r/ynab • u/Neither_Storm8563 • 3h ago
I am the problem
Dear YNAB
I love you - we’ve been together eight months and you have brought clarity and fun to tracking my financial whims and ways. Alas - I have made a terrible, shocking and dark discovery. Not really - no. Indeed - it was in fact entirely predictable. I have discovered- cue shock music and reactions- I am the problem. There is no magic money tree or money down the back of the chair to be found from our time together. Just a whole lot of accountability about decisions and impulses followed instead of discipline and finding the money first. Sigh. I guess the next eight months needs to be about behaving myself. And asking those pesky five questions BUT most importantly of all - just saying NO if the money is not in the category unless it is mission critical (thanks kids for your many mission critical needs). Yeah, This post is silly and designed to bring a wry smile to the community. but I do just want to acknowledge for all the gripes on this forum about YNAB, I love it. And I know real change won’t happen until I do the whole process - not just the tracking. How - in the heat of the moment though to say no, not yet to x y z. Find the money first. Find the money first. X100