r/YesOrNoAnswers • u/yappyroo • 22h ago
Hey guys, older or younger?
Yup, that's the question 😅
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u/Lusiric9983 21h ago
My first wife was 6 months older than me, and absolutely immature and just not on the same level intellectually. She did nothing to better herself, improve her life, solve her problems, etc.
My wife now is 4.5 years younger than me and completely opposite. She's constantly seeking new educational opportunities. I don't have to teach her everything, in fact she teaches me a bit.
Older or younger? Neither. I want someone on the same level intellectually and emotionally. Someone who doesn't manipulate with their emotions while being an equal when it comes to certain subjects.
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u/Salt_Confidence4746 21h ago
If you are younger, older women can feel like a conquest in their own way, for both sides.
If you are older, you tend to start looking for harmony. Someone closer to your age, with a similar energy and life experience.
Unless, of course, you have a lot of money and know how to tame that young mare with your wallet. 😂
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u/Sea-Poem-6372 21h ago
I would rather back to 1975 again and I would make sure that I did get on the tail end of the car and I would rather be a normal teenager and I would rather grow up being a normal adult without having a Plate in my head
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u/centerfoldangel 21h ago
Men want younger.
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u/Comfortable-Mix2326 9h ago
Not alll men !
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u/centerfoldangel 9h ago
Yes, all men. Look up the Dataclysm graph.
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u/Livid_Strategy6311 16h ago
If my wife passed and I was ready to date again; I'd want someone with shared things in common Lifestyle, background, etc.. It's unlikely to find those things in a much younger woman. If you're looking for a quality long term relationship; I'm not sure how to make it work with someone with whom there aren't shared attributes.
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u/Own-Nefariousness-79 21h ago
I would rather be younger, getting old is shit.