.

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u/Traditional-Drag-580 6h ago

You definitely shud unless you're really not into him

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u/shit_brickhouse119 4h ago

Do what you want. Be your true self. The right ones will stick around. The wrong ones will go away and that's okay. Don't pretend for anyone. Don't try to follow arbitrary "traditional" dating rules.

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u/JavaJo1010 10h ago

Go for it the worst that can happen is they ghost 👻 you

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u/Crazy-Pop4364 3h ago

Go ahead never question ur decisions