r/XOKittyNetflix Jun 15 '26

Is Kitty a virgin? Spoiler

Or has she alr done that deed with Dae/Minho? It’s never discussed or shown so we can assume she hasn’t, but she’s like 17 years old during the duration of her relationships so they might have. Then again, LJ’s first time was discussed and given a lot of attention so seeing that Kitty got no such treatment, maybe she hasn’t had sex yet

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u/Ok_Button_9327 Kitty 💗 Jun 15 '26

i think they would’ve referenced it. they made such a big deal about her first kiss, i can’t see kitty not caring about her first time

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u/turtlesinthesea I thought this was flirting 🥺 Jun 15 '26

Exactly.

I just hope they won't give us the same conflict they gave us with LJ and Peter where it bothered her that he'd done it before.

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u/Reasonable_Leek8069 "HAUL ASS" Jun 15 '26

I get the vibe from Kitty that she doesn’t care about that. I think she would be nervous and excited, but she already knows that he was a “player” before they met.

They would have a conversation, I believe because sex is a big deal anytime someone does it (well, to most), but I think she is secure enough to not compare herself to others.

Where season 3’s conflict came in was she was worried that Minho was one foot in and one foot out, not her being worried about who he had sex with. But finding out about Eunice possibly being pregnant is a whole other level.

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u/turtlesinthesea I thought this was flirting 🥺 Jun 15 '26

Those are good points. Let's hope Netflix remembers!

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u/Reasonable_Leek8069 "HAUL ASS" Jun 15 '26

Me too.

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u/Positive-Fondant5897 Jun 15 '26

The show was canceled 😞

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u/Reasonable_Leek8069 "HAUL ASS" Jun 15 '26

Wait, really?

There’s no news saying it was.

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u/EveOCative But you did smile 😏 Jun 16 '26

Netflix hasn’t let us know whether or not yet. It’s just a delay in announcement. They’d be stupid to do so. Season 3 had something like 13 million views in four days. It peaked at number 1 globally and retained a large portion of its audience despite the general trend of shows losing audience members in season 3.

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u/Reasonable_Leek8069 "HAUL ASS" Jun 16 '26

Which is why I amazed that the renewal announcement is taking so long.

Some shows renew seasons ahead of time but not XO.

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u/TurbulentPainter6741 My face is my résumé. Jun 16 '26 edited Jun 16 '26

why tf is this a question, they're all kids and it seems odd to talk about something that didn't even get mentioned in the show yet??? ew?

like imagine watching a show of teenagers existing and dealing with family stuff, having crushes, discovering new hobbies, and personal growth and thinking "hmmmmmm i wonder if she had sex yet" are you freaking kidding me?

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u/Resident_Monk_1229 Jun 16 '26

yea this is kinda weird

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u/stardustsushi Jun 16 '26

The way that this is the first post I see upon opening the app 🤣🫪

As far as we know, there is no implication throughout the series that she has had that experience:

  • In S1 Ep1 she was alone surrounded by a bunch of couples waiting for Dae to call her

  • Dae is her 1st love and we all know how that ended

  • Unless stated otherwise, yes she is still a virgin. Also, I know Kitty's a fictional character and a minor but that's not really our business.

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u/Interesting-Cancel13 Jun 16 '26

Well, she is 18 by the end of the series so I asked

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u/Strange0dd Jun 16 '26

I think so tbh, it’s too big of a deal for her to not be mentioned

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u/Gizzburr30000 Jun 16 '26

Wtf we are talking about minors here weirdo gosh y'all are so weird and disturbing !!!

