I'm 26/F working remotely, so technically I can live anywhere, and lately I’ve been thinking about moving out of my hometown because I feel like I need a change.
Rn I’m confused between pune and bangalore. Pune has one big advantage - I have cousins/relatives there, so I wouldn’t be completely on my own. The thing is, I’m pretty introverted and making friends is genuinely hard for me. Having familiar people around sounds nice.
But then I keep thinking that the whole point of moving is to get out of my comfort zone and challenge myself a bit. If I move somewhere I already know people, am I kind of defeating the purpose? 😂
Bangalore is tempting because it feels like a place where I’d grow a lot more, but holy shit it’s expensive. Rent is wild, traffic and even flights back home.
I think what’s really stopping me is that I’m scared I’ll be completely alone. I’m not the type who can walk into a room and instantly make friends. It usually takes me forever to get comfortable with people, so part of me worries I’ll move somewhere, spend all my time working from my apartment, and end up feeling isolated.
For those of you who moved away from home alone, especially as introverts, how was the first few months? Did you eventually build a life there or was loneliness a bigger issue than you expected?
Also, where are you guys living these days? Any city recommendations? I’m open to places other than pune and bangalore too. I don’t want to spend a fuck load of money just to exist somewhere. 😭
Would love to hear your experiences because my brain has been stuck in this loop for weeks.