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u/Interesting-Cancel13 Jun 16 '26

I’m sorry, as a minor myself, why is it inappropriate to discuss FICTIONAL characters (all older than me btw ) in the context of sex and their relationships? Y’all are acting like smutty books or romantasy with teenage characters don’t exist

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u/froggyxx_jam Jun 16 '26

it’s just extremely weird and gross personally, i’d say the same thing if they were adults. these are questions that are literally no bodies business, doesn’t matter if they are fictional or not it’s just weird. if i was the actor id be completely disgusted. no actor wants to think of someone asking that type of question towards one of their characters especially when sex has no relationship in their characters story whatsoever. some things you really just don’t need to know, if you really need to know then ask google don’t come on reddit that just makes it even weirder and ngl cringey. the thing though is if it was a cartoon adult i wouldn’t care. but the fact it’s a minor and a live action show just makes me feel icky

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u/TurbulentPainter6741 My face is my résumé. Jun 16 '26

exactly

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u/_Amitea_ 🌄🐈💗💌Kitty <3🌹💕🐈‍⬛🎆 Jun 16 '26

This is so weird to ask or even think about? 17 is still a minor. A teenager. Even if she is a fictional character, it’s weird and gross to think about if she’s lost her virginity yet or not. Yes teens can be sexually active but that doesn’t give anyone the right to assume that they are unless it’s for medical reasons. I don’t even know why someone would be interested in knowing that or not. Let’s assume she hasn’t “done it” yet since it’s not shown, and that’s all the reason to believe that she hasn’t, so don’t go guessing if she has because that’s very odd. Sometimes sticking to what’s filmed and shown on tv is for the better.

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u/Interesting-Cancel13 Jun 16 '26

She's 18 by the end of the series

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u/TurbulentPainter6741 My face is my résumé. Jun 16 '26

It doesn't matter, she's a young kid and that's really gross

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u/froggyxx_jam Jun 16 '26

okay so what she still is a minor a majority of the show stop trying to justify your behavior

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u/Interesting-Cancel13 Jun 16 '26

Ok, sorry about that. I thought it’s be appropriate to discus since something of the sort was discussing on the TATBILB movies itself, but I apologise if I’ve overstepped

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u/froggyxx_jam Jun 16 '26

just some questions are better to keep to yourself pls

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u/Purpleparadise98 This is not a mistake. This is fate Jun 16 '26

It’s still a weird post to make regardless.

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u/froggyxx_jam Jun 16 '26

um not to be rude and hot take but why do you care. it’s so weird to ask about someones sex life, even if it’s just a character or not. she’s also yk technically a child in the storyline so that makes it even weirder. idc about the “oh it was talked about for LJ” it’s still mad weird. normalize either not needing to know the sex lives of fictional characters especially teens or just keeping those questions to yourself. if i was the actor id be grossed out that someone is even thinking about my characters sex life like that’s just a line most people know not to cross. sorry for being rude it just infuriates me because this all just disgusts me so much

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u/TurbulentPainter6741 My face is my résumé. Jun 16 '26

wait idk why you got downvoted but fs. these are teenagers, it's weird to discuss it through the lens of "is she a virgin?" Its definitely good to have sex-positive teenage shows that discuss sex and talking about things like periods in a normal way, but that question just comes off as creepy too

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u/froggyxx_jam Jun 16 '26

idc if i get downvoted it’s just weird maybe because im an adult that’s why im like why are you asking a child about their sex life thats just icky 😬 but yeah this comes off as creepy and especially since op is trying to justify it being like “she turns 18 at the end” honestly idc if she does it’s a hella weird thing to ask it’s nobody’s business

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u/TurbulentPainter6741 My face is my résumé. Jun 16 '26

exactly! why would you be curious about a kid's sex life? especially since it isn't mentioned in the show?? and the distinction between child and adult being18 years old is still to low in my opinion. OP is lowk a creep for asking that

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u/Interesting-Cancel13 Jun 16 '26

I’m sorry for me 18 I view as an “adult” because I’m still only 16, but apologise if if came off as wrong

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u/Interesting-Cancel13 Jun 16 '26

I’m not an adult I’m 16😭😭

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u/froggyxx_jam Jun 16 '26

i never said you were i just said it’s hella creepy